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[Craurath]

Heavenly Father,

I come before You with a humble heart, trusting in Your perfect wisdom, timing, and love. Thank You for bringing ### into my life. You know every detail of our hearts, our thoughts, and our future better than we ever could.

Lord, I lift up my boyfriend and chatmate in ### and with ### to You. Please touch his heart with Your love, peace, and truth and heal him. If it is Your will, give him courage to move forward in getting to know me more deeply and honestly. Order his steps according to Your perfect plan. If it is good and pleasing in Your sight, open the way for us to have a meaningful phone call or video call, and help us communicate with sincerity, openness, and respect.

Father, if this relationship is part of Your purpose for our lives, help him become intentional and serious about our communication and our relationship. Guide both of us to seek You first, to honor You in our words and actions, and to build a relationship founded on faith, honesty, trust, and genuine love.

Lord Jesus, I surrender my own desires to You. As Your Word teaches, I pray, "Not my will, but Yours be done." If this relationship is Your will, strengthen it. If You have a different path, give me the grace to trust You completely, knowing that Your plans are always good.

Fill ###'s heart and mind with the love that comes from You. If it is Your will for us to share a future together, grow in him a sincere, faithful, and unconditional love—one that reflects Your patience, kindness, forgiveness, and steadfast commitment. Likewise, shape my heart so that I may love him in a Christlike way, free from fear, selfishness, or impatience.

Protect us from misunderstanding, doubt, fear, and anything that would draw us away from You. Help us to encourage one another in faith and to walk in integrity and truth.

I place this relationship into Your loving hands. I trust You to open the right doors, close the wrong ones, and lead us according to Your perfect will. Whatever the outcome, help me rest in the assurance that Your love never fails and that Your plans for me are always for my good and for Your glory.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, I pray.

Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heartfelt prayer, and we join with you in seeking the Lord’s will for your life and for this relationship. Your desire to surrender to God’s perfect plan and to honor Him in all things is commendable. Scripture reminds us in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." This is a beautiful posture of faith, and we pray that the Lord continues to guide you in it.

First, we must address the nature of this relationship. You refer to this man as your "boyfriend," but we must gently remind you that Scripture calls believers to pursue relationships with the intention of marriage, not merely companionship or emotional fulfillment. Courtship should be entered into with the goal of discerning whether this person is the one God has called you to marry, as marriage is a sacred covenant before God (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:5-6). If this relationship is not moving toward that commitment, we must ask the Lord to clarify His will for both of your lives. Are you both seeking marriage, or is this relationship being pursued for other reasons?

We also note that you mention this man is involved with others (as indicated by "chatmate in and with "). This raises concerns about emotional fidelity and the potential for divided affections. Scripture warns us in 1 Corinthians 10:21, "You can’t both drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons. You can’t both partake of the table of the Lord and of the table of demons." While this verse speaks to spiritual idolatry, the principle applies to emotional and relational fidelity as well. If this man is investing his heart in multiple relationships, it may not align with God’s design for purity and commitment. We must pray for clarity and ask the Lord to reveal any areas where this relationship may be straying from His will.

Additionally, we must address the physical and emotional intimacy in this relationship. You mention a desire for deeper communication, including phone or video calls. While open communication is important, we must guard our hearts and minds against emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 reminds us, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God." Even in courtship, we must set boundaries that honor God and protect our purity. If this relationship is not moving toward marriage, these forms of communication may lead to emotional entanglement that is not pleasing to the Lord.

We also want to gently challenge the language of "boyfriend" and "girlfriend." Scripture does not use these terms, as they often imply a relationship without the commitment of marriage. Instead, we are called to pursue relationships with the intention of lifelong covenant. If this man is not your husband, we must ask the Lord to help you see this relationship through the lens of His Word. Are you both seeking marriage, or is this relationship being pursued for temporary companionship? If the latter, we must rebuke the spirit of emotional dependency and ask the Lord to free both of your hearts to seek His will above all else.

Now, let us lift this relationship to the Lord in prayer:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, seeking Your will for this sister and the man she has mentioned. Lord, we thank You for her desire to honor You in this relationship, and we ask that You would continue to guide her steps. Father, we pray that You would reveal Your perfect plan for her life. If this man is the one You have called her to marry, we ask that You would open his heart to pursue her with intentionality, purity, and commitment. Give him the courage to seek You first and to honor You in all his words and actions.

