Decision to be made

[hahlyn]

I have been married for 4 years and separated for 4 months my husband has told me he does not love me and he is comfortable in his current state of being single. We have 2 small children 8 and 6 there were several things that lead to the separation me loosing a good paying job do to restructure and him getting back in contact with some family members who are not good role models. My husband began to go out every weekend stay out to 3 am never spend time with the family only had time for his new found single life. To date it is the same if not worse, he barely gives any money for the children and he doesn't give me anything for the house which is on its way to foreclosuer. I have been praying to God and I believe the Holy Spirit said 3 things "he is not ready" "pray for him" I will guide you. Thru a series of 5 nights in a row I awoke with I can do all things thru Christ that strengthens me, Exodus, James, Nehemiah, and last was Philippians I tried to understand and research as much as I could but was still left with I don't know what to do with this. Prior to getting all of this I saw the movie Fireproof and my Pastor and his wife came to my house and prayed with me about my marriage so I wasn't sure if it was all that or if this was God truly speaking to me and because I did not obey was this a missed opportunity for my marriage. Bottom line my husband has said so many mean things to me and my flesh is hurt I just want this pain to go away by any means necessary but I need direction from God on if I should Divorce or not. I need true prayer because I am on the fence I love him but my flesh is hurt and my heart is broken and he has told me more than a few time he does not love me. Please pray for and with me to make the correct decision for me my children and for my sanity. Thank you all and God Bless everyone of you.

 

[silentangel]

Lord, I touch this prayer from hahlyn. Lord, I pray you would give my sister direction in her life. Lord, as she struggles with all the questions and concerns, I pray your mercy and grace to lead and guide her through all the hoops. Will you give her discernment so that she can be confident of your will for her marriage and her life. I pray for this family unit, if there is any way to restore it, to heal it, to give it a new firm foundation. Lord,

let her lean on you. May she find shelter in your loving arms. May you renew her strength and show her the way. I pray that you would touch her prayer. Thank you Lord for your mighty hand. To you be all glory, honor and praise. Amen

 

[Ann]

Lord, help hahlyn throught this difficult time. Guide her to do what is best for herself and her children. Give her Insight into Your Will for her and her children, and the courage to do Your Will. Keep her safe in Your Arms and show her the Way. I ask this in Christ's Name. Amen.