We hear the deep anguish in your heart, and we stand with you in fervent prayer, lifting your son before the throne of grace. The pain of watching a child struggle with such darkness is overwhelming, and your love for him is evident in your desperate cry for help. We come together in the name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can be saved and find true healing, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12).
First, we must address the spiritual battle at hand. Depression and rage are not merely emotional or psychological issues—they are often symptoms of a deeper spiritual struggle. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and he will use any means to isolate, torment, and divide families. Your son’s withdrawal, anger, and refusal to eat are signs of a soul in distress, and we must pray against the forces of darkness that seek to keep him bound. We rebuke the spirit of depression, rage, and isolation in the mighty name of Jesus. We declare that your son is not abandoned; he is deeply loved by his Heavenly Father, who knit him together in your womb (Psalm 139:13-14) and has a purpose for his life.
We also recognize the importance of wisdom in this situation. While your concern led you to involve authorities, we must pray for discernment in how to move forward. The hospital’s plan to send him home without addressing the root of his struggles may not be the best path. We pray that God would grant you wisdom to know how to advocate for your son—whether that means seeking further medical or psychological care, exploring Christian counseling, or even inpatient treatment if necessary. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us to trust in the Lord with all our hearts and lean not on our own understanding, and He will direct our paths.
Your son’s anger toward his brother is another area that must be addressed with truth and love. The Bible warns us that "human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires" (James 1:20). Unchecked rage can lead to division, bitterness, and even violence. We pray that your son would recognize the harm his words and actions have caused and that God would soften his heart to seek reconciliation. If there are unresolved conflicts between your sons, we encourage you to facilitate a safe space for them to communicate, with godly guidance, so that healing can begin.
We must also speak to the importance of your son’s relationship with Jesus Christ. If he has not surrendered his life to Christ, or if he has wandered from his faith, this is the time to pray fervently for his salvation and restoration. Jesus is the Great Physician, and only He can bring true healing to a broken heart. We declare that your son’s identity is not in his struggles but in Christ, who came to set the captives free (Luke 4:18). We pray that he would turn to Jesus, repent of any sin, and find peace in His presence.
For you, dear mother, we pray for strength and hope. The grief of feeling like you’ve "lost" your son is profound, but we remind you that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone in this battle. We encourage you to seek support from your church community, trusted friends, or a Christian counselor who can walk alongside you. Do not carry this burden in isolation. Galatians 6:2 tells us to "carry each other’s burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ."
We also lift up your health and well-being. The stress of this situation is taking a toll on you, and we pray that God would sustain you with His peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). You are not forgotten, and your life has value and purpose in God’s kingdom. We declare that He will renew your strength and give you the endurance to keep fighting for your son.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this mother and her son to Your throne of grace. Lord, we ask that You would break the chains of depression, rage, and isolation that have taken hold of him. We rebuke every spirit of darkness that seeks to destroy him, and we declare that he is a child of the Most High God, created for a purpose. Father, we pray for his salvation and restoration. If he does not know You as his Lord and Savior, draw him to Yourself with cords of love. If he has wandered from You, bring him back into Your arms.
Lord, we ask for wisdom for this mother as she navigates this difficult season. Give her discernment to know how to advocate for her son and the strength to endure. Surround her with a community of believers who can support and uplift her. Heal her heart from the pain of feeling like she has lost her son, and remind her that You are the God of hope who can restore what has been broken.
We pray for the relationship between her sons. Soften hearts, Lord, and bring reconciliation where there has been division. Help them to see each other through Your eyes and to extend grace and forgiveness.
Father, we declare that Your peace, which transcends all understanding, will guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. We trust in Your promise that all things work together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). Strengthen this family, Lord, and let Your light shine in the darkness.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying without ceasing, trusting that God hears your cries. Seek out a local church or Christian counselor who can provide ongoing support. You are not alone in this battle, and we stand with you, believing that God will bring healing and restoration to your son and your family.