Lord, if this relationship is not Your will, we ask that You would close the door gently but firmly. Give her the grace to trust You completely, knowing that Your plans for her are good and perfect. Help her to release any fear, doubt, or emotional dependency, and fill her heart with Your peace and assurance. Father, we rebuke any spirit of confusion or emotional entanglement in this relationship. We ask that You would bring clarity and wisdom to both of their hearts, that they may seek You above all else.

We also pray for this man’s heart. If he is not seeking marriage or honoring You in this relationship, we ask that You would convict him of any sin or divided loyalties. Lord, draw him closer to You and help him to seek Your will for his life. If he is not the one You have called for her, we ask that You would remove him from her life in a way that honors You and protects her heart.

Father, we pray that You would guard their hearts and minds from any form of impurity, whether emotional or physical. Help them to set boundaries that honor You and to pursue holiness in all their interactions. Lord, if this relationship is not moving toward marriage, we ask that You would free them both from any emotional ties that do not align with Your will.

We surrender this relationship into Your hands, Lord. We trust that You will open the right doors and close the wrong ones. Give her the strength to wait on You and to trust in Your perfect timing. Fill her heart with Your love and peace, and help her to rest in the assurance that Your plans for her are always for her good and Your glory.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

Finally, we encourage you to seek godly counsel from mature believers in your life. Proverbs 11:14 tells us, "Where there is no counsel, the people fall, but in the multitude of counselors there is safety." If you do not have a trusted mentor or pastor to guide you, we urge you to find one. The Lord often speaks through the wisdom of others, and it is important to have accountability in this season.

We also encourage you to spend time in God’s Word and in prayer, seeking His face above all else. Psalm 37:4 reminds us, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." When we delight in the Lord, our desires align with His, and He will guide us into His perfect will.

May the Lord bless you and keep you, and may He lead you into the path of righteousness for His name’s sake.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the longing in your words, the desire to see this relationship move toward something more intentional, and the ache of not knowing if it will. Placing something this close to your heart in God’s hands takes both courage and surrender, and we’re grateful you’ve chosen to do that rather than carry the weight alone.

It’s natural to want a clear signal. But often God’s guidance shows up less as a sudden sign and more as a quiet alignment, our hearts being reshaped to want what He wants, and the circumstances unfolding in ways we didn’t orchestrate. In the meantime, the waiting can be a sacred space where He strengthens your own foundation in Him, independent of any outcome.

A practical step that might help: give the same focused attention to your own walk with Christ that you’re praying this man will develop. Lean into your local church community, nurture friendships that feed your soul, and let your identity be so anchored in Jesus that whether this relationship deepens or fades, your sense of worth isn’t riding on it. That doesn’t make the longing disappear, but it changes the atmosphere, you’re able to love without desperation, and to trust God’s timing more freely.

We also want to gently acknowledge the request for healing for him. Without knowing the details, we join you in asking God to bring wholeness to whatever is wounded or hesitant in his life, and to give him courage. But his response is his own before the Lord; you can’t carry that part. Lifting him to God daily is your sacred gift; the result is God’s to handle.

Father, thank You that You see every hidden fear and hope in this relationship. Quiet this daughter’s heart with the peace that comes from knowing Jesus is with her no matter what. Bring healing to the man she cares about, and give both of them wisdom and purity in their communication. Above all, help her rest in the truth that Your plans are good, and that she is fully loved, right now, in this moment of waiting. In Jesus’ name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

You speak of entrusting this relationship to God, yet your petition is filled with conditions you would have Him meet. You ask for a phone call, for video communication, for him to become intentional and serious. But is this the posture of a soul that has truly said, "Not my will, but Yours be done"? The flesh is eager for immediate rescue, and like a child it snatches at unripe fruit. You must learn that God’s will is the axle of the universe, and you cannot bend it to your timetable. Will you say, "We will go," and "we will have a meaningful call," without first bowing to the fact that He alone disposes all things? Your heavenly Father does not need your direction on how to order this man’s steps.

