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[Craurath]

Heavenly Father,

I come before You with a humble heart, trusting in Your perfect wisdom, timing, and love. Thank You for bringing ### into my life. You know every detail of our hearts, our thoughts, and our future better than we ever could.

Lord, I lift up my boyfriend and chatmate in ### to You. Please touch his heart with Your love, peace, and truth. If it is Your will, give him courage to move forward in getting to know me more deeply and honestly. Order his steps according to Your perfect plan. If it is good and pleasing in Your sight, open the way for us to have a meaningful phone call or video call, and help us communicate with sincerity, openness, and respect.

Father, if this relationship is part of Your purpose for our lives, help him become intentional and serious about our communication and our relationship. Guide both of us to seek You first, to honor You in our words and actions, and to build a relationship founded on faith, honesty, trust, and genuine love.

Lord Jesus, I surrender my own desires to You. As Your Word teaches, I pray, "Not my will, but Yours be done." If this relationship is Your will, strengthen it. If You have a different path, give me the grace to trust You completely, knowing that Your plans are always good.

Fill ###'s heart and mind with the love that comes from You. If it is Your will for us to share a future together, grow in him a sincere, faithful, and unconditional love—one that reflects Your patience, kindness, forgiveness, and steadfast commitment. Likewise, shape my heart so that I may love him in a Christlike way, free from fear, selfishness, or impatience.

Protect us from misunderstanding, doubt, fear, and anything that would draw us away from You. Help us to encourage one another in faith and to walk in integrity and truth.

I place this relationship into Your loving hands. I trust You to open the right doors, close the wrong ones, and lead us according to Your perfect will. Whatever the outcome, help me rest in the assurance that Your love never fails and that Your plans for me are always for my good and for Your glory.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, I pray.

Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heartfelt prayer, and we join with you in seeking the Lord’s will for this relationship. Your desire to honor God in this matter is evident, and we commend your surrender to His perfect plan. Let us first affirm the truth of Scripture: "Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord. Trust also in him, and he will do this" (Psalm 37:4-5). Your trust in God’s timing and wisdom is a beautiful reflection of faith.

However, we must gently address a few concerns in light of biblical principles. First, the term "boyfriend" implies a relationship that has not yet been committed to marriage. Scripture is clear that romantic relationships between believers should be pursued with the intent of marriage, not merely companionship or emotional fulfillment. "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this man is not a believer in Christ, we must prayerfully consider whether this relationship aligns with God’s design. If he is a believer, we encourage you both to seek godly counsel and move toward a commitment that honors the Lord, rather than remaining in a prolonged state of uncertainty.

Additionally, we must address the nature of your communication. While we understand the desire for deeper connection, we urge caution in how you engage with one another. "But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people" (Ephesians 5:3). Emotional and physical intimacy outside of marriage can lead to temptation and compromise. We encourage you to set boundaries that honor God and protect your hearts, whether that means limiting the depth of your conversations or seeking accountability in your interactions.

We also lift up the need for clarity in this relationship. "Let all things be done decently and in order" (1 Corinthians 14:40). If this man is serious about pursuing a future with you, he should be willing to communicate that intention clearly and take steps toward a godly courtship. Prolonged ambiguity can lead to confusion and heartache. We pray that the Lord will either bring clarity or redirect your paths if this is not His will.

Let us now pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, seeking Your wisdom and guidance for this situation. Lord, we thank You for the desire to honor You in this relationship, and we ask that You would align every aspect of it with Your perfect will. Father, if this man is the one You have chosen for her, we pray that You would soften his heart, draw him closer to You, and give him the courage to pursue her with godly intention. If this relationship is not Your plan, we ask that You would close the door gently and redirect their hearts to Your best for their lives.

Lord, we pray against any temptation to compromise purity or wisdom in this season. Guard their hearts and minds from impatience, fear, or selfish desires. Help them to seek You first in all things and to trust in Your timing, knowing that Your plans are always good. Father, we ask that You would fill them with Your peace as they wait on You, and that You would give them the strength to walk in integrity and faith.

We surrender this relationship into Your hands, Lord. May Your will be done, and may Your name be glorified in every step they take. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in prayer and to surround yourself with godly counsel. Trust that He is working even in the waiting, and that His plans for you are filled with hope and purpose. "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" (Jeremiah 29:11). Keep your heart open to His leading, and may He bless you with wisdom and peace in this season.

 

[hostadmin]

We’re struck by the patient, open-handed way you’ve brought this to God, your prayer already mirrors the very trust you’re asking for. That kind of surrendered longing matters. It’s easy to want clarity so badly that we grip the situation tighter instead of holding it loosely before the Lord, and you’ve chosen the better way.

One thing that may steady you while you wait: trust grows in layers, not all at once. The longing for more meaningful contact, a real conversation, a video call, makes complete sense, especially in a connection that lives mostly in words on a screen. Real intimacy needs a voice, a face, the unscripted pauses. It’s not pushy to hope for that; it’s human. While you pray for him to find the courage to move forward, you might quietly consider what you yourself would find approachable to share when the door does crack open. Not a list of expectations, but a few honest things about your own life that invite him to know you a little better without pressure. Curiosity and warmth, sincerely offered, often give the other person permission to stop performing and show up more fully.

And if the clarity doesn’t come as quickly as you hope, that doesn’t automatically mean you’ve done something wrong or that you’re being rejected. Sometimes silence is just someone else’s slower, more cautious process. God is at work in gaps too.

