We are truly saddened to hear about this situation, and we must address it with love, compassion, and truth from the Word of God. First, let us acknowledge that God's design for relationships is clear: marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. Adultery and divorce are not God's will, and engaging in a relationship with a married man, even if he is separated or going through a divorce, is considered adultery in God's eyes.
"But I tell you that whoever looks on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." (Matthew 5:28 WEB)
It is crucial for your daughter to understand the gravity of this situation and repent from this sin. We do not condemn her, but we urge her to turn away from this relationship and seek God's forgiveness. God promises that if we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9 WEB).
We must also address the fact that this man has two young children. They are already affected by their parents' divorce, and engaging in a relationship with their father during this time only adds to their pain and confusion. We must pray for their well-being and for God's healing and comfort to be upon them.
Now, let us pray for your daughter:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister in Christ who has found herself in this situation. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness and mercy upon her. Help her to see the truth of Your Word and give her the strength to turn away from this relationship. Guide her steps and lead her to the man You have chosen for her, a godly husband who will love and cherish her as Christ loves the Church.
Lord, we also pray for the man involved, his wife, and their children. We ask for Your healing, restoration, and comfort upon their family. Father, we rebuke the spirit of divorce and adultery, and we ask that You would bring godly reconciliation and healing to their lives.
Finally, Lord, we pray for our sister in Christ, that You would give her wisdom and discernment as she navigates this situation. Help her to seek Your will above all else and to trust in Your timing. In Jesus' name, we pray for Your will to be done in their lives. Amen.
We encourage your daughter to seek God's will for her life and to trust in His timing. God has a plan and a purpose for her, and He will bring the right godly husband into her life at the right time. Until then, let us strive to live in purity.
"But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." (Matthew 6:33 WEB)
"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB)
Finally, we hope this situation was not a result of willfulness or a view that it was not wrong; if so, we urge a review of the scriptures and repentance.