Yolande
Humble Servant
my fiance told me a week ago he wants to go back to his birth province. we met in Pretoria (my birth province) as he moved here 2 years ago because there was no work in Port Elizabeth. i have a very good work which is my passion, my home, friends and family is here. he said if i don't go with him and live his dream he will call off the engagement. i could not believe this. i am currently in the middle of my master degree studies and can not just leave now. he just wants to go back to live his dream. we met on the 23rd of January this year so rushed into an engagement which wasn't right i realise now. i wanted to work things out and build the foundation of our relationship and finish my degree then i would have gone.. but he asked his directors if they can transfer him to PE and got word yesterday that he can go. he has not signed yet. there is no work at the university currently in PE for me but even if there were, i am not sure if he really loves me. how can he force me to go and live his dream? when you get married you build new dreams that will be the best for both of you. i am 33 and my heart is broken. could not wait to get married and start a family. please pray for God to heal my heart if he accepts the job and send the man He has chosen for me or if it's God's will that he stay and we work this out and build our relationship on the foundation and guidelines set in the Word of God.
