Family Protection

[Cralmilan]

Jesus, I'm lifting up my family before the throne of grace, where our Lord hears the cries of His children. My heart is heavy with concern, and I am pleading the precious blood of Jesus over every member of my household. Lord You see the isolation, ungratefulness and desrespect that has been happening the past few weeks toward my me and my son. Lord I pray tonight that You will step in and fight this battle for me and my son. Speak to my older daughter about her action and luring my younger daughter to go along with this. Lord You see how this is hurtful for me and harmful for my son. Protect us and guide my younger daughter to not fall into this destruction events and plots his young man has instigate. Lord, I pray that You protect my son and me from all these spiritual attacks that are manifesting. I pray that everyone will see this young mans' controlling and degrading ways. Lord protect me and my family from division and isolation, chaos, gossiping, mocking that are manifesting these past few days. Lord I ask that You heal my son from the confusion and spiritual attacks he is under. I know nothing is impossible for You. I am pleading for Your Divine protection. Lord, I ask for complete restoration, respect, gratefulness and fellowship in my family and for all negative influences, division, isolation, jealousy and all spiritual attacks to be permanently removed forever. No weapon formed against me and my family shall prosper, for greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Father, I come before You with hearts grieved by the spiritual warfare, division, isolation and stubborn hold raging against me and my children. Lord, it is overwhelming and I ask that You completely remove this young man and his mother from my older daughter's life. Lord please remove the strong stubborn hold these people has upon my older daughter today. I rebuke every spirit of division, ungratefulness, hatred, manipulation, control, isolation, exhaustion, word curse,isolation, division, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate my home. I declare complete freedom and restoration for me and my children. I ask Jesus for Your mercy upon my family and remove this young man and his mother completely for my older daughter's life swiftly as they are trying to divide me and my younger daughter they have started to convince my younger daughter move. Lord, I know nothing is impossible for You. And I ask You remove these destructive people. They have caused exhaustion, financial hardship, worthlessness and separation in my older daughter's life and havoc in our family. Lord I ask for every generational curse, word curse, witchcraft and negative influences to break and flee in the mighty name of Jesus. Guide my older daughter to release this man from her life, let her not ignore the destruction, financial exploitation, worthlessness, mood swings and exhaustion he has caused in her life and I pray that she will be truthful to the desrespect, isolation, division he has caused in her life. The blood of Jesus has already overcome every power of darkness, and I stand on that victory (Colossians 2:15). I declare that the peace and unity of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard the hearts and minds of my family forever(Philippians 4:7). Lord, help my daughter out of this ungodly relationship that dishonors You. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage, and it has opens the door to spiritual bondage, attacks and deception (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Jesus, give clarity to my older daughter that this man is selfish and he is not ready for a relationship, he is not her significant other, he is not her responsibility to take care of, and she does not belong to him. She belong to You, Lord. I ask Lord that You guide her back home swiftly with no regret only a feeling of freedom, safe, joy, and satisfaction. I pray that You would open her eyes to the truth of Your Word and the red flags she has been blinded to. Remove the stubbornness that has taken root in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness and the want to move back. Break the hold this man and his family have over her, and reveal to her the toxicity and exploitation of this relationship. Father, I ask that You would frustrate every plan, plot, or scheme of these people to isolate, divide, and destroy my daughter from our family and turn her heart back to You and to those who love her unconditionally (Malachi 4:6). Lord, open my older daughter's heart and mind. Remind her of the value she was raised with and the love of our family. Jesus, remove all pride, shame, or pressure that keeps her from seeing the truth. Guide her away, Lord, from this living in situations that will harm her future and her purpose. Jesus, lead her away from this ungodly living arrangement, and bring her back home to safety, stability, and wisdom. Jesus, guide her to never obey this man and put him and his family before her faith, her parent, her siblings, and extended families. This young man and his mother's behavior to cause division, isolation, chaos and strife has been manifesting, and I ask Lord for Your divine protection, courage, and strength to keep our fellowship and bond as a family. Jesus, guide my daughter to stop taking on undue responsibilities to take care of this man, let her see he is not ready for a marriage. Give her the wisdom to stop defending and giving a false image of him to others. He is heartless toward her and is a very selfish, lazy, dishonest and rebellious man. Please Lord, save her and have mercy upon her, get her out of this toxic relationship with this man swiftly. Lord, frustrate all his plans right now. I also lift up my younger daughter, praying that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example set before her. Protect her heart as this man and his mother damage the sweetest bond she has with her older sister and brother. Protect her from the divisive tactics of this man and his mother, and surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). May she never be ungrateful toward me and hateful toward her brother. Jesus, I ask for Your protection over and around her from this man and his mother and strengthen our family's fellowship and unity. Father, I pray for my son with disabilities, that he would be surrounded by love, acceptance, and protection. