We hear the deep pain and torment in your words, and our hearts ache with you as you endure this relentless spiritual and emotional assault. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and it is clear he is using this man as a vessel to attack your mind, your faith, and your very identity in Christ. But we stand with you in the authority of Jesus’ name, for He has already overcome the powers of darkness (Colossians 2:15), and no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
First, we must address the spiritual warfare at play here. The gaslighting, slander, and curses you describe are not merely human tactics—they are demonic schemes designed to isolate you, break your spirit, and sever your trust in God. But Scripture declares that we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, powers, and spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). This man is not your true enemy; he is a pawn being used by the devil. Your battle is not against him, but against the evil one who seeks to devour you (1 Peter 5:8).
We rebuke the spirit of deception, slander, and poverty that has been unleashed against you. In the name of Jesus, we command every lying tongue to be silenced, every curse to be broken, and every scheme of the enemy to be exposed and dismantled. The blood of Jesus has already defeated these forces, and we stand on that victory. "No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that accuses you in judgment. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and their righteousness is from Me," says the Lord (Isaiah 54:17).
Your husband, ###, has been a faithful defender, and we praise God for his courage. But we also recognize that this battle is not yours alone to fight. The Lord is your refuge and fortress (Psalm 91:2), and He calls His people to stand with you in prayer and support. We must also gently remind you that while the enemy seeks to isolate you, the body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2). Have you sought out a pastor, biblical counselor, or trusted believers who can stand with you in prayer and provide godly wisdom? Isolation is one of the enemy’s greatest weapons, and we must resist it by drawing near to the Lord and His people.
The claims this man makes—that your father "gave" you to him—are not only manipulative but entirely unbiblical. You are not property to be bartered or controlled. Scripture is clear that every person is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and has been given free will by God. No one has the right to claim dominion over you without your consent, and certainly not in a way that aligns with the kingdom of darkness. We renounce any ungodly soul ties, vows, or agreements that may have been spoken over your life, whether knowingly or unknowingly. In Jesus’ name, we break every ungodly covenant and declare your freedom in Christ.
The curses of poverty spoken over you must also be addressed. The enemy wants you to believe that lack and bondage are your destiny, but God’s Word declares that He came to give you life abundantly (John 10:10) and that He supplies all your needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). We speak blessing over your finances, your provision, and your future. We declare that the devourer will be rebuked for your sake (Malachi 3:11), and that you will walk in the prosperity and abundance that God has ordained for you. Poverty is not your portion; it is a lie from the pit of hell.
Now, we must also address the legal aspect of this harassment. While spiritual warfare is the root, there may be practical steps you need to take to protect yourself. Have you considered documenting every instance of harassment, slander, or defamation? Have you sought legal counsel to explore options for a restraining order or cease-and-desist letter? The Bible instructs us to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves (Matthew 10:16), and sometimes that means using the legal systems God has established to protect the innocent. We are not called to be passive in the face of evil, but to resist it with the tools God provides.
We also want to encourage you to guard your heart and mind. The enemy’s goal is to wear you down, to make you doubt your sanity, and to erode your faith. But we declare that you are not going mad—you are under attack, and the Lord is your defender. Fill your mind with Scripture, meditate on God’s promises, and surround yourself with worship music that lifts your spirit. The psalmist wrote, "Why are you cast down, O my soul? And why are you disquieted within me? Hope in God; for I shall yet praise Him, the help of my countenance and my God" (Psalm 42:11). You are not alone, and you are not forgotten.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the Name that is above every name, the Name at which every knee must bow. Lord, we lift up this precious sister who is under relentless attack from the enemy. We thank You that she is fearfully and wonderfully made, that she is Your beloved daughter, and that no weapon formed against her shall prosper. We break every curse, every lie, and every scheme of the enemy that has been spoken over her life. We command every demonic spirit of deception, slander, poverty, and isolation to flee in Jesus’ name.
Father, we ask that You would expose every hidden work of darkness and bring it into the light. Give her discernment to recognize the enemy’s tactics and wisdom to respond with Your truth. Surround her with godly believers who will stand with her in prayer and support. Strengthen her husband, ###, as he defends and protects her, and give him the words to speak life and truth over her.
Lord, we declare that this harassment will cease. We speak peace over her mind, restoration over her reputation, and abundance over her finances. We rebuke the spirit of poverty and declare that she will walk in the prosperity You have ordained for her. We ask that You would bind the hands of this man who is being used by the enemy and that You would turn his heart toward repentance. If he will not repent, then we ask that You would remove him from her life completely.
Father, we also ask that You would heal every wound in her heart and mind. Restore her joy, her peace, and her faith. Remind her that she is not alone, that You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Fill her with Your Holy Spirit and let her feel Your presence in a tangible way.
We thank You, Lord, that You are a God who sees, who hears, and who acts on behalf of Your children. We trust that You will bring justice and deliverance in this situation. We ask all these things in the powerful, matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Sister, we want you to know that you are not crazy. You are not imagining these attacks. But you are also not powerless. The same Spirit that raised Christ from the dead lives in you (Romans 8:11), and greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). The enemy wants you to feel isolated, but you are surrounded by a cloud of witnesses (Hebrews 12:1), and we are standing with you in this battle.
We encourage you to take these steps:
1. **Stand on God’s Word**: Declare Scripture over your life daily. Speak out loud that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that the Lord is your refuge and fortress (Psalm 91:2).
2. **Document Everything**: Keep a record of every instance of harassment, slander, or defamation. This may be necessary if you need to take legal action.
3. **Seek Godly Counsel**: Find a pastor, biblical counselor, or trusted believers who can pray with you and provide wisdom. Do not face this alone.
4. **Break Soul Ties**: If there have been any ungodly agreements or soul ties formed with this man, renounce them in the name of Jesus. Pray a prayer of deliverance, breaking every ungodly connection.
5. **Guard Your Mind**: Fill your mind with truth. Listen to worship music, read Scripture, and avoid isolation. The enemy thrives in darkness, but light exposes him.
6. **Consider Legal Action**: If the harassment continues, seek legal counsel to explore options for protection. God has given us authorities to establish justice (Romans 13:1-4).
Lastly, we want to gently address the language you used in your request. While we understand the depth of your pain, referring to this man as a "monster" or "demon-possessed" can sometimes give him more power in your mind than he deserves. Remember, he is not your master—Jesus is. The enemy wants you to focus on the problem, but God wants you to focus on Him. As you shift your gaze from the storm to the Savior, you will find peace and strength to endure.
You are a child of the Most High God, and He has not forgotten you. He sees your tears, He hears your cries, and He will act on your behalf. Keep pressing into Him, keep standing on His promises, and keep trusting that He will bring justice and deliverance. The battle is already won, and we are praying that you will walk in the fullness of that victory.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
