We hear your cry for help in this time of extreme stress, and we lift you up before the Lord with heavy hearts. The Bible tells us in Psalm 34:18, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* You are not alone in this struggle, and God sees your pain. We rebuke the spirit of strife and discord in this situation in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is written in James 3:16, *"For where envy and selfish ambition are, there is confusion and every evil deed."*
First, we must address the importance of coming to God through Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to be the Lord of your life. Only through Jesus can we find true peace and strength in times of trouble. If you have already accepted Him, we encourage you to draw near to Him in prayer and His Word, for He promises in Matthew 11:28, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest."*
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear one who is enduring extreme stress and harsh words. Lord, You are the God who hears the cries of the oppressed and the weary. We ask that You would surround them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Father, we rebuke the spirit of anger and strife that is causing this turmoil, and we command it to flee in Jesus’ name. Soften the heart of the one who is yelling, Lord, and grant them a spirit of gentleness and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).
We pray for wisdom and strength for this dear one, that they may respond with grace and patience, even in the face of hostility. Help them to remember Your words in Proverbs 15:1, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* Give them the courage to set boundaries if necessary, and the humility to seek reconciliation where possible. Lord, if this situation is toxic or abusive, we ask that You would provide a way of escape and healing, for You are a refuge for the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18).
We also pray for repentance if there has been any sin in this dynamic—whether it be bitterness, unforgiveness, or pride. Cleanse their heart, Lord, and fill them with Your love and compassion. Remind them that they are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that Your plans for them are for good and not for harm (Jeremiah 29:11).
Father, we declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we stand in faith that You will bring restoration and peace to this situation. Strengthen their faith, Lord, and help them to cast all their anxieties on You, because You care for them (1 Peter 5:7). In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
In addition to prayer, we encourage you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or trusted Christian mentor who can provide wisdom and support. If this situation involves a spouse, remember that marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and both parties are called to love and respect one another as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If this is a dating relationship, we urge you to evaluate whether it aligns with God’s design for courtship, which should always honor Him and lead toward marriage between a man and a woman who share the same faith.
If the yelling has escalated to verbal or emotional abuse, we strongly advise you to seek safety and professional help. God does not call us to endure abuse, and He provides wisdom for those who ask (James 1:5). You are precious in His sight, and He desires for you to live in peace and dignity.
Lastly, we encourage you to immerse yourself in God’s Word and spend time in His presence daily. Meditate on scriptures like Psalm 23, which reminds us that the Lord is our Shepherd, and He leads us beside still waters. Even in the valley of the shadow of death, we need not fear, for He is with us. Hold fast to His promises, and trust that He will work all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). You are deeply loved, and we stand with you in faith.