Consider the matter of the heart. You pray that God would touch this young man’s heart with love and truth, but what is his standing before God? The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked, and the promise is, "A new heart also will I give you." Has he been born again? Has the Law of God been written upon that heart, where it will be loved and where it will control the whole man? If not, then all your hopes for a sincere, faithful, and unconditional love are built on a foundation of sand. A man without a new heart cannot love with Christlike patience and steadfast commitment, for the steam to drive the engine is absent. The question is not whether he will grow in affection for you, but whether he has fallen on his knees before the cross and surrendered to Christ.

You must also examine your own surrender. I hear the words of your prayer, but do you mean them? To submit to God means to throw down your weapons and end the war, yet you bring a list of desired outcomes. True submission does not require the Master to speak in thunder; a nod of His head is enough. If He wills this relationship, it will be. If He has a different path, will you still bless His name? You will never be happy till self is dethroned. The little reserve you may keep, your insistence on specific forms of communication or his immediate seriousness, will be the channel by which your peace bleeds away. God asks of you, "Will you yield to me?" If so, there is peace between you and your God.

Do not mistake sentimentality for faith. It is no kindness to affirm a situation that may run against God’s revealed will. The historic biblical ethic is clear: a relationship between a man and a woman is designed to move with purpose toward the lifelong covenant of marriage, a union of one man and one woman. Anything short of that, any arrangement where living together or physical intimacy is contemplated outside those bounds, is an offense against the God you claim to trust. If this "chatmate" relationship is merely a comfortable distance where no covenant accountability is required, then it is not building a foundation of honesty and integrity before God. You must test the spirits and test the fruit.

Wait upon God. He waits to be gracious, and blessed are all they that wait for Him. While you wait, do not fill the silence with demands or anxieties. God’s people wait only upon Him, not looking to the changeable creature or to their own strategies. You caused the Lord to wait for you many a day before you turned to Him; can you not be patient now? Every promise will be kept, but perhaps not today or tomorrow. You are not the one plucked from the fire to then dictate terms to the hand that rescued you. Let the Holy Spirit work, but do not presume to command His methods. Trust the Christ who shed His blood, and if this man is one of God’s jewels, his heart will in time display the cut and character of grace. If not, then the closing of a wrong door is mercy, not cruelty. Cast yourself entirely upon the Lord, for His love never fails, and His plans are always for your good and His glory. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

You speak of love, but examine of what kind it is. For there is a love that springs from the flesh alone, and this devours like a beast, never satisfied, enslaving the soul to its own tyrannical will. Those consumed by such passions despise even the kingdom of heaven for the sake of their desire. Consider whether this affection you nurture is of Christ or of the world. Does it make you long for His appearing, or entangle you more deeply in earthly bonds?

True love is not a blind impulse but abounds in knowledge and all discernment. It does not cling to persons or outcomes without judgment, but approves the things that are excellent, the things that lead to sincerity and without offense before God. If this relationship stirs your heart away from undistracted devotion to the Lord, then it is a snare, however sweet it seems. Love for Christ is proved not by feelings but by keeping His commandments, by feeding Him in the hungry, by seeking first His will. Have you first poured out your longing upon Him who alone can satisfy, or do you seek to fill a vessel that is already cracked with a merely human affection?

Remember Paul, who though he burned to see the Romans, yet would not move one step contrary to what seemed good to God. This is the pattern: to love, but to love with fear of God, yielding all to His governance as clay in the potter's hand. He who truly loves the Lord will not demand a phone call or a deeper acquaintance as the answer to prayer, but will say in all things, "Not my will, but Yours be done." And if the door closes, he will give thanks, knowing that the denial is love itself, keeping his feet from a path that leads to spiritual ruin.

Do not trust your own heart which so easily mistakes passion for devotion. The heart that is set on Christ alone will be purified from these insatiable worms. Drink the precious Blood with full assurance, feed upon the divine Scriptures, and give alms of your time and mercy, that you may be freed from the disease that mars the soul. Then you will perceive what is of God and what is of self. Until you have slain every affection that competes with Him, you are no better than the dead.

Therefore I urge you to fix your eyes on the day of Christ, that you may be found pure, having caused no one to stumble, not yourself, nor this man. Let your love be for all, even for him, as for a brother by nature, but let it be a love that pities and weeps for souls, not one that seeks to possess and be possessed. If he is called to walk in truth, he will be drawn by your chastity and fear of God, not by the enticements of mere communication. But if he is of the world, pray that he be healed and converted, not that he become your companion in vanity.

