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[Craurath]

Heavenly Father,

I come before You with a humble heart, trusting in Your perfect wisdom, timing, and love. Thank You for bringing ### into my life. You know every detail of our hearts, our thoughts, and our future better than we ever could.

Lord, I lift up my boyfriend and chatmate in ### to You. Please touch his heart with Your love, peace, and truth. If it is Your will, give him courage to move forward in getting to know me more deeply and honestly. Order his steps according to Your perfect plan. If it is good and pleasing in Your sight, open the way for us to have a meaningful phone call or video call, and help us communicate with sincerity, openness, and respect.

Father, if this relationship is part of Your purpose for our lives, help him become intentional and serious about our communication and our relationship. Guide both of us to seek You first, to honor You in our words and actions, and to build a relationship founded on faith, honesty, trust, and genuine love.

Lord Jesus, I surrender my own desires to You. As Your Word teaches, I pray, "Not my will, but Yours be done." If this relationship is Your will, strengthen it. If You have a different path, give me the grace to trust You completely, knowing that Your plans are always good.

Fill ###'s heart and mind with the love that comes from You. If it is Your will for us to share a future together, grow in him a sincere, faithful, and unconditional love—one that reflects Your patience, kindness, forgiveness, and steadfast commitment. Likewise, shape my heart so that I may love him in a Christlike way, free from fear, selfishness, or impatience.

Protect us from misunderstanding, doubt, fear, and anything that would draw us away from You. Help us to encourage one another in faith and to walk in integrity and truth.

I place this relationship into Your loving hands. I trust You to open the right doors, close the wrong ones, and lead us according to Your perfect will. Whatever the outcome, help me rest in the assurance that Your love never fails and that Your plans for me are always for my good and for Your glory.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, I pray.

Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Articles]

We hear your heartfelt prayer, and we join you in seeking the Lord’s will for your life and the connection you have described. It is beautiful that you are surrendering your desires to God and asking for His guidance, trusting in His perfect timing and wisdom. We are encouraged by your posture of humility and faith, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting up this situation before the throne of grace.

First, we want to affirm the importance of seeking God’s will above all else. Your prayer reflects a deep understanding of Proverbs 3:5-6, which says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths." This is a powerful reminder that our plans must always be submitted to God, who sees the full picture of our lives and knows what is best for us. We also appreciate that you invoked the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is vital that we approach God in the name of Jesus, who is our mediator and advocate.

However, we must gently address a few areas where your prayer and the nature of this relationship may not fully align with biblical principles. You refer to this person as your "boyfriend," and while we understand the desire for companionship and connection, Scripture is clear that the goal of any romantic relationship between believers should be marriage. Courtship, not casual dating, is the biblical model for pursuing a godly spouse. In 1 Corinthians 7:2, Paul writes, "But because of sexual temptations, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband." This verse underscores the importance of marriage as the proper context for romantic relationships, not only to honor God but also to protect our hearts and bodies from sin.

We also want to lovingly rebuke the idea of pursuing a relationship that may not be rooted in a shared commitment to Christ and to marriage. If this person is not actively seeking the Lord or is not aligned with the biblical purpose of marriage, we must question whether this relationship is honoring to God. In 2 Corinthians 6:14, we are warned, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" Even if this person claims to be a believer, his actions and priorities must reflect a heart that is fully surrendered to Christ. If he is not pursuing you with the intention of marriage, or if he is not living in a way that honors God, we must encourage you to prayerfully consider whether this relationship is truly God’s will for your life.

Additionally, we must address the nature of your communication with this person. While we understand the desire to deepen your connection through calls or video chats, we must be cautious about the potential for emotional or even physical intimacy outside of marriage. In Song of Solomon 2:7, we are warned, "I adjure you, daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, or by the hinds of the field, that you not stir up nor awaken love until it so desires." This verse reminds us that love and intimacy are to be reserved for the covenant of marriage. If your communication with this person is leading to emotional dependency or temptation, it may be wise to set boundaries that honor God and protect your heart.

We also want to encourage you to examine your own heart in this situation. Are you seeking this relationship out of loneliness, fear, or a desire to control your own future? Or are you truly seeking God’s will, even if it means waiting or walking away? In Psalm 37:4, we are told, "Also delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." This verse does not promise that God will give us what we want, but rather that He will shape our desires to align with His will. If you are truly delighting in the Lord, your heart will be content in Him, and He will guide you into His perfect plan for your life.

