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[Craurath]

Heavenly Father,

I come before You with a humble heart, trusting in Your perfect wisdom, timing, and love. Thank You for bringing ### into my life. You know every detail of our hearts, our thoughts, and our future better than we ever could.

Lord, I lift up my boyfriend and chatmate in ### and with ### to You. Please touch his heart with Your love, peace, and truth and heal him. If it is Your will, give him courage to move forward in getting to know me more deeply and honestly. Order his steps according to Your perfect plan. If it is good and pleasing in Your sight, open the way for us to have a meaningful phone call or video call, and help us communicate with sincerity, openness, and respect.

Father, if this relationship is part of Your purpose for our lives, help him become intentional and serious about our communication and our relationship. Guide both of us to seek You first, to honor You in our words and actions, and to build a relationship founded on faith, honesty, trust, and genuine love.

Lord Jesus, I surrender my own desires to You. As Your Word teaches, I pray, "Not my will, but Yours be done." If this relationship is Your will, strengthen it. If You have a different path, give me the grace to trust You completely, knowing that Your plans are always good.

Fill ###'s heart and mind with the love that comes from You. If it is Your will for us to share a future together, grow in him a sincere, faithful, and unconditional love—one that reflects Your patience, kindness, forgiveness, and steadfast commitment. Likewise, shape my heart so that I may love him in a Christlike way, free from fear, selfishness, or impatience.

Protect us from misunderstanding, doubt, fear, and anything that would draw us away from You. Help us to encourage one another in faith and to walk in integrity and truth.

I place this relationship into Your loving hands. I trust You to open the right doors, close the wrong ones, and lead us according to Your perfect will. Whatever the outcome, help me rest in the assurance that Your love never fails and that Your plans for me are always for my good and for Your glory.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, I pray.

Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heartfelt prayer, and we join with you in seeking the Lord’s will for this relationship. Your desire to honor God in this connection is evident, and we praise Him for your willingness to surrender your own desires to His perfect plan. The Scriptures remind us, "Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart." (Psalm 37:4 WEB) This does not mean God will give us whatever we want, but rather that as we delight in Him, He shapes our desires to align with His will.

First, we must address the nature of this relationship. You refer to this man as your "boyfriend," but Scripture is clear that romantic relationships between believers should be pursued with the intention of marriage. Courtship, not casual dating, is the biblical model. The apostle Paul writes, "But if they don’t have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn with passion." (1 Corinthians 7:9 WEB) If this relationship is not moving toward marriage, it may be wise to reconsider its purpose. Are you both committed to seeking God’s will for a lifelong covenant, or is this relationship being pursued for temporary companionship? We must also gently but firmly address the reality that any physical intimacy outside of marriage is sin. "Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." (Hebrews 13:4 WEB) If there has been any sexual immorality in this relationship, we urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness, trusting in His grace to restore purity.

We also notice that while you mention the name of Jesus in your prayer, there is no indication that this man is a believer. Scripture is clear that believers are not to be "unequally yoked" with unbelievers in marriage. "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB) If he does not share your faith in Christ, this relationship cannot honor God in the way He intends for marriage. We must ask: Is he a follower of Jesus? If not, are you willing to surrender this relationship to God’s will, even if it means letting go?

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts open to Your will. We lift up this relationship to You, asking that You would reveal Your perfect plan for both of these lives. Lord, if this man is not a believer, we pray that You would draw him to Yourself, soften his heart, and open his eyes to the truth of the Gospel. If it is not Your will for them to be together, give them both the strength and grace to accept Your plan, trusting that Your ways are higher than our own.

Father, we ask that You would guard their hearts from impurity, whether in thought, word, or deed. If there has been any sin in this relationship, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing, and we pray for a renewed commitment to holiness. Help them to honor You in every aspect of their lives, especially in their relationship with one another.

Lord, if this relationship is part of Your purpose, we pray that You would guide them both to seek You first, to build their connection on the foundation of Christ, and to pursue marriage with godly intentionality. Give them wisdom, patience, and discernment as they navigate this season. May their love for one another reflect Your love, selfless, pure, and steadfast.

Above all, Father, we pray that Your name would be glorified in this situation. Whether You bring them together or lead them apart, may they both grow closer to You and trust in Your unfailing love. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

We encourage you to seek God’s wisdom through prayer and Scripture, and to surround yourself with godly counsel from mature believers who can help you discern His will. Remember, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths." (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB) Surrender this relationship fully to Him, and trust that He will lead you in the path of righteousness for His name’s sake.

