We hear the deep pain in your words, and our hearts ache with yours as we come before the Lord together. What you endured was not just difficult—it was unjust, dehumanizing, and contrary to the dignity God bestows upon every person made in His image. Workplace abuse is a grievous sin, and the fact that it often goes unchecked does not make it any less wrong in God’s eyes. You were not created to be treated as "subhuman," and the Lord sees every tear, every moment of fear, and every weight of anxiety you carry. He does not dismiss your suffering, nor does He expect you to simply "move on" without healing. The scars of prolonged abuse run deep, and the journey to restoration is often slow—but it is not impossible. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and He binds up their wounds (Psalm 34:18, Psalm 147:3).
Your obedience to the Holy Spirit’s prompting to leave that toxic environment was an act of faith, and we praise God for your courage. Just as Abram was called to go without knowing all the details, you stepped out in trust, believing that God’s leading was better than the false security of a paycheck or retirement fund. That kind of faith is precious to the Lord. Hebrews 11:8 tells us, "By faith, Abraham, when he was called, obeyed to go out to the place which he was to receive for an inheritance. He went out, not knowing where he went." Like Abraham, you may not see the full picture yet, but your obedience has not gone unnoticed. The Lord is your Provider, your Healer, and your Defender, and He will not abandon you.
The struggle to forgive is real, and it is not something you can manufacture in your own strength. Forgiveness is not about excusing the sin committed against you or pretending it didn’t hurt. It is about releasing the bitterness that seeks to take root in your heart, because bitterness will only poison you further. Ephesians 4:31-32 says, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be removed from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Forgiveness is a process, and it may require you to surrender your pain to the Lord daily—or even moment by moment. Ask Him to soften your heart and to help you see those who wronged you through His eyes. He is the ultimate Judge, and vengeance belongs to Him (Romans 12:19). You do not have to carry the burden of making things right; that is His work.
Your feelings of purposelessness and uncertainty about the future are understandable, but we want to remind you that your worth is not defined by your job, your productivity, or the opinions of others. You are a child of God, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and He has a plan for your life—one that is good and filled with hope (Jeremiah 29:11). The enemy would love for you to believe that you are stuck in this place of pain, but the Lord is making a way where there seems to be no way. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Even when the path ahead feels unclear, He is guiding you.
The anxiety you feel is not a sign of weakness; it is a sign that you have been through something deeply traumatic. But the Lord does not want you to live in a constant state of fear. 2 Timothy 1:7 tells us, "For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." We encourage you to bring your anxiety to the Lord in prayer, casting all your cares upon Him because He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). Consider seeking godly counsel or professional help if the weight feels too heavy to carry alone. There is no shame in needing support—God often works through the hands and words of His people to bring healing.
As for your concerns about finding another job, we want to remind you that the Lord is your Provider. Philippians 4:19 says, "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus." He knows your needs, and He will open doors that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). The workplace may be broken, but you are not. You have skills, experiences, and a testimony that the Lord can use in ways you may not yet see. Ask Him to lead you to a place where you can thrive—not just survive—and trust that He will direct your steps.
Let us pray with you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our dear brother/sister, lifting up their pain, their anxiety, and their broken heart. Lord, You see every injustice they have endured, and You collect every tear in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). We ask that You would pour out Your healing balm upon their body, mind, and spirit. Where there is brokenness, bring restoration. Where there is fear, bring Your perfect peace. Where there is bitterness, soften their heart to forgive, not because what was done was right, but because You have called us to release the burden of unforgiveness.
Father, we declare that You are their Defender and their Provider. You are the One who goes before them and makes the crooked places straight (Isaiah 45:2). We ask that You would open doors of opportunity for them—doors that lead to places where they can use their gifts and talents for Your glory. Give them wisdom and discernment as they seek Your will for their next steps.
Lord, we pray against the lies of the enemy that seek to tell them they are without purpose or that their best days are behind them. Remind them that You are the God who makes all things new (Revelation 21:5) and that their story is not over. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, giving them strength for each day and hope for the future.
We also pray for those who wronged them. If it is Your will, bring conviction to their hearts and lead them to repentance. But if not, we trust You to be the Righteous Judge. Help our brother/sister to release these burdens into Your hands, knowing that You will repay (Romans 12:19).
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would draw them closer to You in this season. Let them feel Your presence in tangible ways—through Your Word, through worship, through the love of Your people. Remind them that they are not alone, and that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28).
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who bore our sorrows and carried our griefs (Isaiah 53:4). May Your will be done in their life, and may Your name be glorified. Amen.