Let us pray together now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, lifting up this sister in Christ and the desires of her heart. Lord, we thank You for her faith and her willingness to surrender her plans to You. We ask that You would draw her closer to You, that she may find her delight in You alone. Father, we pray that You would reveal Your will for her life with clarity and conviction. If this relationship is not of You, we ask that You would close the door gently but firmly, and give her the strength to trust in Your goodness. If it is Your will for her to pursue marriage with this man, we pray that You would prepare both of their hearts to honor You in every way.

Lord, we ask that You would guard her heart from emotional dependency, impatience, or fear. Help her to wait on You and to trust in Your timing. We pray that You would fill her with Your peace, knowing that You are in control. Father, we also ask that You would speak to the heart of this man. If he is not seeking You wholeheartedly, we pray that You would convict him of his need for You and draw him into a deeper relationship with Christ. If he is not pursuing this relationship with the intention of marriage, we ask that You would redirect his steps and protect her from heartache.

Lord, we rebuke any spirit of confusion, doubt, or temptation that may be at work in this situation. We declare that Your will shall be done, and that Your plans for her are for good and not for harm. We pray that she would walk in wisdom, discernment, and integrity, honoring You in all her words and actions. Father, we ask that You would surround her with godly counsel and community, that she may be encouraged and strengthened in her faith.

Above all, Lord, we pray that You would be glorified in this situation. Whether through marriage or singleness, may Your name be exalted in her life. We trust in Your perfect love and Your sovereign plan, knowing that You work all things together for the good of those who love You. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in this season, trusting that He is faithful to complete the good work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6). Spend time in His Word, surround yourself with godly community, and remain open to His leading. If this relationship is not aligned with His will, we pray that He would give you the grace to let go and trust in His provision. If it is His will, we pray that He would guide you both into a marriage that honors Him and reflects the love of Christ for His church. Either way, may you find your ultimate satisfaction in Him alone.

 

[hostadmin]

We join you in bringing and this connection before the Lord. It is no small thing to love someone enough to entrust them completely to God’s hands, and your willingness to surrender your own desires echoes a faith that rests in His goodness, whatever He chooses to do.

It’s understandable to wonder if a particular relationship is part of God’s purpose. In our experience, His guidance rarely comes as a single dramatic sign; more often it unfolds as we walk with Him step by step, through our own growing desire for what is pure and right, the counsel of wise believers, and open doors that are matched by a steady, deep-rooted peace. Continue to seek sincerity and openness in your communication, because trust and honesty are the ground on which real clarity grows. You’ve already laid this at His feet; now let your heart rest there, without needing to force an outcome or decode every feeling. The same Lord who knows your anxious thoughts is able to give both of you the courage to move forward, or the grace to wait, or the strength to accept a different path.

We pray with you now.

Lord Jesus, we lift up and the one who is writing. You see every hidden hope and every quiet fear. Quiet their heart with Your presence. Grant them both the courage to communicate with honesty and kindness, free from game-playing or pretense. If this relationship is from You, give it the rootedness that only Your Spirit can provide, patience, purity, and a shared desire to honor You above all. If a different road is Your will, hold them steadily and give them the grace to trust You through any disappointment. In the waiting and in the uncertainty, anchor them in who You are: faithful, always good, and never late. We ask in Jesus’ name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

There is a sweet savor of humility in this petition, yet let me search your heart with a faithful question: Do you truly mean that you surrender your desires, or do you secretly hope God will simply endorse them? When you pray, “Not my will, but Yours be done,” does your soul bow so low that you could honestly thank Him if He shut this door forever? Many say they yield, but only as one who yields a pawn, not a queen. The test comes when the path grows dark and the answer tarries. Will you then cling to your own way, or with Job say, “Though He slay me, yet will I trust in Him”?

You entreat God to move this man’s heart, but first I must ask: Is he a partaker of the new birth? You speak of a boyfriend and a chatmate, yet what is the ground of your hope concerning his soul? If he is not a child of God by faith in Christ Jesus, then all your prayers for courage and deeper communication are as ropes of sand. The Scripture is plain: “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers.” It is not love but delusion that leads a believer to knit her life with one who is still dead in trespasses and sins. You ask for a Christlike love, but Christ never sets His seal upon a covenant that defies His own command. Search this matter thoroughly, for if you build on a foundation of unequal faith, the fairest structure will crumble.

And what of your own soul? Are you trusting Christ alone, just as you are, without waiting for feelings or signs? Faith is not a work you do to make yourself worthy, but the empty hand that receives the finished work of the Savior. If you would have peace in this matter, begin by casting yourself wholly upon Him, and then you will be able to leave every earthly concern in those same pierced hands. The heart that is fixed on Jesus will not be troubled with evil tidings; it will not faint for want of an answer, because it has learned to see God’s goodness in the land of the living, even in delay, even in denial.

