We join you in prayer before our Lord Jesus and we thank you for bringing this deep burden concerning your brother and your household before Him. We hear your desire for truth to be revealed, for lies to be rooted out, and for oppression and strife to be broken, and we stand with you to seek God's will and His peace in your home.
We want to gently and lovingly examine what you have shared in light of Scripture. You state that you do not hold hatred but that your brother does, and we take you at your word, yet Scripture calls each of us to search our own heart first. For it is written, If a man says, I love God, and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he has not seen? 1 John 4:20 and also Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. Psalm 139:23. The heart is deceitful above all things Jeremiah 17:9, so we encourage you to continue to ask the Lord to reveal any hidden bitterness, unforgiveness, or resentment in you as well, that you may walk in complete freedom and love. Jesus calls us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us Matthew 5:44, and this includes a brother in our own household.
We also hear your prayer that your brother be rooted out of the household if he is not there by God but by Satan, standing on Jeremiah 12:14. That passage speaks of God's judgment on evil neighbors who harmed His inheritance, and God did say He would pluck them up. Yet we must be careful not to use Scripture as a curse against our own family. God's heart is for redemption and reconciliation where possible, and He desires that none should perish but that all should come to repentance 2 Peter 3:9. Vengeance belongs to the Lord Romans 12:19, and we are called to pursue peace with all men if it is possible, as much as it is up to you Romans 12:18. So we do not pray for your brother's harm or expulsion from anger, but we do pray that if there is any influence or foothold of the enemy in your home, the Lord would expose it and remove it, and that if your brother remains in the home, it would be under God's lordship and for God's purposes, and if the Lord wills a separation for peace and safety, that He would make that clear and provide for it in His perfect way.
We affirm that spiritual warfare is real. For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places Ephesians 6:12. Your brother is not your enemy, the enemy behind the strife is. The weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds 2 Corinthians 10:4. We agree with you that every stronghold, foothold, and principality that seeks to hinder or oppress you must be brought down, for He disarmed the principalities and the powers, making a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them in it Colossians 2:15. And when the enemy comes in like a flood, Yahweh's Spirit will lift up a standard against him Isaiah 59:19.
We also hear your concern about transfer of spirits, witchcraft, and strife that gives favor to wrongdoing, standing on Matthew 18:18 and Micah 5:12. We agree that whatever you bind on earth will have been bound in heaven and we ask the Lord to cut off every form of sorcery and manipulation from your home Micah 5:12. At the same time we caution you not to give more credit to witchcraft or to a principality than to Christ, and not to attribute every conflict to witchcraft against you, lest we live in fear rather than in the victory of Jesus. Perfect love casts out fear 1 John 4:18. We are to bless and not curse, and to overcome evil with good Romans 12:21.
We pray together with you now.
Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved Acts 4:12, and through Him we have access to Your throne of grace. We praise You and thank You and glorify Your holy name. Lord Jesus, we ask You to root out every lie in this household, every lie that says hatred dwells where love should dwell, and reveal Your truth. Let no lie remain hidden, but expose it in Your light. We ask You to humble every heart in this home, including our brother who prays and the brother he prays for, and create in each a clean heart and renew a right spirit Psalm 51:10. We ask You to demolish every stronghold and pretension that exalts itself against the knowledge of God 2 Corinthians 10:5 and to lift a standard against every attack of the enemy Isaiah 59:19. We bind every assignment of oppression, strife, and confusion and we loose Your peace, Your truth, and Your restoration, trusting Your promise that whatever is bound on earth will have been bound in heaven Matthew 18:18. We ask You to break off any influence of witchcraft, manipulation, or strife that perverts justice and to cut off sorceries from among us Micah 5:12. Cancel the work of every principality behind discord, for You have triumphed over them Colossians 2:15. Restore to our brother double for his trouble and shame, as You promise instead of your shame you shall have double Isaiah 61:7. Let Your Spirit bring conviction, repentance, forgiveness, and reconciliation where it is Your will, and where separation is needed for holiness and safety, make Your way plain. We cover this prayer and this household with the precious blood of the Lamb, for they overcame him because of the Lamb's blood Revelation 12:11, and we ask that no weapon formed against Your child shall prosper Isaiah 54:17. Teach both brothers to forgive as You forgave us Ephesians 4:32, to love as You have loved us John 13:34, and to walk in humility and grace. We trust You to be the righteous Judge and the Healer of this family. In Jesus' name we pray and ask, Amen.