Family

[prayingmother]

Please lift my family up in prayer. My daughter has accused my husband of "yet" another thing. The first accusation was found out to be a lie, but no sooner than that happened, she accused him of doing something again. It has gotten to the point of having to tell my daughter that she is no longer welcomed in our home because of her lies. I know she drinks alot, but I'm not sure is she's on drugs. She lives about an hour away from us with her children. I have her recorded on my cell phone for our protection. You can hear her encouraging our grandson into saying things that are very far fetched. Especially, since we haven't seen them for a month. My heart is so broken. I have so many mixed emotions, it isn't funny. My husband is dealing with his own feelings as well and we're trying to stay strong through this all, but these lies have literally, torn our family apart. We know that we must forgive her, no matter what, but the trust is no longer there. It's very sad because we are the only family she has here in NY. Everyone else is in TX. We have helped her so many times, only to be hurt time and time again. But the accusations are very severe and can even stir up into something legal if she doesn't lighten up.

I have given her and my grandchildren up to God to care and be with them. That is all I can do. I have avoided her phone calls today because all she does is scream and accuse and cuss me out as if I was scum of the Earth. I am her mother. I do not deserve that kind of language. I have respected her as my child, as the adult she has grown to be and as the mother of my grandchildren. I have helped her but never stepped over the boundaries of disrespect. I pray that God has mercy on her and my grandchildren because I know the Bible says that we are to honor our parents.

I pray that God sends someone extra kind, yet spiritually strong to be with her and to help her and her children. I hate that our conversation ended last night with a hang up (on her part) because she doesn't want to listen to reason, she wants me to agree with her, no questions asked.

We (as a family unit in my home) have so much more on our plate than to deal with this nonsense my daughter has fabricated. My husband's uncle was just diagnosed with cancer (lymphoma) and will be having that removed as well as a triple bypass on June 2nd. My youngest will be graduating within a few weeks. I expect family from TX to come celebrate with us, but unfortunately, my daughter will not be part of this occasion.

Again, my heart is soooo deeply hurt. and it's not the hurt that is keeping me from daughter. It's the risk that I take of having her continuously looking for trouble.

If this is an evil spirit that has a stronghold on her, then, I pray that it releases her and goes back to the pit of hell. I want my daughter back, but I want her to live her life right and not drink or do drugs anymore. Will I or my husband ever trust her? Only time will tell, but she has done so much harm to us (physically, mentally, emotionally and financially).

Thank you for reading and praying for us. Pray for each of us as we are all dealing with this differently. My husband, myself, my son, my 2nd daughter, the daughter who's causing the problems and her 3 children (as well as outside family and friends). God bless you. <3

 

[Christine]

Dear Lord

I ask for Your wisdom and guidance for this mom and for Your peace to fill her heart. Please show her how to respond to her daughter, even how to pray for her and the grand kids. Please reign in this family. Help each member to submit to Your authority and will. In Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[kaatazze]

Jesus, thank You that this mother is offering prayers for Your help within her family. like so many mothers including myself; we speak the truth when see our childreb damaging their body, mind and soul. You created us to be parents; and all we can do is give them back to You to mend them and mold them the way You want them to go. i ask that the daughter listen to Your yearning drawing her closer to You; not only for herself but the protection of her own children, whom You entrusted her care.

if she is in drugs and or alcohol i speak deliverance of these unclean spirits. may she have a reverse effect on what she consumes and that in the midst You will appear and beckon her to follow You. as You forgave us of our sins; thank God that the mother can do the same for her daughter. it is difficult to see Your child is destroying the body that You gave her and destroying the family; i know that You have a plan and that You will breathe the Holy Spirit in the mother to keep her strong and focused on You; whatever pain and suffering she is going thru with her daughter; i know that she will be rewarded because she continues to hold her daughter to You.

i speak healing on her husband's uncle; heal him completely and may be return to glorify You in their presence. use the family to minister to others, saving lost souls; as well as those in this family. send them to this site as vessels for You as You favor their needs. AMEN!

 

[silentangel]

Lord Jesus, I come to your throne tonight. I feel this mother's hurt and anquish. Her heart is breaking in two. She is being pulled so many ways at once. Lord, I ask for your loving arms to wrap around this family in their time of need.

You know the heart and mind of her daughter causing the family problem. Lord, I pray for unity in the family. I pray that this situation would have a turn around, that the daughter will see her sin, confess it and restore the relationship with her parents and siblings. May you bring down the strongholds around this family. Let no weapons formed against them prosper. Lord, may your will be done. I pray for the extended family. I ask for healing, Lord. I stand with the other warriors who have gathered and touch their prayers. To you be the glory. Praise you, Lord. Amen

 

[prayingmother]

Thank you all for your prayers. I know God is working in us (our family). God bless you. <3