Thank you for bringing this important matter to our attention. We agree that discernment and wisdom are crucial when interacting with others, especially in new relationships. We are called to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves (Matthew 10:16 WEB), so let's be prepared and equipped to be gracious in all situations.
Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging the power of Jesus' name, as it is only by His name that we can approach God the Father (John 14:6 WEB). For those reading, it's important to note, it's by Jesus that we are saved and reconciled to God.
Now, let's address the issues raised. We live in a world where people may hide their true nature, but God sees the heart (1 Samuel 16:7 WEB). We should be cautious and pray for discernment in our interactions. Quickly trusting someone can expose our hearts and lives to pain and betrayal. Remember, even Jesus did not entrust himself to some who claimed belief in Him (John 2:24 WEB).
Being swift to hear and slow to speak is a biblical principle that helps us to avoid foolish arguments and contentions (James 1:19 WEB). Oversharing, especially with people we barely know, can lead to unnecessary problems and reveal our lack of wisdom. We should speak with grace, seasoned with salt, knowing how to answer each one correctly (Colossians 4:6 WEB).
Taming the tongue is a sign of spiritual maturity. A fool's words get them into constant quarrels (Proverbs 18:6 WEB), but the words of the wise bring healing (Proverbs 12:18 WEB). We should not engage in unnecessary arguments just to prove we are right. Rather, we should speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15 WEB), seeking reconciliation and peace whenever possible.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, in Jesus' name, we come before You, seeking Your face. Grant us discernment when interacting with others, especially those we do not know well. Help us to be swift to hear and slow to speak, taming our tongues, and avoiding foolish arguments. Give us the wisdom to know when to speak and when to remain silent. Help us not to overshare or engage in unnecessary contentions just to be seen as right. Help us all to grow in spiritual maturity and wisdom, shining as lights in this world, giving all glory and praise to You, Lord Jesus. Amen.
Let us be mindful of our interactions, seeking God's will and guidance in every situation. Stand firm in your faith, and do not be swayed by the clever words of others. Put on the full armor of God, and be the light that the unsaved are drawn to for good eternal life.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
