2Pe 1:2 Grace and
peace be multiplied unto you through the knowledge of God, and of Jesus our Lord,
2Pe 1:3 According as his
divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness,
through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue:
2Pe 1:4 Whereby are given unto us exceeding great and precious promises: that by these ye might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.
2Pe 1:5 And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge;
2Pe 1:6 And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience godliness;
2Pe 1:7 And to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity.
2Pe 1:8 For if these things be in you, and abound, they make you that ye shall neither be barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.
1Co 14:33 For
God is not the author of confusion, but of peace...
.Rom 12:1 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.
Rom 12:2 And
be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
Eph 4:23 And
be renewed in the spirit of your mind;
Eph 4:24 And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.
Jas_4:7 Submit yourselves therefore to God.
Resist the devil, and he will flee from you
2Co 10:4 (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds

2Co 10:5
Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;
Php 4:6 Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.
Php 4:7 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Php 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are
honest, whatsoever things are
just, whatsoever things are
pure, whatsoever things are
lovely, whatsoever things are of
good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, t
hink on these things.
If our warfare is spiritual (and it is) then this tells me your husband has been taken captive by the devil and God has given you power and authority in the name of Jesus to take back what the enemy has stolen. In other words, if your husband is in captivity, he cannot give you what you 'need' from him. A person in prison doesn't have power to do much of anything except obey his taskmaster (if that makes any sense). So your battle plan needs to change from being the one who is 'hurt' to freeing the one who is 'hurting' and in need of God's MERCY!
Father thank you for this amazing wife who stands in faith for the restoraton of her marriage. In the name of Jesus I speak LIFE and LOVE into Ben's mind and heart and a desire to be restored back to the wife of his youth. I bless this marriage with shalom (wholeness and soundness) and LOOSE, CRUSH SMASH AND DESTROY THE HOLD THAT SATAN HAS ON BEN AND COMMAND HE BE RELEASED IN THE NAME OF JESUS! THIS MARRIAGE SHALL LIVE AND NOT DIE IN THE NAME OF JESUS!
Thank you Lord! In Jesus name. Amen.
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