We rejoice with you in the victory that God has already begun in reuniting you and your beloved, for indeed, "what God has joined together, let no one separate" (Mark 10:9 WEB). Your declaration in the name of Jesus Christ is powerful, and we stand with you in spiritual warfare, knowing that the enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but Christ came that we might have life abundantly (John 10:10 WEB).
However, we must address some concerns with biblical clarity and love. First, while your passion for this relationship is evident, we must gently remind you that Scripture defines marriage as a covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6 WEB). If this relationship is not a marriage, we urge you both to pursue godly courtship with the intent of holy matrimony, honoring God’s design. If it is a marriage, we stand with you in prayer for restoration, but we must also rebuke any unrepentant sin, including bitterness, rage, or unforgiveness, which Scripture warns grieves the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 4:30-32 WEB).
The spiritual attack you describe is real, and we take seriously the demonic interference you’ve witnessed. Yet we must also recognize that fasting, while powerful, can sometimes leave the flesh vulnerable to irritability or spiritual oppression if not paired with prayer, Scripture, and godly counsel. We rebuke the spirits of hatred, anger, and malice in Jesus’ name, for "the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds" (2 Corinthians 10:4 WEB). But we also exhort you both to examine your hearts: Are there unresolved wounds, unconfessed sin, or open doors to the enemy (e.g., generational curses, occult involvement, or unforgiveness)? Deliverance requires both the authority of Christ and the repentance of the believer (James 4:7 WEB).
You rightly invoke the blood of Jesus, for "without the shedding of blood, there is no remission of sins" (Hebrews 9:22 WEB). But we must also ask: Has your beloved personally surrendered her life to Christ? Salvation is not inherited or assumed; it is a personal decision to repent and believe (Romans 10:9-10 WEB). If she has not, we pray for her conviction, not just for reconciliation with you, but for eternal life in Jesus. No amount of spiritual warfare can replace the need for a personal relationship with Christ.
We also rebuke the influence of her family’s witchcraft and any ungodly counsel (e.g., therapy that contradicts Scripture). The Bible warns, "Do not turn to mediums or seek out spiritists, for you will be defiled by them" (Leviticus 19:31 WEB). We break every generational curse and ungodly soul tie in Jesus’ name, declaring that "if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed" (John 8:36 WEB).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Name above all names, the only Name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12 WEB). We thank You for Your faithfulness in reuniting this couple, and we declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17 WEB). Lord, we rebuke every spirit of division, anger, and malice that has manifested in this situation. We break every curse, every ungodly soul tie, and every demonic assignment in Jesus’ name. We plead the blood of Jesus over both of them, covering their minds, emotions, and spirits.
Father, we ask for true repentance and deliverance for ###. Convict her of any sin, unforgiveness, or ungodly agreements she has made, and lead her to a place of humility and surrender to You. If she has not yet made Jesus Lord of her life, we pray for her salvation, may she confess with her mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in her heart that You raised Him from the dead (Romans 10:9 WEB). Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23 WEB).
Lord, we also pray for ###. Strengthen him to walk in wisdom, patience, and love. Guard his heart from bitterness or control, and help him to lead with Christlike humility. We declare that this relationship is sanctified and set apart for Your glory, whether as a godly courtship leading to marriage or as a restored marriage under Your covenant. Protect them from the enemy’s lies, and let Your perfect peace reign in their hearts.
We ask for miraculous reconciliation, not just between them, but with You, Lord. May they both seek You first, and may their love for each other reflect Your love for the Church (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). We break every curse, every word spoken in anger, and every demonic assignment against them. We declare that they are more than conquerors through Christ (Romans 8:37 WEB) and that no power of hell can prevail against them.
We thank You, Lord, for Your mercy and grace. May Your will be done in their lives, and may they grow in faith, love, and holiness. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Encouragement and Guidance:
1. Examine the Foundation: Is this relationship built on Christ? If not, we urge you both to seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature believers who can guide you biblically. Marriage is a sacred covenant, not just an emotional bond.
2. Forgiveness and Repentance: Unforgiveness is a foothold for the enemy (2 Corinthians 2:10-11 WEB). Both of you must forgive each other, and any others who have hurt you, just as Christ forgave you.
3. Spiritual Warfare: Continue to pray together, read Scripture, and fast (if led by the Spirit). But also, guard your physical health, irritability from fasting can sometimes be mistaken for spiritual attack.
4. Break Ungodly Ties: If there has been any involvement in the occult (even "harmless" practices like horoscopes or tarot), repent and renounce it. The Bible warns that "the sacrifices of pagans are to demons" (1 Corinthians 10:20 WEB).
5. Seek Accountability: Isolation gives the enemy a foothold. Surround yourselves with believers who can pray with you and hold you accountable.
We stand with you in faith, believing that God is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20 WEB). But remember: true deliverance begins with surrender to Christ. If your beloved has not yet given her life to Jesus, pray for her salvation above all else. For "what does it profit a man to gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?" (Mark 8:36 WEB). May God’s will be done in both of your lives.