We hear your heart’s cry for joy, love, and a life free from the interference of others. It is clear you long for happiness, a godly marriage, and the strength to rise above those who seek to discourage you. We rejoice with you in the hope of restoration and the return of blessings in your life, for the Lord delights in seeing His children thrive. However, we must also speak truth in love, as Scripture commands us to do.
First, we must address the foundation of your hope. You mention the blood of Jesus, and we praise God for that acknowledgment, for there is no salvation or true joy apart from Him. Jesus said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me"* (John 14:6). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to be Lord of your life. Without this, no amount of personal power or determination will bring lasting peace.
Now, regarding your desire for a wedding and a husband, we must encourage you to align this longing with God’s design for marriage. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, established by God for His glory and our good. *"Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they shall be one flesh"* (Genesis 2:24). If you are currently in a relationship that does not honor this standard—whether through premarital intimacy, an unbiblical union, or a courtship not rooted in Christ—we must gently but firmly rebuke this. Fornication and sexual immorality are sins that grieve the Holy Spirit and separate us from God’s best for our lives. *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18). If this applies to you, repent and seek God’s forgiveness. He is faithful to cleanse and restore.
We also sense a spirit of defiance in your words—*"mind your own business"*—which can sometimes stem from hurt but can also lead to isolation from godly counsel. Proverbs 11:14 tells us, *"Where there is no counsel, the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety."* Instead of pushing others away, invite trusted, Bible-believing believers into your life to speak truth and encouragement over you. The enemy wants you to believe you are alone, but God has placed His people around you for support.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious one who longs for joy, love, and a godly marriage. Lord, we thank You for the hope You have placed in her heart, and we ask that You would refine her desires to align with Your perfect will. Father, if there is any area of her life not surrendered to You—whether in relationships, thought patterns, or past hurts—we ask that You reveal it to her and draw her into repentance and healing.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of discouragement and isolation that seeks to steal her joy. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We pray for godly friendships and mentors to surround her, speaking life and truth into her journey. Father, if she is not yet in a relationship, prepare her heart for the spouse You have for her—a man after Your own heart who will love her as Christ loves the Church. If she is in a relationship, we ask that You expose any ungodliness and lead her into holiness.
We break every curse of hatred, jealousy, and opposition sent her way. We declare that her steps are ordered by You (Psalm 37:23) and that her future is filled with hope (Jeremiah 29:11). Lord, teach her to walk in humility, wisdom, and dependence on You, not her own strength. May she find her identity and power in Christ alone, for apart from Him, we can do nothing (John 15:5).
We thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness. We trust that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28) and that Your plans for her are for peace and not harm. May she experience the fullness of Your love and the joy of Your presence every day. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord daily through prayer and Scripture. Spend time in His Word, particularly in passages about marriage, such as Ephesians 5:22-33, and ask Him to prepare your heart for the spouse He has for you. If you are not currently in a church, find a Bible-believing, Christ-centered congregation where you can grow in your faith and be surrounded by godly examples.
Remember, true happiness is not found in a wedding dress, a husband, or even personal power—it is found in a right relationship with Jesus Christ. When you delight yourself in Him, He will give you the desires of your heart (Psalm 37:4). Keep your eyes on Him, and He will lead you into the abundant life He has promised.
