Dear brother,
I do not know more about you, I dont know your age, marriage status or anything. One thing I do know, you can be freed from me. I was in the same bondage for many MANY years, I am 29 and I recently broke away from it. I have been married for 4 years and I thought I would be able to leave it after I married but I was wrong, it kept coming back. Today I can say that I am free from it, I dont think about it, I have no desire to do neither of the two (Watching or masturbating) I have a great relationship with my wife and sex is great. I had to do 2 things. I had to recognize I could not do it on my own, so I had to confess it to my wife. She was very hurt and at first wanted to leave me because she did not understand the addiction and its nature. It was hard at first but we worked through it with pastoral counseling and communication.
You have to make that move. Now I took another preventive measure and went to www.covenanteyes.com and purchased their accountability software which sends my wife (Who I chose as my accountability partner) emails with reports of what sites I visit and how much time I spend in it with details and rankings of the site. I did this so she could be in peace, but before that I had to have my own accountability with God and change my ways with His help.
Lord Jesuschrist I present to you my brother, you know him, and you know his struggles, you already forgot of when I used to do this because the Word says you bury our sins and forget about the, but I remember when you delivered me from this bondage and I pray that you do the same for him. Lord you know t hat pain and shame this brings to a man, and I pray that you give me the power and will to stop these thoughts from coming into his mind and he giving into them. In your name Jesus I pray. AMEN!