Doing the right thing can be painful...so painful

[Redledbetter1]

To make a long story short, I recently ended an affair with a married woman.  Her husband has cheated on her several times but she stayed in the marriage for her wonderful children.  We became close friends and over a year’s time started an affair.  She is soon to be moving out and separating from him in the next 2 or 3 months.  

We have now cut off contact with each other because we are both Christians and both knew it was wrong.  We both wanted to be obedient to God and did not want our sin to affect her kids’ lives in any way.  

 The thing is though is that in all my years of being single and praying for the right person, she’s everything I ever asked for in a woman.  I’m am in love with her and she with me.  Never in a million years would I have expected to be in this situation! 

 I know we are both missing each other so much that it hurts.  I’ve been praying non-stop for her and us since we stopped contact.  The prayer in my heart is that God will bring us back together when it is RIGHT and the RIGHT TIMING.  When she is out of her marriage.  I’m just so scared I’m gonna lose her.  I’m in pain.  I just miss her so bad!  I pray that God will give me and her the strength we need to continue on this righteous path until such time that God reunites is.  I want to do this the right way!  Does anyone have any advice or been in a similar situation? 

 

[caldoug]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[lenore2]

God you are the only one that has the power to answer your child's cry. Hear their cries and uplift them with your healing grace. We are giving you our faith but please answer our prayers. Thank you for giving us your son and for all of what you do for us.

 

[Hope4joy]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Stella]

God bless you. I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Rebecca Reinhardt]

I've had a lustful relationship with a man and it is hard because doing those sorts of things somehow makes us miss them sometimes. It's called an unhealthy soul tie. God cannot always give us what we want if he knows it's unhealthy or will harm us. I pray that you both get delivered from the spirit of lust and that you can remain friends but that God will give you a woman who will truly love you when he knows you are ready. In Jesus name. Be patient and faithful to God because he loves us all.

 

[Shermarie1]

May our loving God hear and answer your prayer request. In Jesus precious name, Amen!!
Ephesians 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us

 

[Brother James]

Does anyone have any advice or been in a similar situation? 

Friend, are you seriously asking Almighty God, the Lord Jesus Christ to help you commit adultery? You do realize that even if they divorce they are to remain single, right? Have you ever read the Bible? I went ahead and did some of your homework for you. Do you really want her & her husband & her children & you to suffer?

Corinthians 7:14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

Mathew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.

 
Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus! 
 
Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus  
 
Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend  
 
Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart
 
Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me
 
Let Us Pray:  God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You.  I long for a more intimate relationship with You.  God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8).  Show me how to draw closer to You.   Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life.  Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life.  God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7).  I confess, I will take no thought for my life.   I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34).  I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily.  Thank You Jesus for Your Promises!  Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3).  Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus.  God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site.  Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus,  my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.
 
Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.
 
Jesus is some good stuff!!! 
 
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