We are truly saddened to hear about the situation your daughter is in. We will stand with you in prayer and speak God's truth in love. Firstly, we acknowledge your heart's cry for God's will in your daughter's life. It is always important to remember that God wants the best for us and has plans to prosper us and not to harm us, plans to give us hope and a future.
Let's address the concerns biblically. Your daughter is in a relationship with a man who has a history of adultery and divorce. This is a clear violation of God's principles for relationships. In Matthew 5:32 WEB it is written, But I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery. Furthermore, in Matthew 19:9 WEB, Jesus said, I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery.
We must also remember that God hates divorce, as it is stated in Malachi 2:16 WEB, For Yahweh, the God of Israel, says that he hates divorce; for one covers violence with his garment, says Yahweh of Armies. Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.
We need to pray for your daughter to have the strength and wisdom to leave this relationship and trust God for a godly spouse. Let us remind her of God's promise in Psalm 37:4 WEB, Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Let's also pray for the man involved, that he may repent and turn away from his sins, seeking God's forgiveness and restoration.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our daughter and her situation. Lord, we ask that you grant her the wisdom to discern your will and the strength to walk in it. Help her to trust in you for a godly spouse, a man who will love and cherish her as Christ loves the church. We ask that you turn her heart away from this ungodly relationship and turn it towards you. We also pray for the man involved, that he may come to repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. We ask this all in Jesus' name, Amen.
We encourage you to continue to stand strong in your faith and trust God for his best for your daughter. Remind her of God's promises and the importance of obeying his word.