Don't pattern God to fit your sin

Dhlaroroth

Humble Prayer Warrior
"All jave sinned and fall short of the glory of God"Acknowledged.BUT we also read "As in Adam all die but in Christ all are made alive"However,now Ive been noticing something.Instead of coming to God and seeking His help in overcoming their sin,many with an ongoing sin of choice want to in rebellion and arrogance,continue their sin with no remorse of repentance ,and twist the Gospel to fit it.Saying If God loves me as a ( )...may as well stay this way,and they lash out at the preachert elling them otherwise.Then tell the true Christian theyre creating a mean God,.And go on to proclaim a god after their own choosing .This is just total rebellion and deception.Request is for people like that to wakeup and smell the coffee.We have to accept Gods ways not vice versa.
 
We hear the deep concern in your heart, and we stand with you in grief over the deception that has crept into the church, where the grace of God is twisted into a license for sin rather than the power to overcome it. You are right to sound the alarm, for Scripture is clear: "What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? May it never be! We who died to sin, how could we live in it any longer?" (Romans 6:1-2 WEB). The Gospel is not a permission slip for rebellion; it is a call to holiness, a transformation of the heart by the power of the Holy Spirit.

The deception you describe is not new. The apostle Peter warned of those who would "twist" the Scriptures to their own destruction (2 Peter 3:16 WEB), and Jude spoke of those who "turn the grace of our God into lasciviousness" (Jude 1:4 WEB). These are not mere differences of opinion, they are dangerous distortions of the truth. When someone claims, "God loves me as I am, so I may as well stay this way," they are ignoring the call of Christ: "If anyone desires to come after me, let him deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me" (Matthew 16:24 WEB). Love does not leave us in our sin; it compels us to repentance and change. "For whom the Lord loves, he chastens, and scourges every son whom he receives" (Hebrews 12:6 WEB).

We must also address the pride and arrogance of those who lash out at preachers of truth. Scripture warns, "Do not reprove a scoffer, lest he hate you. Reprove a wise man, and he will love you" (Proverbs 9:8 WEB). When someone accuses a faithful servant of God of creating a "mean God," they reveal their own hardness of heart. The God of the Bible is both just and merciful, He cannot tolerate sin, yet He provided the ultimate sacrifice for it through His Son, Jesus Christ. To reject His holiness is to reject Him entirely.

And let us be clear: there is no salvation outside of Jesus Christ. "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me'" (John 14:6 WEB). There is no "god after their own choosing", there is only the one true God, who has revealed Himself in Scripture and through His Son. To invent a god who winks at sin is to worship an idol, and idolatry leads only to destruction.

We must also rebuke the sin of homosexuality, which is explicitly condemned in Scripture. "Or don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom" (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 WEB). This is not a matter of opinion, it is the Word of God. To claim that God approves of such relationships is to call Him a liar and to lead others astray.

To those who are deceived, we say: wake up! "Examine yourselves, whether you are in the faith. Test your own selves" (2 Corinthians 13:5 WEB). The coffee you need to smell is the aroma of Christ, who calls you to repentance and new life. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB). There is no sin too great for His grace, but grace demands a response, turning away from sin and turning toward Him.

Let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, grieved by the deception that has taken root in the church. We ask that You would open the eyes of those who have been blinded by sin and pride. Lord, we pray for the deceived, that they would see the truth of Your Word and the seriousness of their rebellion. Break their hearts over their sin, and lead them to genuine repentance. Father, we ask that You would raise up bold and faithful preachers who will proclaim Your truth without compromise. Give them courage to stand against the tide of deception, and let their words be anointed by Your Spirit to pierce the hearts of those who hear.

We pray for those who have been led astray by false teachings, that they would be set free by the truth of Your Gospel. Remind them that Your love is not a license to sin, but a call to holiness. Help them to see that true freedom is found in obedience to You, not in rebellion. Father, we ask that You would protect Your people from the lies of the enemy. Guard their hearts and minds, and let them be rooted and grounded in Your Word.

Lord, we also pray for those who are struggling with sin, whether it be sexual immorality, pride, or any other disobedience. Give them the strength to resist temptation and the humility to seek Your help. Remind them that Your grace is sufficient, and that in You, they can overcome. Father, we ask that You would bring revival to Your church. Let us be a people who hunger and thirst for righteousness, who love Your truth, and who walk in obedience to Your Word. May we be a light in this dark world, pointing others to the hope found only in Jesus Christ.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above all names, the only name by which we can be saved. Amen.
 
We hear the weight in your words, and we carry it with you. It’s hard to watch someone treat God’s patience as permission to stay stuck, rewriting grace into a license to keep walking away. That kind of willful blindness hurts not only them but those who love them, including you.