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. Protect him from the hatred, mockery, isolation, divisiveness, exclusion, word curses and witchcraft that stem from this young man's mother and any other negative influences. I rebuke all spiritual attacks, Lord I ask that You command them to flee and never return to torment him. Saturate him with Your peace and protection always. Strengthen his relationship with me, his sisters, caregivers and our extended families. Remove from his life any friendships or influences that look down on him, and replace them with those who will uplift and cherish him. Bless him with peace, joy, love, satisfaction, and the knowledge of Your unconditional love for him. Jesus, protect him from the hateful and demeaning way this young man's mother looks at him. Block all her word curses upon his life. I declare that my home will be a sanctuary of God’s presence, where love, unity, and peace reign. I pray for the restoration of the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Father, mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. Restore our peace, unconditional love, joy and happiness again. Lord, I ask for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of Your provision. I rebuke every spirit of lack and poverty, and I declare that my family will walk in the abundance of Your blessings (Philippians 4:19). I pray for godly spouses for both of my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25) someone who will respect their upbringings. May my daughter seek husbands who walk in Your ways, rather than being drawn to those who would lead them astray. Father, I ask for Your divine intervention in this situation. Remove the ungodly influences from my family’s life, and replace them with godly mentors, friendships, and relationships that will draw us closer to You. I pray for the complete restoration of my older daughter’s heart, that she would turn away from this toxic relationship and return to the safety and love of her family, swiftly. May she rediscover her worth in You and reject the lies that have been spoken over her. Jesus, guard her future. Protect her credit, her finances, her relationship with me, her siblings, family, her faith, and her reputation so that nothing done in this toxic relationship will cause resentment/hate toward our supportive family and destroy what she has worked so hard to build. Father, I also bring this young man's mother before You. She is acting like my daughter's mother and interfering in ways that harm my daughter, please stop that ungodly selfish influence. She encourages my daughter to take care of her son because she does not want to deal with his rebellious behavior. I pray that You correct this situation. Lead this young man's mother to take of her responsibility for guiding and correcting her own son rather than placing that burden and undue responsibilities on my daughter which place financial hardship on her and our family because we have to help her. My daughter has incurred a lot of debt since she moved in with this young man which was initiated by this young man's mother. Lord, remove all the pride, manipulation, look down upon, and harmful words that make my daughter feel small, ashamed, or feel that my daughter has to play as if she has to be dependent on them or put our family down to make his mother feel good about guiding her. Jesus, teach this mother that my daughter is not homeless and that she has a supportive family and that my daughter needs her guidance or her approval. Father, I am concerned for my daughter's health. She already struggles with breathing, and this young man continues habits like smoking that make it worse. Jesus, protect her health and open her eyes to the harm this environment may be causing her health and open her eyes to the harm this environment may be causing her physically. Jesus, I pray that my daughter will not move deeper into this ungodly situation or become more dependent on them. Instead, lead her away from this unhealthy environment and guide her back to a place of stability, safety, love, and wisdom. Bring her back home where she can rebuild her strength, her health, and her future. Father, stop the division that has been created between my daughter and our family due to this young man's rebellious controlling behaviors. Lord, heal the hurt and restore love, communication, love, and respect. Lord, please protect me and my other children from the bullying, judgment, division, and hurtful words that have come from this situation. Give peace and strength while Your work in ways only You can, Lord. Jesus, I ask for strength for myself and for my other children. Heal the hurt we feel in this troubling situation. Saturate us with peace in our heart and protect our family division. Jesus, bless my daughter back to a path that will bless her life rather than destroy it. I declare that the enemy’s plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). I plead the blood of Jesus over every member of my household, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. May we walk in the fullness of Your blessings, and may our lives reflect Your glory to all who know us. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear the heaviness of your heart and we stand with you before the throne of grace lifting up your family together in Jesus name. We join you in pleading the precious blood of Jesus over your household and we thank you for crying out so faithfully for your children. The Lord sees the isolation, the disrespect, the ungratefulness, the gossip, the mocking and the division that has been pressing upon you and your son, and He is not distant from your pain.

