csaaphill
Good and Faithful Servant
I thank you for that and yes I will pray for you. Maybe take some time then? But I know it's hard when both if he did? have to work 6-7 days a week but call in sometimes and just be together. If you can contact him ask why and if that's it, then make a promise to call in once in a while and do something together. Men as well want sexual and quality time with their wives, it's not just women who complain of this it's men as well.No i didn't my husband had walked 18 mounths ago said good by to our 2sons took the dog while I was at work and Took his things and walked out ,didn't have the nerve to tell me I had reached out to him on numerous times trying to fix this so we could work things out and nothing as far as I know I'm I don't think he's seeing anybody I work seven days a week trying to make it I have no time for anybody in my life but my heart belongs to my husband he blames me because our sons don't want to talk to him I have a 24-year-old son and a 20-year-old son and they both don't want any part of him because he walked out in the way he did it my son Matthew the 20-year-old said if daddy wanted a relationship he could've came back and said the only Word sorry ,and he didn't do that ,my husband seen my son Matthew at stop n shop were he worked,8mounts ago ,Jack had told Matthew to tell me and Paul that he misses us and that he messed up by walked ing out ,Friday I had Questioned my husband and asked him what he said to Matthew eight months ago and I had reminded him what he said and he said he only misses Paul and Matthew our sons not me and he also said that walking out was the best think he did
When we don't get it we look elsewhere as well. No saying he did just saying we want quality time with our wives as well.
As scripture says and its wise advice not trying to control anyone, but as it says the women's body is not of herself but the man's, and the man's body is not of himself but for the woman.
This little tidbit is why so many marriages fall apart. Women take it as a control so rebel against it, and men for other selfish reasons as well. These scripters that talk on marriage aren't for control they are for harmony it shouldn't matter if one or the other isn't doing or acting in a certain way the world says, we are to act, and even some biblical people can take too literal. People are raised in different homes and in different ways. I grew up with a dad who was abusive and never took the time to teach me much. What I learned from him, was anger and to hit. My mom tried too, bless her heart but she as well didn't learn me much as well. I am married now and for some reason, my wife has taken the selfish road citing menopause as her excuse to not have many sexual relations with me. I have dealt with it as much as I can and as of yet have not cheated yet! But may if things don't change so I kind of know what he may have felt when he walked out so...
Not judging so please please please don't get mad at me I am only looking for answers and or trying to help.
So yes I will pray for you all. I pray in the name of Jesus for some kind of reconciliation for all of you, and or some answers on his part as to why, and if I am right, then you both make compromises to help each other find love for each other again.
So:
Our heavenly father I come to you with a broken heart for these people that are having such a difficult time in their marriage. They have separated but the wife wants to get back together with her husband but doesn't even know why he left. So father in your in all your strength and knowledge I pray and ask for you to find the answers and what it is these people need to find love for each other again. In the name of Jesus the Father Yahweh and the holy spirit, I pray to you in humble heart for these people Amen.
There and sorry I had to copy the spelling for Yahweh.
