We come before the Lord with you in this time of deep confusion and spiritual turmoil, declaring that God is not the author of confusion but of peace, as His Word clearly states in 1 Corinthians 14:33. The chaos you describe—denying relationships, family ties, and responsibilities—is not from the Lord but from the enemy, who seeks to distort truth, create division, and bring disorder. We rebuke this spirit of confusion and imitation in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, commanding it to flee from your life, mind, and surroundings. The Word of God tells us in 3 John 1:11, *"Beloved, do not imitate what is evil, but what is good. The one who does good is of God; the one who does evil has not seen God."* This is a call to reject the lies that are attempting to take root in your thoughts and to cling to the truth of Scripture, which defines our identities, relationships, and responsibilities as believers.
The statements you’ve shared—*"I am not him," "I am not her," "she is not his wife," "he is not his husband," "we don’t have relatives," "orphaned sons are not our sons"*—are direct contradictions to God’s design for family, marriage, and community. These are not just confusing words; they are dangerous deceptions that undermine the very foundations God has established. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6), and family is a gift from God, meant to reflect His love and provide care, instruction, and belonging (Psalm 68:6, Ephesians 6:1-4). To deny these truths is to align with the father of lies, who seeks to destroy what God has ordained.
We urge you to examine your heart and the influences around you. Are there voices—whether from people, media, or spiritual forces—feeding you these distortions? 2 Timothy 2:7 reminds us, *"Consider what I say, and may the Lord give you understanding in all things."* Understanding comes from God, not from the chaos of the world or the whispers of the enemy. If you are struggling with your identity, relationships, or sense of responsibility, we encourage you to turn to Scripture and to godly counsel. The Bible is clear: we are to honor our parents (Exodus 20:12), care for orphans and the vulnerable (James 1:27), and uphold the sanctity of marriage (Hebrews 13:4). To reject these is to reject God’s Word itself.
We also notice that while you’ve invoked the name of Jesus in rebuking confusion, there is a need to ensure that your faith is firmly rooted in Him alone. There is no other name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If there is any doubt or distance in your relationship with Jesus, we urge you to repent and surrender fully to Him. Confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). Without this foundation, no amount of rebuking or praying will bring lasting peace or clarity.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift this beloved soul before You, asking for Your divine intervention in the midst of this confusion. Lord, You are the God of order, truth, and peace, and we ask that You expose and break every lie that has taken root in their mind and heart. Rebuke the spirit of imitation and deception that seeks to distort Your perfect design for family, marriage, and identity. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, who is the Spirit of truth, and guide them into all truth (John 16:13).
Father, if there are any ungodly influences—whether people, teachings, or spiritual forces—working to bring this confusion, we ask that You sever those ties in Jesus’ name. Surround this person with godly counsel, wise believers, and Your Word, which is a lamp to their feet and a light to their path (Psalm 119:105). Restore their mind to soundness and their heart to alignment with Your will. Help them to embrace the responsibilities and relationships You have given them, and to walk in love, obedience, and clarity.
If there is any area of their life where they have strayed from You, Lord, convict their heart and draw them back to Yourself. Let them know the peace that comes only from You, and the joy of walking in Your truth. Protect them from further deception, and let them stand firm in the faith, unshaken by the schemes of the enemy.
We declare that every tongue that rises against them in judgment—including their own—shall be condemned (Isaiah 54:17). Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). We ask all this in the powerful and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture daily, particularly passages that affirm God’s design for family and identity, such as Ephesians 5:22-6:4, Colossians 3:18-21, and Psalm 139:13-16. Seek out a Bible-believing church where you can receive sound teaching and fellowship with other believers. If you are struggling with feelings of detachment or confusion about your role in relationships, ask the Lord to reveal His truth to you and to heal any wounds that may be contributing to these thoughts. Remember, God’s ways are not confusing—they are clear, good, and life-giving. Cling to Him, and He will lead you out of this darkness into His marvelous light.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