We agree with you that this is spiritual warfare and we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in heavenly places Ephesians 6:12. We rebuke every spirit of division, control, manipulation, jealousy, exhaustion and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate your home, and we declare that no weapon that is formed against you will prevail Isaiah 54:17 and greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world 1 John 4:4.

We must speak clearly in love about what you have rightly discerned. Your older daughter living together outside of marriage with this young man is not in alignment with God's holy design. Scripture calls us to flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. We are to glorify God in our bodies for we have been bought with a price 1 Corinthians 6:19-20. Living together as if married when not married opens the door to spiritual bondage, deception, financial exploitation and deep confusion, and it dishonors the Lord and the daughter He created. We affirm your prayer that she would be delivered from this ungodly relationship. Marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman ordained by God to reflect Christ and the church, and courtship should be with the goal of finding a godly spouse who is a believer in Christ. We pray she will see that this man is not her husband, not her covering, not her responsibility to provide for, and that she belongs first to the Lord.

We also hear your concern that your younger daughter is being lured and influenced. We pray with you that she will not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness and iniquity or what fellowship has light with darkness 2 Corinthians 6:14. We ask the Lord to surround her with godly friendships and mentors, to guard her heart from ungratefulness and division, and to keep the sweet bond she has with you and her siblings strong and pure. We pray she will desire a godly marriage in the Lord's timing rather than imitating the broken example before her.

For your precious son, we rejoice with you that he is fearfully and wonderfully made and a blessing from the Lord. We rebuke every word curse, every look of contempt, every spirit of mockery and exclusion that has come from this young man and his mother and any other source. We ask the Father to saturate your son with peace, joy and the assurance of His unconditional love, to protect him from confusion and spiritual attack, and to strengthen his fellowship with you, his sisters and all who truly cherish him.

For you, we pray for renewed strength as you stand in the gap. The Lord will fight for you, and you shall be still Exodus 14:14. We ask God to frustrate every plan and scheme to divide, isolate and destroy your family, to turn the heart of your older daughter back to the Lord and to her family Malachi 4:6, to remove the stubborn hold and the pride and shame that keeps her bound, and to open her eyes to the financial hardship, exhaustion, worthlessness and health harm this environment is causing. We pray the Lord will protect her health, her finances, her reputation and her future, and guide her swiftly back home to safety, stability and wisdom with no regret but with freedom and joy.

We join you in praying for complete restoration, respect, gratefulness and fellowship in your home, for the peace of God which surpasses all understanding to guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:7, and for the Lord to supply every need according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19 so you may be a testimony of His provision. We pray for godly husbands for your daughters in the Lord's perfect time, men who will love their wives even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself up for it Ephesians 5:25, who will honor marriage and respect the godly upbringing you have given.

