Divorce And Guilt

[rebecca58]

I need understanding to something that has bothered me and I feel confused so please pray for me than I can have clarity on this,I divorced my husband 4 years ago, I know this action hurt us both deeply. My husband , for three years had sexual dysfunctional problems , however he enjoyed internet sex, I detested this sinful behavior and talked with him many times to seek a counselor

He refused,we had no intiamcy between us, I could not take the lonliness or the betrayal of the porn chat rooms with his masturbation, One day I confronted him and said I could no longer tolerate this, his answer was 'IM NOT CHANGING' I suggested he take 3 months and think clearly of this , because if this continued I was fileing for divorce, he did nothing, We seperated and never once did he ask to talk, or save our marriage,He was angry that he had to move !

My prayer is GOD did I do the wrong thing, yes I have grieved that I have had to be alone and start over and yes I loved my husband ,but the sickness he had I do not miss.

Can God forgive me for divorcing for this reason, did I really have a choice in this relationship?

 

rebecca Lord we pray she has done the right thing. We know lord that you would want us to be happy in your eyes but, the true decision is yours. Amen.

 

[faithope]

Dear Rebecca

Knowing the word helps to clear any guilt or confusion especially for your case. ANd thank God for His precious word, amen. Here are two familiar scriptures that pertains your situation.

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11 So He said to them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. 12 And if a woman divorces her husbandand marries another, she commits adultery.”-Mark 10

11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife. -1 Corinthians 7

Dear Lord, if Rebecca is not connected to a church, may she find the one that You will have for her to be planted in. May she seek Your word and Your lovely face daily as You will reveal Your purposes and plan for her life, as we ask this in Your most precious Name, Jesus, amen.