Please pray for me about this: I feel that my church members at the church we joined this year sometimes get upset/hurt if my mother and I cannot attend every single event at church. Some of these hurt feelings are likely a result of spiritual warfare that has targeted me since I was a child which influences people to do terrible things to me (or react in abnormally negative ways toward me) to push me toward deep unforgiveness. However, I think there are some hurt feelings that are just generally there outside of the warfare. I want to make it clear that I am not trying to forsake assembling with my brothers and sisters in Christ - that is not the case AT ALL. I love going to church and would be there 24/7 if I could. We attend many things (and sometimes more than other people in the church do). However, there are also several other factors: my father does not attend church with us and is being very resistant. Also, we have family members (from our natural family) who we also have to spend time with and they do not attend our church. Also, I have health concerns that sometimes make it difficult for me to be able to leave the house all the time and my mother is also elderly and sometimes has pains and aches; and regardless of what we are doing whether it is inside or outside of church, we are not people who are always out, we actually spend a lot of time at home mostly because we always need rest and can't handle being out all the time physically. We've always been this way. In the case of my father, while I am sad that he won't go to church with us and am constantly praying for him to start going to church with us (and he does sometimes attend church events with us outside of church services), God has personally convicted me that it is disrespectful and inappropriate toward my father as the head of the household and as my mother's husband for my mother and I to constantly be out leaving my father at home. It would be one thing if it was just me going out and that would be different (but even then I still have been personally convicted to spend time with my family and not be out all the time) but my family and I do everything together and that's the way it is with church too except my dad won't come. We are a very close family and my parents and I do everything together. We moved to this area to be closer to my siblings and we do have my sister who is still living here along with her family with us but my parents and I only have each other most of the time. I can tell that my father gets deeply sad when we are constantly out without him - he basically is sitting at home alone when we're gone. Imagine the mental and emotional impact of that especially in the context of a very tight knit family. While we do always invite him to church events and pray for him to come and are sad when he doesn't, God has personally convicted me to stay home with him sometimes. As part of my witnessing to my father and loving him toward Christ, God has convicted me to spend time with him as well and not go out all the time. He has convicted me (and I have actually seen it transpire) that it actually hurts our witness when my mother and I leave my father out constantly. My father also has medical conditions that make it where he should not always be left alone constantly. My mother and I also have obligations to spend time with our natural family as well. God gave them to us and we cannot ignore them. Please pray that the people at my church would understand these things where need be. We have told them some things but perhaps there is also a need for more communication about these issues which please pray the opportunity will be given for that if necessary. Again, I believe a lot of these hurt feelings are due to spiritual warfare but please also pray about any that exist outside of the warfare. Please also pray that I would remain Christlike and spiritually mature in the face of the spiritual warfare I've mentioned and remember its existence and not get angry with people when I know that they are being influenced by Satan and acting outside of their usual character. Thank you.
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
We hear your heart and the deep love you have for both your church family and your natural family. It is clear that you are seeking to honor God in all areas of your life, and that is commendable. The tension you feel between these two important callings is real, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting this burden before the Lord.
First, we want to affirm your commitment to gathering with the saints. Hebrews 10:24-25 reminds us, *"Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching."* You are not forsaking the assembly—you are faithfully participating in ways that honor God’s other callings on your life. Your love for the church and your desire to be present are evident, and we pray that your brothers and sisters would see and appreciate that.
At the same time, your obedience to God’s conviction about honoring your father is beautiful and scriptural. Ephesians 6:2-3 says, *"Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise: that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth."* You are walking in wisdom by considering his emotional and physical well-being, and by recognizing that your witness to him is strengthened when you prioritize time with him. This is not neglect of the church—it is faithfulness to another area of God’s will. We pray that your church family would understand and respect this calling as well.
The spiritual warfare you mention is real, and we take it seriously. The enemy seeks to divide, discourage, and provoke bitterness, but we stand against him in the name of Jesus. James 4:7 declares, *"Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* We pray that you would remain steadfast in Christlikeness, even when others’ reactions are influenced by spiritual forces beyond their awareness. May the Lord give you grace to respond with love and maturity, remembering that *"we don’t wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places"* (Ephesians 6:12).
We also lift up your father before the Lord. Your heart for his salvation is precious, and we join you in praying that the Holy Spirit would draw him to Christ. Your faithfulness in loving him, spending time with him, and inviting him to church—even when he resists—is a powerful testimony. May the Lord use your obedience to soften his heart and open his eyes to the truth of the gospel.
For the hurt feelings that exist outside of spiritual warfare, we pray for open doors of communication. Proverbs 15:1 says, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* If the Lord provides an opportunity to share more about your circumstances, may your words be seasoned with grace and truth. And may your church family extend grace to you, recognizing that each believer’s walk with the Lord looks different.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister and her family. Lord, You see the love she has for Your church and the desire of her heart to be faithful in gathering with the saints. We ask that You would soften the hearts of her church family to understand her circumstances and extend grace to her. Help them to see that her absence at times is not a lack of love for them, but a response to Your conviction in other areas of her life.
