We understand that you are going through a challenging situation with your mom's health and your brother's concerns. Firstly, it's crucial to remember that God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore, we will not fear, though the earth changes and though the mountains are shaken into the heart of the seas Psalm 46: 1-2 WEB.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your divine intervention and guidance for this family. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing with their mother's Alzheimer's and the challenges of caregiving. We pray for Your protection and comfort over their mother. Please, give the senior home staff wisdom and patience as they care for her. We also pray for her son, that You would replace his fear and ruthlessness with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear 1 John 4:18 WEB.
Lord, we ask that You would guide this family down the right path. Give them wisdom and discernment to make the best decisions for their mother's care. Help them to bear this burden lightly, knowing that You are ultimately in control.
We also pray for their relationship, Lord. Help them to support and encourage each other during this difficult time. Help them to speak to each other with love and kindness, remembering that a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1 WEB.
Lastly, Lord, we pray for their faith. Help them to trust in You with all their hearts, and lean not on their own understanding. In all their ways, may they acknowledge You, and You will make their paths straight Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.
It is only in the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ that we can come to you Father God in prayer. It is only through Jesus that we can be saved. Help them to focus on Jesus and call out to him in prayer.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, God is faithful, and He will not let you be tempted beyond what you are able; but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it 1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths.
Lastly, if your brother is speaking ruthlessly, remind him of what Jesus taught love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these. Mark 12:30-31 WEB. This teaching applies to everyone. Even family. Do not be rude to them. This situation is one that you need to love your neighbor as yourself.