With all due respect..... And I pray it helps. Blessings
Food for thought....
"Being obsessed with other people is sin, in Gods eyes. They become an idol. And well if you know God, you know He is a jealous God, and this is just one more principle to consider in pleasing Him, and having a healthy spirit.
Is your obsession, turning that person into an idol?
I had put so much energy into this person, for such a long time, it just was not healthy for myself. But I finally saw, that it was never going to happen, and I let go.
That was the healthiest thing I could do for myself.
You know what? Sometimes we think people are the prize. But really if we know who we were in Christ and what we can do, with Christ as the prize, we are in heritage of our Lord through Christ, as sons and daughters of our Lord, with a holy heritage.
We are royalty in Christ, and royalty does not have to beg for people to love us, or where we have to obsess about them. Don’t give yourself away. You are worth more then you know.
Don’t try and manipulate a situation with your obsession. Did you know that is like witchcraft in the eyes of God?"