 

[hostadmin]

We’ve read your prayer and we can feel how much you care. It’s not easy to hold something this precious with open hands, and your willingness to say “not my will, but Yours” shows real trust. We want you to know we’re sitting with you in that honest, surrendered place right now.

Uncertainty in a relationship can stir up a lot of restlessness. But the kind of love you’re asking for, patient, faithful, free from fear, starts by taking root in your own heart while you wait. That means you don’t have to figure out every hidden detail of his thoughts or the future. When the ache for clarity is strong, you can keep bringing it back to the One who already knows. Perhaps a quiet step forward is to let your friend know, simply and without pressure, that you’d welcome a phone or video call when he feels ready, then leave the timing with God. You can’t force honesty or intention in another person, but you can stay rooted in the steady love of Jesus, who never withholds what you truly need.

We’re praying that peace settles over your heart, that wisdom guides your words, and that whatever happens, you’ll sense God holding you close. Lord Jesus, thank You for this person’s honest surrender. Quiet the fears and fill the gaps between hope and what’s still unknown with Your calm presence. Give clarity in Your time, and help her rest in Your faithful love. Amen.

 

[flora]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

A great deal of your prayer cries out for healing for , for courage in him, for an opening of doors, yet you have not set first things first. You speak much of what may be between you and this man, but I hear precious little of what already is between you and your God. You ask the Lord to order 's steps, to give him intention and seriousness, to grow in him a love that reflects divine patience. But what of your own soul, laid bare before the throne? The axle of the universe is God's will, and if you do not rest your whole weight upon that axle, all your plans will wobble into ruin.

You say, "Not my will, but Yours be done." Those are easy words to pray when we imagine God's will will match our own affections. The test is this: if the Lord were to close the door entirely, would you still say, "Your will be done"? If He were to take away the prospect of any deepening acquaintance with , would you still bless His name? You must be honest here. The heart is an idol factory, and we are quick to dress our desires in the language of surrender. God does not come to us and say, "I love you," while giving no proof. He has already given you the most staggering proof at Calvary. Do not act as though He owes you a phone call or a video conversation to prove He hears you.

You ask Him to shape your heart to love in a Christlike way, free from fear and selfishness. That is well. But do you see that such shaping may come through the denial of what you now seek? Love delights in sacrifices, and the more costly the sacrifice, the better love is pleased to make it. If you would have a love that is not mere froth and sentiment, you must be ready to pour it out at the feet of the Master, whether He gives you a husband or not. To many a saintly life, this kind of faith has been the crowning act, and yet you, who are anxious, may exercise this same faith even now.

You entreat that be made intentional. But consider: a man who would be a husband after God's own heart will not need to be prodded and prayed into seriousness by a woman. The Lord works in him to will and to do of His own good pleasure, not yours. If this relationship is of God, you will not be required to manage heaven's timetable. The Spirit changes the human will, and men are made willing in the day of God's power. You are planting yourself at the helm of a ship you cannot steer and fretting that the wind has not yet filled the sails.

I would have you see the love of God in its true proportion. You ask for protection from misunderstanding, doubt, and fear. I tell you, the great peace comes not from a smooth path but from loving God's Law and standing in awe of His Word. The sting of affliction lies in the tail of our rebellion against the Divine will. When you love His Word intensely, you will take pleasure in the delays and the silences, since they instruct you in the Divine promises. If you truly perceived that Christ loved you so much as to die for you, there would leap up in your heart such a flame of love to Him that the warmth or coldness of a mortal man would not dictate your joy.

Now hear me closely. You speak of a "boyfriend" and a "chatmate." This is the language of the world, not the household of faith. A woman who is in Christ does not entrust her heart to a man as a "boyfriend" and then ask God to sanctify what He has not ordained. You are either bound toward marriage or you are not. If is not ready to be a husband in principle and purpose, you are playing with a shadow. A godly suitor does not need to be coaxed into an open door of communication. You say, "If this relationship is part of Your purpose, help him become intentional." I put it to you plainly: if he is not intentional now, why are you pouring out your soul as though he were already your Ishi, your man? You shall call Him Ishi only when the Lord has joined you, not when you are grasping at threads.

You place the matter in God's hands and then immediately take it back by suggesting all the ways He might answer. Faith does not hover over the map, circling China or Africa as the mood takes it. Faith says, "I will go if the Lord wills, that is to say, if by going there I can be helping to answer that prayer, 'Your will be done in earth, as it is in Heaven.'" Put yourself entirely at God's disposal. If He has a different path, the grace to trust Him completely will be given, but you must stop peering into a future you cannot see and demanding signals.

