We hear your anguish, and our hearts break with yours. What has been done to you is unspeakably evil, an abomination before God and a violation of His sacred design for human dignity and purity. The Lord sees your pain, and He collects every tear you have shed. Psalm 56:8 says, "You count my wanderings. You put my tears into your bottle. Aren’t they in your book?" You are not forgotten. You are not abandoned. You are deeply loved by the One who formed you in your mother’s womb and calls you His own.
The wickedness of this man is not merely human depravity, it is demonic. The Bible warns us in Ephesians 6:12, "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." This man has not only sinned against you; he has opened himself to the influence of Satan, and his actions reveal a heart hardened by rebellion against God. His lust is not a "problem" to be managed, it is a sin that leads to destruction, both for himself and those he harms. James 1:14-15 tells us, "But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own lust and enticed. Then the lust, when it has conceived, bears sin; and the sin, when it is full grown, produces death." This man will answer to God for his choices, and we pray that his eyes would be opened to the horror of his ways before it is too late.
You are absolutely right, you should not be forced to finance his wickedness. The idea that you would bear the cost of his sin is an injustice that cries out to heaven. Proverbs 13:22 says, "A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children, but the wealth of the sinner is stored for the righteous." God does not intend for the righteous to be plundered by the wicked. We stand with you in declaring that this man must be held accountable, not only for the theft but for the violence he has committed against you. The Lord is a God of justice, and He will not let such evil go unanswered. Romans 12:19 reminds us, "Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’"
We must also address the spiritual warfare at play here. The mention of a "satanic warlock" is not to be taken lightly. The Bible warns us in 1 Peter 5:8, "Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour." This man has aligned himself with forces that seek to destroy, and his actions are a direct assault on the image of God in you. But we serve a God who is greater than the enemy. 1 John 4:4 declares, "You are of God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world." We rebuke the spirit of violence, theft, and perversion that has operated through this man, and we command it to flee in the name of Jesus Christ. There is no power in hell that can stand against the blood of Jesus and the authority of His name.
To those who might judge or dismiss your pain, you are right to call them out. Unless someone has walked through the fire of such violation, they cannot fully understand the depth of your suffering. But we want you to know this: Jesus understands. He was betrayed, beaten, mocked, and stripped of His dignity. He was despised and rejected by men, a man of suffering who knew grief intimately (Isaiah 53:3). He did not remain distant from your pain, He entered into it so that you would never have to carry it alone. Hebrews 4:15-16 says, "For we don’t have a high priest who can’t be touched with the feeling of our infirmities, but one who has been in all points tempted like we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and may find grace for help in time of need." You can come to Him with your raw, unfiltered pain, and He will meet you there.
We also want to gently address something that must be said: salvation is found in no other name but Jesus Christ. Acts 4:12 tells us, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." If you have not placed your trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so. He is the only one who can break the chains of trauma, shame, and fear that may be gripping your heart. He is the only one who can restore what has been stolen from you, your peace, your joy, your sense of safety. Romans 10:9 says, "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." This is not a mere religious formula, it is the doorway to true healing and eternal life.
Now, we lift you up in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, grieving over the evil that has been done to this precious one You have created. Lord, You see the depth of her pain, the violation of her body, the theft of her resources, and the assault on her spirit. We ask that You would wrap Your arms around her right now and let her feel Your presence in a tangible way. Comfort her as only You can, Father. Remind her that she is not defined by what has been done to her, but by who You say she is, Your beloved daughter, fearfully and wonderfully made.
We rebuke the spirit of fear, shame, and trauma that seeks to keep her bound. In the name of Jesus, we command every lie of the enemy to be shattered. We declare that no weapon formed against her will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, we ask that You would bring justice in this situation. Expose the wickedness of this man and hold him accountable for his crimes. Let him see the error of his ways and turn from his sin, or let him face the consequences of his actions in this life and the next.
Father, we pray for healing, physical, emotional, and spiritual. Touch every place of brokenness and restore what has been stolen. Give her the strength to walk through the process of healing, and surround her with godly people who will speak life and truth into her. We ask that You would provide for her needs, both financially and in every other way. You are Jehovah Jireh, the God who provides, and we trust You to meet her where she is.
Lord, if she does not yet know You as her Savior, we pray that she would surrender her heart to Jesus. Break the chains of bitterness, anger, and despair, and replace them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit and let her experience the freedom that comes from knowing You.
We stand in agreement with her for complete restoration and wholeness. We declare that she will rise from this ashes, stronger and more resilient, with a testimony that brings glory to Your name. Thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness and Your love. We trust You to complete the good work You have begun in her.
In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
You are not alone in this. The body of Christ stands with you, and we will continue to pray for your healing and restoration. If you are able, we encourage you to seek godly counseling, preferably from a Christian counselor who can help you process this trauma through the lens of Scripture. You may also need to pursue legal action to ensure this man is held accountable for his crimes. Do not carry this burden by yourself. Reach out to trusted believers who can walk with you through this valley.
And remember: what the enemy meant for evil, God can turn for good (Genesis 50:20). Your story is not over. Your healing is not optional, it is God’s promise to you. Isaiah 61:3 speaks of those who mourn being given "a garland instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, the garment of praise instead of a spirit of heaviness." That is God’s heart for you. Hold on to hope. Better days are coming.