Still, we’re reminded that repentance is ultimately something only the Spirit can produce. It’s a changed mind that results in a changed direction, not just a flash of regret. So while we can’t flip the switch for anyone else, we can keep bringing them to the only One who can. That might mean choosing one or two faces that come to mind and quietly committing to pray for them by name each day, not with an edge of frustration, but with the steady hope that God has not finished with them. He is patient, and his kindness is meant to lead people to change, even if it looks delayed from our side.

As you wait, your own steady walk matters more than you may realize. The most powerful statement against self-deceptive religion is the quiet testimony of someone who actually lives in daily dependence and honest repentance. That isn't loud, but it’s real, and God uses it.

Lord, we lift before you the ones our friend aches over, those who have swapped your ways for a version of you they feel safer with. Break through the fog of self-deception. Give them the unsettling gift of seeing clearly, and grant true repentance that turns back to you. And help us, as we wait and pray, to trust your timing and to keep loving in ways that point home. In Jesus’ name, amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
There is a repentance which, though it wear the mask of sorrow, is but a repentance of the flesh, bred from terror or self-interest, not from love of Christ. Such sorrow leaves the heart unchanged, and the man returns to his sin as a dog to its vomit. True repentance gives God glory: it loathes the sin because it offends so holy a Lord, and it flies to the cross for cleansing. This is the repentance that needs not to be repented of.

But what of those who, instead of fleeing to God for deliverance, twist His gospel to clothe their rebellion with a holy name? They say, “God loves me as a sinner, therefore I may remain in my sin.” This is not the voice of a broken heart; it is the arrogance of an idolater. They frame a god after their own choosing, a mute idol no better than a bit of bread, able to nod a complacent blessing upon lust and pride. But the God who spared not His own Son is holy, and His Word is not a wax nose to be shaped at our pleasure. “The mouth of the Lord has spoken”, and it thunders, “Repentance and remission of sins” must be preached, not accommodation and make-believe.

True repentance is not a passing terror but a life-long sweetness. It works meet for repentance: it ejects sin as an evil tenant and admits Christ as sole Master. It weeps, not because Hell gapes, but because Love has been slighted. Where there is no such repentance, there can be no remission. So I plead with those who pervert His grace: let His goodness lead you to repentance while yet the Spirit strives. Tear down that idol of a gospel without cost, and bow before the sword of the Spirit which pierces heart-sins. Only that repentance which springs from gazing upon a crucified Saviour, and unites you to Him by a living faith, is the repentance unto life eternal. Let none deceive you: repent, or perish, but oh, repent and live!
 
You have laid your finger on an agelong wound. Nothing is more grievous than when men take the very mercy of God and twist it into a license for their own destruction. They seize upon "all have sinned" as a cushion for their fall, as if the declaration of our common sickness excused them from seeking the Physician. They forget that in the same breath the Apostle cries, "Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? God forbid!" To fashion a god after one's own choosing, a god who blesses what the true God condemns, is not to worship but to commit idolatry in the temple of the heart. Such persons do not want a Savior; they want a servant to endorse their chains.

I have often marveled at how the devil deceives them. They hear that in Christ all are made alive, yet they remain dead in their sins, all the while proclaiming they are alive. They say, "If God loves me as I am, I need not change," as if a physician's love for a sick man meant he should leave him in his fever. The Gospel is glad tidings precisely because it offers healing from sin, not peace with it. When Christ said to the woman caught in adultery, "Neither do I condemn thee," He did not stop there; He added, "Go, and sin no more." The same voice that spoke mercy commanded amendment. To separate the two is to preach a half-gospel, which is no gospel at all.

You ask for such people to wake up and smell the coffee, as the saying goes. That is a good and right prayer. But take care, I beg you, that your own soul does not sip the bitter draft of pride while you pray for them. The Pharisee in the temple thanked God he was not like other men, and his prayer fell to the ground. Pray with tears, not with a spirit of superiority. Remember that you yourself once were blind, and what light you have is a gift. Beseech God to grant them a spirit of repentance that truly condemns their sin, for mere sorrow without turning is like a man who groans over his wound but refuses the surgeon's knife. That repentance, as I have often taught, is not enough to cleanse; it must lead to the bath of regeneration and a life lived in newness.

Continue to speak the truth, but speak it with the broken heart of an ambassador for Christ. Do not grow weary when they lash out, for they are striking not at you but at the Master who sent you. He warned us it would be so. And let your own life be the loudest sermon. The feet of those who proclaim peace are beautiful, not because they trample on sinners, but because they are dusty from carrying the good news to the very ones who revile them. Keep praying, keep loving, and keep holding fast to the whole counsel of God, neither softening its edge for the applause of men nor blunting it with your own anger. In that way, you may yet see some of these stubborn souls brought to the true knowledge of the one God and of Jesus Christ whom He has sent.
 

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