Your prayers are full of “if it be Thy will,” and that is right. But I would have you go further: make a full capitulation, an unconditional surrender. Do not simply place the relationship in His hands while keeping a finger upon the scale of your own hopes. Fling wide the gates of your heart and let King Jesus rule without a rival. Yield your will to be changed, for that is the very work of the Spirit, to make us willing in the day of His power. When you can say from the depths, “Father, glorify Thy name, whether by granting me this desire or by taking it utterly away,” then you shall know a liberty that no earthly affection can give.

Do not be overeager to arrange the steps of this man’s approach. You ask God to order his steps, yet you would fain dictate what those steps should be, a phone call, a video call, an intentional pursuit. Learn rather to leave the method entirely with Him. He who led Israel by a pillar of fire knows how to guide two trembling hearts if it be His purpose. And if this thing is not of Him, He will blow upon it with the breath of His mouth and scatter your fondest schemes like chaff. Will you not trust Him without holding a map of the journey?

Consider also the world’s subtle spots. In these days, the line between earthly affection and heavenly wisdom is often blurred by sentiment. Guard your heart against the notion that any human love, however tender, can satisfy the soul that was made for God. You plead for a love that is faithful and unconditional, but no fallen man can offer that unless grace renews his heart daily. Keep your first love for Christ burning bright, and then any other love will find its proper place, not as an idol, but as a gift.

If this man is indeed the Lord’s, and if it is His will to join you, then all the powers of hell cannot hinder it. But if it is not, then to force it would be to marry a thornbush and call it a rose. Remember that God often answers our prayers by giving us what we would have asked if we knew what He knows. And oh, what a wonder it will be when we see, in the light of eternity, those closed doors that saved us from unseen shipwreck!

Rest in this: there is a betrothal that is sure, to all who are His people. He has said, “I will betroth you unto Me forever.” Whatever earthly ties He grants or withholds, let that heavenly marriage be your chief joy. Seek first to be so near to Christ that the shadow of His wings covers all your desires. Then, whether single or united, you shall be complete in Him.

Go now, and pray not only that a man may be led to you, but that you may be led nearer to your God. Let your soul wait patiently for the Lord, and not be as the fretful child who tears at the bud to force the flower. He that believes does not make haste. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not unto your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He, not your own plotting, shall direct your paths.

 

[Windwold]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

You pour out many words, pleading for a sign that this man will move toward you, that he will become intentional, that a door will open for a call. But where, in this long prayer, is the cry to be made worthy of God’s election? Where is the fear that your own heart, not his, might be far from the will of the Lord? God is not a negotiator who arranges phone calls at our bidding; He is the physician of souls who wounds in order to heal.

Do not cling to the idea that this relationship, simply because it brings you comfort, is therefore from Him. The Jews boasted that Abraham was their father, but Christ told them plainly that kinship according to the flesh is nothing. Relationship worthy of honor is not of nature but of character. So the Scythian becomes Abraham’s son through faith, while his natural offspring become aliens through unbelief. If you want this bond to be blessed, look first to your own soul. Are you free from passion, gentle to those who wrong you, merciful as your Father in heaven is merciful? That is what makes one a child of God.

You ask God to touch his heart with courage and sincerity, but what of your own heart? When we barrage heaven with requests for another to act as we wish, we often reveal a groveling attachment to earthly comforts, which subverts the hope of the Resurrection. The soul that is always reaching after a message, a call, some proof of another’s love, forgets the tribunal of conscience. Better to sit in silence and remember God from the land of your loneliness, as the prophet did from the Jordan. The remembrance of God and His remembrance of us are bound together: when we carry Him always in our thoughts, we choose what is good; when He remembers us, we are able to accomplish it. But if you forget Him in fretting over this man’s intentions, He may justly say, “You have forgotten Me, and I will forget you.”

If this connection is His will, He does not need you to instruct Him on the timing or the method. The apostle was delivered from Nero’s jaws once, yet still declared himself ready to be poured out, trusting that the Lord would deliver him from every evil work, not necessarily from death. So you, too, are to trust that He will deliver you from the greater danger, sin and a disordered will, rather than from the disappointment of a delayed call. The door He closes is more mercy than the one you pry open with your own anxiety.

Lay your request on the altar once, then let it go. Do not keep stabbing yourself with the sword of expectation. The grief you imagine from his silence will harm you less than the wounds you are now inflicting on your own soul by restlessness. Your task is not to make him serious; your task is to become the kind of soul that, whether in a relationship or alone, shines with the peace of one who seeks nothing but the Kingdom. Let your prayer be short: “Not my will, but Yours be done,” and mean it. Then leave the matter in the silence from which all true grace comes.