Let’s pray quietly for you both:

Lord Jesus, thank You for the honest hope and the honest uncertainty held in this prayer. Meet both. Give this man the courage to step forward with sincerity and openness, and give our friend here steadiness of heart, not driven by fear or impatience, but anchored in Your timing. Guard their communication from misunderstanding and their hearts from despair. And whatever comes, hold them both securely in Your love, where nothing is wasted. In Your name, Amen.

 

[Violetblue]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

You speak of entrusting this relationship into God’s hands, and you do well to seek His will. But see to it that this is no lip-service while your heart clasps its idol still. He who truly prays, “Not my will, but Yours be done,” must grip that prayer with both hands upon the altar of sacrifice, ready for the knife to fall either upon the cherished thing or upon self. To say, “If it is Your will, strengthen it,” and then to set conditions, calls, intentions, deepening affections, is often but a subtle dictating to the Almighty. You would have Him underwrite your plans; He would have your plans swallowed up in His.

Remember, there is a revealed will of God you must not violate. Whatever whispers in the dark or wings upon an online message, the written Word stands fixed: marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and all that belongs to it, including the intimacies of heart and body, is reserved for that holy estate. A boyfriend and chatmate, however dear, has no scriptural warrant to claim the affections and hopes that belong only to a covenant spouse. I charge you to examine this bond by the straightedge of Scripture. Is it chaste? Does it press toward Christlikeness in both? Or does it feed a craving for companionship that would not be satisfied if God Himself stood before you? Our God is a jealous God; He will not share the throne of your heart with another.

You plead for a meaningful call, for courage in this man. Yet to what end? That a relationship may flourish in the soil of self-gratification is not God’s husbandry. True love is patient, kind, and always seeks the spiritual good of the other, never dragging toward the compromises that modern society calls innocent. You may think to keep yourselves unspotted from the world, but the current of human opinion always was, is, and will be, till Christ shall come, an evil current that will bear you the wrong way if you yield to it. I do not flatter you. I would rather see you saved than smiling.

Faith in Jesus is the best evidence that you are reconciled to God, for the worst sign of enmity is disliking God’s way. He saves by grace through faith alone; He sanctifies by the truth. If you truly trust Him, then trust Him here, with the deepest desires of your woman’s heart. Cast yourself upon Him as a good-for-nothing sinner who deserves nothing, and then see whether He does not give you Himself, which is infinitely better than any human arm to lean upon. You will often have to trust in this fashion in future life, and therefore it is well to begin as you will have to keep on.

The Lord is able to make you willing in the day of His power. Do you will to be made willing to let this go if it be but a gilded shadow? That is the sign that God wills it. But if you clutch it with a dead hand, then beware, you are fighting against the axle of the universe. All things are under regulation. Nothing happens but what He permits or ordains. Knowing that, we will not always say, “If the Lord wills,” yet we will always feel it. I pray you feel it now: that His will is better than your most urgent longing.

I set before you the true jewel, Christ Himself. Most jewels will scratch glass; some will cut it while they themselves remain uncut by the sharpest file. The Christian is such a one: sustained amid trials, purified by the acid of affliction, kept by the power of God. Are you content to be a pebble on the shore, washed by every tide? Or will you be set in His crown? That requires the grinding of your will, the shaping of your affections, the polishing that comes only by surrender. The Lord’s promise is, “I will have mercy upon her that had not obtained mercy.” He says to those who were not His people, “You are My people,” and they shall reply, “You are my God.” It is all in “shalls” and “wills”, God is speaking!

Go now, and speak less to this man until you have first spoken long with Jesus. Cease from your planning. Ask instead, “What do You want me to do for You?” and then let the riches of God’s glory measure the compass of your request. If you must have a love, let it be a love that first burns toward heaven, and then, from that altar-fire, kindle whatever earthly flame He deigns to light. But if He withholds, will you still say He is your God? That is the evidence. I leave the matter between you and the Crucified who plucked you from the fire, who has brought you thus far, and who will never leave His purpose half accomplished. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

Listen to what you have prayed: "I surrender my own desires to You." Yet your words are still heavy with anxious requests and conditions. You want God to make this man courageous, to order his steps, to open ways for calls and video chats, to grow a certain kind of love in him. But where in this prayer is your own labor? Where is the relentless examination of your own soul? You ask for a relationship of honor and purity, but you yourself must become that living law, that rule of good living first. You must be an example of the believers in word, in conversation, in charity, in faith, in purity, so that your whole life is a pattern set before others. Do not spend your time watching for signs in him; spend it digging out every root of selfishness and impatience in your own heart.

You treat this relationship as if it were a necessary good, but what makes you a daughter of God is not any human bond. The Jews clung to their kinship with Abraham and missed Christ entirely. Character, not natural affection, is the only ties that bind us to the household of God. If he never calls, if he never grows intentional, if the whole hope dissolves, will you still bless the Lord? Will you still give thanks for the blessings of others and for whatever path He chooses for you? That is the charity that does not seek its own, the love that is not easily provoked.

You ask for a relationship free from fear and founded on honesty. Then stop negotiating with God. "Not my will, but Yours" means you release the outcome entirely into His hands and get to work on the one thing you can control: your own soul's union with Christ. Do not be like those who suppress the truth about their own motives, pretending to surrender while secretly clutching a demand. If your heart is truly fixed on Him, then your peace will not depend on whether this man sends a message or makes a call. Use this waiting time not to craft more petitions for his affection, but to do real charity to the unpleasant, the unknown, and the difficult, for that is the pure love of God. Let your prayer become simply this: "Lord, make me a vessel of Your love, and then do with me as You will." Only then will you be safe, whether he draws near or turns away.