We pray together now.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved and by which we have access to Your throne. We plead the blood of Jesus over this mother, her son, her younger daughter and her older daughter. We thank You that You have disarmed the principalities and the powers, making a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them in Christ Colossians 2:15. We ask You to command every spirit of division, isolation, control, hatred, manipulation and strife to flee from this home and never return. Heal this son from confusion and attack, let him dwell in the shelter of the Most High and rest in Your shadow Psalm 91:1, and let him know daily that he is cherished and not a burden. Protect the younger daughter from deception and keep her steadfast in faith. Break the hold this young man and his mother have over the older daughter, remove the stubbornness, open her eyes to the red flags, the selfishness, laziness and dishonesty she has been blinded to, and lead her out of fornication and into freedom. Let her see she does not need their approval and that she has a loving family and a future in You. Frustrate every plot to isolate her and to convince her younger sister to follow the same destructive path. Restore communication, respect and unconditional love among all of you, heal what has been wounded and mend what has been torn. Pour out financial wisdom and provision, guard health, and let Your presence reign in this home as a sanctuary of love, unity and peace. We ask for complete deliverance and restoration, that Your name alone be glorified in this family. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how heavy this has been for you, carrying concern for each of your children at once while also feeling disrespect and isolation in your own home. Loving a daughter who is making painful choices, wanting to shield a younger daughter from being pulled in the same direction, and protecting a son who deserves to feel cherished and safe is a lot to hold.

It makes sense that you are longing for peace and fellowship to be restored. When a family is under strain like this, steady, calm connection often matters more than trying to fix everything at once. Continuing to keep the door open with your older daughter in brief, kind ways, without taking on debt or responsibilities that are not yours to carry, can help her know she is still loved and still has a safe place to return to. At home, keeping simple routines of warmth and respect for your younger daughter and your son helps guard the unity you do have.

You mentioned your daughter's breathing struggles in an environment with smoking. Alongside prayer, we encourage you to gently urge her to see a trusted medical provider for that concern.

Father, we lift this mother and her children to You. Cover this home with Your peace, guard the hearts of these daughters and this son, and give this mom wisdom, strength and rest as she waits on You. Lead each one toward what is healthy, stable and good, and restore kindness and respect in their family. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Wernad]

Lord, please protect this family from division, manipulation, and spiritual attack. Remove every ungodly influence, restore unity, and bring healing and peace to their home. Amen.


- "No weapon forged against you will prevail." — Isaiah 54:17
- "The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still." — Exodus 14:14
- "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." — Psalm 147:3
- "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him." — Romans 15:13

 

[Spurgeon]

Your cry has been brought before the throne of grace, where our Lord hears the cries of His children, and we join you in pleading the precious blood of Jesus over your household. The Covenant of Grace, sealed and ratified by the blood of the Son of God, is your sure ground, and the atonement by blood and the immutable love of the ever blessed Three in One remain your witness and your hope.

We hear the heaviness of your heart, the isolation and disrespect shown to you and to your son, the division and chaos that have entered your home, and the deep concern for both your daughters and for your son whom God has entrusted to your care. In such afflictions the believer learns to say, The Lord has chastened me sorely, and to perceive that even when sorrows come distinctly through the malice or persecution of others, they are permitted by the Father's hand. For this reason we wisely moderate our anger against second causes and say, The will of the Lord be done, while still crying mightily for deliverance. The more talk we get from the mouth of faith, the better, for her lips drop sweet smelling myrrh, and a silent faith robs God of His glory. Therefore we will declare the works of the Lord, that you shall not die but live to tell of His mercy.

We do not ask God to bless what His Word calls sin, for salvation is through Jesus Christ alone, and marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and to live together outside of that covenant is not marriage. As you have rightly discerned, it dishonors the Lord and opens the door to spiritual bondage and deception, for the body is the temple of the Holy Ghost and we are called to flee fornication and to glorify God in body and spirit as taught in 1 Corinthians 6:18 to 20. We will not celebrate or affirm that arrangement, but we will pray that the Lord in mercy will open your older daughter's eyes to see it as He sees it, to see the selfishness, laziness, dishonesty and rebellious ways you have described, the financial exploitation and exhaustion, the mood swings and the worthlessness she has been made to feel, and the controlling and degrading influence that has sought to isolate her from those who love her most.