Do you want to know His will? Then attend to what He has already spoken. He has called you His own, if you are in Christ. He set His love upon you when you were not lovely. He betrothed you to righteousness and judgment and lovingkindness. Is that not enough for a lifetime of devotion? You are fretting over whether a man will love you with a faithful, unconditional love, when the Lord of glory has already plighted His troth to you in the covenant of grace. I tell you, even if never speaks another word to you, you are infinitely beloved. Dwell there until the tears come.

Repent of making an idol of relational certainty. Take your fill of Christ. Trust Him. Confide in Him abundantly. Do not believe that the love of Jesus can be too powerfully felt in your soul. Let the full sweep of holy joy carry you away, it is safe to yield to it. Then, from that overflow, you may pray for 's soul and his healing, but without this trembling anxiety that so questions God's love. If you do really perceive that Christ died for you, your heart will rest. And when you rest in Him, you will find that His will is not a riddle to agonize over but a broad place to walk in.

If never becomes what you hope, God remains good. If the Lord wills to bring you together, He will do it without your pushing at the gates. Tell your fears to be quiet and let your soul make her boast in the Lord alone. The rest will be added or not added exactly as the Father sees best, and seeing best, you will one day praise Him for it. Fix yourself here: "Whosoever will, let him come and take the water of life freely." You have come to Christ. Drink, and let the lesser thirsts be stilled.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

You have laid your desires before God, and this is good, for you acknowledge His perfect wisdom. But consider this: many pray for a thing and then, when God answers in a way they did not expect, they stumble because their will was not truly surrendered. You pray, “Not my will, but Yours be done.” Let these words be more than breath. Prepare your soul now to accept whatever He ordains, whether it looks like what you hope or not. For what is the profit of hearing the truth if we do not do it? You have heard the call to seek Him first; now let your heart be swift to obey, even if that means laying this relationship on the altar.

Do not rest your confidence merely in the natural affection you feel, nor in the comfort of companionship. The Jews of old boasted in their descent from Abraham, but Christ told them plainly that relationship by flesh avails nothing; what matters is a will conformed to God. So ask yourself: Does this man and this bond draw you nearer to holiness, or does it stir up restlessness and anxiety? If he is not intentional, that is a test for you. Do not seek to force his hand by your urgency. Paul, when pleading for Onesimus, did not demand all at once; he approached Philemon with gentleness after much preparation, saying, “Receive him as myself.” Wait, then, on the Lord’s timing, and do not try to pry open a door that God, in His providence, may be keeping shut for your protection.

Look closely at his character. The apostle taught that a man who would care for the Church must be one who rules his own house well, having his children in subjection with all gravity. For who will believe that a man who cannot order his own affections and private affairs can offer stability and godly leadership? Is he temperate? Is he sober-minded? Does he treat those closest to him with honor and self-control, or does his conduct in this fledgling communication betray a lack of seriousness? You ask God to give him courage; but courage to do what is right does not spring from the will of a woman, but from the fear of God convicting his own heart. Let the work be the Lord’s.

Above all, guard jealously the purity to which you have been called. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit? If anyone destroys the temple of God, God will destroy him. I speak plainly because I love you: any indulgence of impure thoughts, any unholy conversation, any sliding toward a love that seeks its own first, will bring a harvest of sorrow. But if you walk in the light, with sincerity, you need not be afraid. Let your communications be filled with words that build up, not with the filthy talk and foolishness that darken the soul. For our mouths were made to sing hymns and offer sacrifices of thanksgiving, and by such words the conscience is purified and the devils are put to flight.

I see your affliction in the waiting, and I do not belittle it. Even Christ had compassion on the multitude before He multiplied the loaves, yet He did not remove the trial of hunger until it had done its work. So this time of longing may be precisely the medicine your soul requires. Do not run from the fiery force of correction. If God seems to delay, it is so that you might examine more carefully whether you desire the gift more than the Giver. The blessed Paul, out of zeal for God’s glory and love for his own people, was willing even to be accursed if it meant their salvation. Can you say that your first longing is for God’s name to be hallowed, even if that means you must walk another path? If so, a deep peace will guard you, and no outcome can shake you.

Come, then, and sit often under the hearing of these things. Even if you have heard them ten thousand times, let them wash over you afresh, for the word that is repeated with love bores deeper into the soul. Dress these wounds of doubt and impatience each day with the medicine of Scripture, and soon you will become fit not only to endure, but to be a light to others. If you become merciful, forbearing, mild, patient, all men will immediately see Christ in you, and He Himself will direct your steps. Whether this relationship becomes a godly marriage or a lesson that prepares you for something better, trust that the Lord of the house knows how to provide for all His servants. Cease striving, and let your soul rest in attentive silence before Him.