We are deeply moved by your cry for help, and we stand with you in this spiritual battle, for we know that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12). You are not alone in this, dear sibling in Christ, for the Lord sees your pain, hears your pleas, and is mighty to save. We are grieved to hear of the emotional and spiritual torment you are enduring, especially at the hands of those who should be a source of love and support. Family can be one of the greatest blessings, but when brokenness enters in, it can also become a profound source of wounding. Yet even in this, God is sovereign, and He can turn what the enemy means for harm into something that draws you closer to Him and ultimately brings glory to His name.
We must first remind you—and ourselves—that your hope and identity are not found in the approval or treatment of others, no matter how deeply their words or actions may cut. Your worth is rooted in Christ, who has redeemed you, called you by name, and declared you His own (Isaiah 43:1). The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). He collects your tears in His bottle (Psalm 56:8), and He will not allow this suffering to be wasted. Cling to this truth when the weight of your circumstances threatens to overwhelm you.
It is clear that you are under spiritual attack, and we take seriously your request for prayer against the schemes of the enemy. The Bible tells us that Satan prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour (1 Peter 5:8), but greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). We will pray fervently that the Lord surrounds you with His heavenly host, that He places a hedge of protection around your mind, heart, and spirit, and that every arrow of the enemy—whether it comes through accusation, fear, confusion, or the tongues of others—is extinguished by the blood of Jesus. The weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds (2 Corinthians 10:4). We will ask the Lord to break every stronghold of darkness in your family and to bring conviction, repentance, and healing where it is needed.
At the same time, we urge you to take practical steps to guard your heart and mind. While we pray for reconciliation and healing in your family, you must also set boundaries where necessary to protect your spiritual and emotional well-being. Jesus Himself sometimes withdrew from those who sought to harm Him (Luke 4:30, John 8:59), and there is wisdom in knowing when to step back from toxic or abusive situations. This is not a lack of love, but an act of stewardship over the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). Seek the Lord’s guidance on how to navigate these relationships with wisdom and grace, remembering that you are called to love others but not to enable sin or endure abuse without recourse.
We also encourage you to fill your mind with the Word of God, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). When the enemy whispers lies—whether through your family or your own thoughts—counter them with Scripture. For example, when you feel rejected, remind yourself that the Lord will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). When you feel weak, recall that His strength is made perfect in your weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). When you feel hopeless, declare that your hope is in Christ alone (1 Peter 1:3-4). Memorize verses that speak to your struggles and meditate on them day and night. The Word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword (Hebrews 4:12), and it will combat the lies of the enemy.
Additionally, we urge you to seek fellowship with other believers who can support you, pray with you, and speak truth into your life. Isolation is a tool of the enemy, but community is a gift from God. If you do not have a local church family, we strongly encourage you to find a Bible-believing church where you can be nourished spiritually and surrounded by brothers and sisters who will lift you up. There is power in corporate prayer and worship, and often the Lord moves mightily when His people gather in His name (Matthew 18:20).
Lastly, we want to address the depth of your emotional struggle. Depression and overwhelming sorrow are real battles, and they are not to be dismissed or minimized. The Psalms are filled with the raw, honest cries of God’s people in their distress, and David himself often pleaded with the Lord to lift him out of the depths (Psalm 40:1-3). If your burden feels too heavy to bear, we encourage you to seek godly counsel—whether from a pastor, a biblical counselor, or a mature believer who can walk alongside you. There is no shame in needing help, and sometimes the Lord provides healing through the hands and words of others. If your struggles include thoughts of harming yourself or giving up, we implore you to reach out for help immediately. Your life is precious to God, and He has a purpose for you (Jeremiah 29:11).
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sibling in Christ, who is weary, wounded, and under fierce attack. Lord, You see the depths of their pain, and You know the weight they carry. We ask that You surround them with Your presence, that You would be a shield about them and their glory, the lifter of their head (Psalm 3:3). Break every scheme of the enemy that seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). Lord, rebuked Satan and his demons from tormenting Your child. Send Your angels to encamp around them, to guard them in all their ways (Psalm 91:11). Let no weapon formed against them prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and let every tongue that rises against them in judgment be condemned (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, we pray for healing in their family. Soften hearts that are hardened, convict those who are speaking or acting in ways that bring harm, and bring repentance where it is needed. Lord, You are the God who reconciles and restores. We ask that You would do a mighty work in these relationships, that Your love would prevail, and that Your peace would rule in their home. Give our sibling wisdom to know how to respond, when to speak, and when to remain silent. Grant them discernment to recognize Your voice above all others and the courage to obey You, even when it is difficult.
Lord, we lift up their mind and emotions to You. You are the God of all comfort (2 Corinthians 1:3-4), and we ask that You would fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Heal the wounds in their heart, Lord, and replace their sorrow with Your joy. Restore their strength, renew their hope, and remind them that You are their refuge and fortress (Psalm 91:2). When they feel like they cannot go on, carry them. When they are overwhelmed, be their portion (Psalm 73:26).
Father, we pray that You would fill them with Your Word, that it would be a lamp to their feet and a light to their path. Let them meditate on Your promises day and night, and let Your truth be their defense against the lies of the enemy. Raise up godly people to come alongside them, to encourage them, and to pray with them. Do not let them walk this road alone.
Lord, we declare that You are their Deliverer, their Healer, and their Provider. We trust that You will bring beauty from these ashes (Isaiah 61:3) and that You will use this trial to draw them closer to You. Strengthen their faith, Lord, and let them emerge from this season with a testimony of Your faithfulness.
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who has overcome the world (John 16:33). Amen.
We will continue to lift you up in prayer, and we encourage you to keep seeking the Lord with all your heart. He is near to you, even in this darkness, and He will lead you through. Hold fast to Him, for He has promised never to leave you or forsake you. You are loved, you are seen, and you are not forgotten. May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit (Romans 15:13).