We pray that the Lord who has delivered us from the power of darkness and translated us into the kingdom of His dear Son will do that same mighty work for her. Deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin, and where we look for justification there must we also look for sanctification. May He break the stubborn hold that has taken root in her heart, remove pride and shame and pressure that blinds her, and replace it with a hunger for righteousness and a desire for that which is stable and wise and safe. We ask that He would frustrate every plan and plot to divide and isolate, that He would turn her heart again to her family as promised in Malachi 4:6, that she would no longer defend a false image of this man nor take upon herself undue responsibility to care for him as though she belonged to him, for she belongs to Christ. We pray that He would guard her health, her breathing which already suffers, her finances and credit, her reputation and her future, and guide her swiftly to a place of freedom and joy and satisfaction, whether that be returning home to rebuild her strength under your roof or walking in a path that honors Him.

For your younger daughter we pray that she may remain steadfast in faith and not be swayed by an ungodly example. May she be kept from seeing cohabitation as an acceptable path, and may she be surrounded with godly friendships and mentors who encourage her in the ways of the Lord, that she may in due time seek a spouse who honors Christ and values the sanctity of marriage, even as we pray for both your daughters that the Lord would in His time provide godly husbands who love as Christ loves the church according to Ephesians 5:25 and 2 Corinthians 6:14. Keep her heart from ungratefulness and hatred, and preserve the sweet bond she has with her brother and sister.

For your son, so dear to the Lord and to you, we plead special protection. He is not a burden but a blessing, fearfully and wonderfully made, and we ask the Lord to surround him with love and acceptance, to saturate him with peace, to block every word curse and mockery and demeaning look, and to command every spiritual attack to flee and never return to torment him. May his relationships with you, his sisters, caregivers and extended family be strengthened, and may the Lord lift up the poor from the dunghill while He casts down the mighty from their seats, drying up the green tree and making the dry tree to flourish, for He smites great powers for His mercy endures forever. We ask that angels may have charge over him to keep him in all his ways as promised in Psalm 91:11, and that your home may be a sanctuary where the peace of God which passes all understanding guards hearts and minds according to Philippians 4:7.

For you, pressed with exhaustion, financial hardship, gossiping and mocking, we pray that you may know that the Lord fights for you as in Exodus 14:14, that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, for greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world according to 1 John 4:4. The prisoner ready to be executed has found undeserved deliverance because the King's own Son has borne the penalty, and the clock of mercy has struck the hour of deliverance for all who look unto Christ and are saved. Look out of yourself and away from yourself and look to Christ, for He has found the ransom in Himself, giving Himself to bleed and die for sinners, and He has triumphed over principalities and powers as in Colossians 2:15.

We pray for complete restoration of respect, gratefulness and fellowship in your family, for the breaking of every generational curse and word curse and influence of darkness, for financial provision according to Philippians 4:19 not for selfish gain but that you may be a blessing, and for the mending of what has been torn and the healing of what has been wounded. We pray that this young man and his mother would no longer exercise ungodly influence over your daughter, that the mother would take responsibility for her own son rather than placing that burden upon your daughter, and that all manipulation and harmful words that make your daughter feel small or dependent would be brought to nothing.

Abide faithful to the Gospel of the grace of God, grapple the truths He has taught you as with hooks of steel, keep in the appointed ways of the Lord and forsake not your Father's God, for there alone is angelic protection and divine keeping. May you be kept from willfulness and guided by the Holy Spirit, who alone can lead you into all truth and give power to carry out the will of God.

We plead the blood of Jesus over every member of your household and ask that the Lord would guard you, give you courage and strength, and let your family be a beacon of His light, declaring with the psalmist, I shall not die but live and declare the works of the Lord. In the mighty name of Jesus we pray, Amen.