We lift you up before the Father in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, knowing that He is your Provider, Comforter, and Peace in every storm. Your heart is heavy with many burdens—financial fears, family strife, health concerns, and relational longing—and we want you to know that God sees your tears and hears your cries. He is not distant in your suffering but draws near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). Let us address each of these concerns with the truth of Scripture and pray over them together, trusting that our God is able to do far more abundantly than all we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20).
First, we must gently but firmly address the mention of your "boyfriend." The Bible makes it clear that relationships outside of marriage are not pleasing to God, and intimacy before marriage is fornication, which is sin (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If this relationship is not one of courtship with the intent of marriage to a believer, it is not honoring to the Lord. We urge you to examine this relationship in light of Scripture. Are you both committed Christians seeking God’s will for marriage? If not, this relationship is not aligned with God’s design, and we pray you would repent and seek His wisdom for a godly, Christ-centered marriage in the future. The Lord desires holiness for His children, and He calls us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). If this relationship is leading you into temptation or emotional dependency outside of God’s will, it is not from Him. We pray you would surrender this area to the Lord and seek His guidance for a future spouse who loves Jesus above all else.
Now, let us turn to your financial and emotional struggles. The fear of losing benefits or income is a heavy weight, but we serve a God who owns the cattle on a thousand hills (Psalm 50:10) and promises to supply all our needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Your worth is not found in your bank account or government assistance but in Christ alone. He is your Shepherd, and you shall not want (Psalm 23:1). We rebuke the spirit of fear and lack in Jesus’ name, declaring that God is your Provider, and He will make a way where there seems to be no way. Trust in Him with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). If the letter from Social Security is confusing, seek wisdom from the Lord and consider reaching out to a trusted advisor or advocate who can help you understand it clearly. Do not let fear paralyze you; instead, cast all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7).
We also lift up the strife between you and your mother. Family conflict is painful, but God calls us to honor our parents (Exodus 20:12) and to pursue peace (Romans 12:18). Ask the Lord to soften both of your hearts and to bring reconciliation. Pray for patience, understanding, and a spirit of gentleness in your words. Even if she does not understand, you can respond with love and grace, trusting God to work in her heart.
Regarding your health and weight concerns, we pray for discipline and strength in Jesus’ name. Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20), and God desires you to steward it well. However, your worth is not tied to your appearance or the size of your clothes. The Lord looks at the heart (1 Samuel 16:7), and He loves you unconditionally. Ask Him to help you make wise choices for your health, not out of vanity but out of love for Him. He will give you the strength to overcome gluttony or emotional eating if that is a struggle. Trust that He is working in you to will and to do according to His good pleasure (Philippians 2:13).
Finally, we must address the absence of the name of Jesus in your request. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). Without Christ, there is no true peace, no eternal hope, and no power to overcome the struggles of this world. If you are already a believer, we encourage you to always approach the throne of grace in Jesus’ name, for it is through Him alone that we find mercy and grace to help in time of need (Hebrews 4:16).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is burdened and broken. Lord, You see her tears, and You hear her cries. Comfort her with Your presence and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Rebuke the spirits of fear, depression, and anxiety in Jesus’ name, and replace them with faith, joy, and trust in You.
Father, we ask for Your divine intervention in her financial situation. You are Jehovah Jireh, her Provider, and we declare that no weapon formed against her prosperity will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Give her clarity regarding the letter from Social Security, and let no benefit be reduced or cut. Open doors for additional income and provide for her needs according to Your riches in glory. Help her to trust You fully and not to rely on her own understanding.
Lord, we pray for reconciliation between her and her mother. Soften their hearts and grant them both patience, understanding, and forgiveness. Heal any wounds and restore their relationship in a way that honors You.
Father, we lift up her health and her body, which is Your temple. Grant her the discipline and strength to make wise choices for her physical well-being. Help her to see herself as You see her—fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Let her find her worth in You alone, not in her appearance or the opinions of others.
Lord, we address the relationship she mentioned. If it is not aligned with Your Word, we pray You would convict her heart and lead her to repentance. If this relationship is not one of godly courtship with the intent of marriage to a believer, we ask You to break any ungodly soul ties and to guide her toward a future spouse who loves You above all else. Help her to seek Your kingdom first and to trust You with her relational desires.
Father, we also pray that she would always come to You in the name of Jesus, for there is no other name by which we are saved. If she has not yet surrendered her life to Christ, we pray You would draw her to Yourself today. Let her know the peace, hope, and power that come only through faith in Jesus.
We declare miracles over her life in every area—financially, relationally, emotionally, and physically. Let her testimony be one of Your faithfulness and provision. Strengthen her faith, Lord, and help her to fix her eyes on You, the Author and Finisher of her faith.
In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.