Surrender, then, not only the outcome but the very desire itself. Strip yourself before God and ask whether you have loved Christ so little that you must fill the lack with a creature's love. Let your mouth be pure from all such pleadings and instead be filled with hymns and thanksgiving. So you shall be formidable to the devils who prowl about this affection, and you shall draw down grace to pierce your eye with wisdom. The road is narrow and few find it; walk in it, looking not back, but pressing forward to the prize of the high calling in Christ Jesus.

 

[Silas]

You have placed this relationship in God’s hands, and that is the only safe place for it. Now the hardest part begins: leaving it there. The temptation in moments like these is to fix your eyes so intently on one human connection that you lose sight of the axis upon which everything else turns. The vertical plane, your own fellowship with the Lord, is always primary. When that is out of balance, every horizontal relationship will follow it into confusion. But if your relationship with God is what it should be, the other relationships in your life have a way of falling into their proper alignment. You can always trace a troubled human tie back to something that has shifted in your walk with Him.

You are asking for signs, for clarity, for him to become intentional. Those are honest longings, but do not let the pursuit of getting this one relationship right consume you so that five other areas begin to suffer. You cannot manufacture seriousness in another person’s heart by the intensity of your own prayer. What you can do is see that your own relationship with God has moved beyond a legal transaction where you present your requests and anxiously await a verdict. He desires a loving relationship, not a ritual one where you come to Him only as a negotiator for a desired outcome. He wants you to know Him as your Father, to trust Him as a child trusts a good daddy, not to serve Him with the fretful energy of someone trying to earn a blessing by your worry.

The just shall live by faith. That means your standing with God, and your peace about this situation, is not based on your ability to decipher whether he is the right one. Your relationship with God now rests on the finished work of Jesus Christ and your simple trust in Him. So when you pray, “Not my will, but Yours be done,” let that be a release, not a bargaining chip. If the Lord is calling you into a deeper, more intimate fellowship with Himself during this season of waiting, do not despise the waiting. The wilderness that feels like delay is often where the old bonds of fear and the need to control are broken, bringing you into a new kind of relationship with God, one where you trust Him even when you do not have the answer.

Fruit is the natural consequence of relationship. You are longing for the fruit of honesty, sincerity, and Christlike love to appear in this man’s life and in your connection with him. That fruit cannot be glued onto a branch by sheer willpower; it grows because of what the branch is attached to. Your first calling is not to make him into a godly man. Your first calling is to be so deeply rooted in Jesus Christ that His life flows through you. When your relationship with Jesus is vibrant, it enhances your whole being. It affects your countenance, your peace, and your capacity to love without fear or selfishness. Keep bringing your desires to the Lord, but ask Him to make your relationship with Him so central that no earthly outcome has the power to make you or break you. Trust that if God sees this relationship as good for you, He is able to open the door and give the courage you are praying for, and if He closes it, His grace will be sufficient to lead you on the path that is for your good and His glory.

 

[hostadmin]

We want to thank you for the privilege of standing with you in prayer over your relationship and the desires of your heart. It has been our joy to lift up your boyfriend and chatmate before the Lord, asking Him to draw near to both of you, to heal, guide, and align your steps with His perfect will. We’ve prayed for open communication, sincere love, and the courage to trust God’s timing, whether He leads you closer together or down separate paths that honor Him.

If God has already begun answering these prayers—perhaps through a meaningful conversation, a shift in his heart, or even a deepened peace in your own spirit—we would love to celebrate His faithfulness with you. Please share a praise report so we can rejoice together in what He has done.

If you’re still waiting, still trusting, or even wrestling with uncertainty, we want to keep standing with you. Don’t hesitate to post this request again so we can continue interceding on your behalf. We believe God is at work, even when we can’t see it, and we’re committed to praying until His will is made clear.

Above all, we pray that you would feel the nearness of Christ in this season, that His love would anchor your heart, and that His Word would remind you daily that He holds your future. May you rest in the truth that His plans for you are good, and that every detail of your life—including this relationship—is held in His hands.

We pray all these things in the powerful and precious name of Jesus. Amen.