Father, we also ask that You would strengthen her to resist the schemes of the enemy. When others react in ways that are influenced by spiritual warfare, give her the grace to respond with Christlike love and maturity. Guard her heart from bitterness and unforgiveness, and help her to remember that the battle is not against flesh and blood.
Lord, we pray for her father. Soften his heart to the gospel and draw him to Yourself. Use her faithfulness in loving him and spending time with him as a witness that points him to Christ. Provide opportunities for him to attend church with her, and let Your Word take root in his heart.
Father, we also ask that You would give her wisdom in communicating with her church family. Open doors for her to share her heart in a way that brings understanding and unity. Help them to see that her love for them is real, even if her physical presence is limited at times.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would grant her and her mother strength for their health concerns. Provide the rest they need and the grace to serve You faithfully in whatever capacity You call them to. May their lives be a testimony of Your faithfulness and love.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus, our Savior and Lord. Amen.
First, we want to affirm your commitment to gathering with the saints. Hebrews 10:24-25 reminds us, *"Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching."* You are not forsaking the assembly—you are faithfully participating in ways that honor God’s other callings on your life. Your love for the church and your desire to be present are evident, and we pray that your brothers and sisters would see and appreciate that.
At the same time, your obedience to God’s conviction about honoring your father is beautiful and scriptural. Ephesians 6:2-3 says, *"Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise: that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth."* You are walking in wisdom by considering his emotional and physical well-being, and by recognizing that your witness to him is strengthened when you prioritize time with him. This is not neglect of the church—it is faithfulness to another area of God’s will. We pray that your church family would understand and respect this calling as well.
The spiritual warfare you mention is real, and we take it seriously. The enemy seeks to divide, discourage, and provoke bitterness, but we stand against him in the name of Jesus. James 4:7 declares, *"Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* We pray that you would remain steadfast in Christlikeness, even when others’ reactions are influenced by spiritual forces beyond their awareness. May the Lord give you grace to respond with love and maturity, remembering that *"we don’t wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places"* (Ephesians 6:12).
We also lift up your father before the Lord. Your heart for his salvation is precious, and we join you in praying that the Holy Spirit would draw him to Christ. Your faithfulness in loving him, spending time with him, and inviting him to church—even when he resists—is a powerful testimony. May the Lord use your obedience to soften his heart and open his eyes to the truth of the gospel.
For the hurt feelings that exist outside of spiritual warfare, we pray for open doors of communication. Proverbs 15:1 says, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* If the Lord provides an opportunity to share more about your circumstances, may your words be seasoned with grace and truth. And may your church family extend grace to you, recognizing that each believer’s walk with the Lord looks different.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister and her family. Lord, You see the love she has for Your church and the desire of her heart to be faithful in gathering with the saints. We ask that You would soften the hearts of her church family to understand her circumstances and extend grace to her. Help them to see that her absence at times is not a lack of love for them, but a response to Your conviction in other areas of her life.
Father, we also ask that You would strengthen her to resist the schemes of the enemy. When others react in ways that are influenced by spiritual warfare, give her the grace to respond with Christlike love and maturity. Guard her heart from bitterness and unforgiveness, and help her to remember that the battle is not against flesh and blood.
Lord, we pray for her father. Soften his heart to the gospel and draw him to Yourself. Use her faithfulness in loving him and spending time with him as a witness that points him to Christ. Provide opportunities for him to attend church with her, and let Your Word take root in his heart.
Father, we also ask that You would give her wisdom in communicating with her church family. Open doors for her to share her heart in a way that brings understanding and unity. Help them to see that her love for them is real, even if her physical presence is limited at times.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would grant her and her mother strength for their health concerns. Provide the rest they need and the grace to serve You faithfully in whatever capacity You call them to. May their lives be a testimony of Your faithfulness and love.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus, our Savior and Lord. Amen.
We hear your heart, dear friend, and we want you to know that you're not alone in this. It's clear that you're trying to balance your love for your church family and your natural family, and it's not an easy task. We're here to support you in prayer.
Firstly, we want to affirm your commitment to gathering with the saints. It's evident that you're not forsaking the assembly, but rather, you're finding a balance between your love for the church and your responsibilities towards your family. We pray that your church family would see and appreciate this.
At the same time, we understand and respect your obedience to God's conviction about honoring your father. It's commendable that you're considering his emotional and physical well-being, and we believe that your witness to him is strengthened when you prioritize time with him. We pray that your church family would understand and respect this calling as well.
The spiritual warfare you've mentioned is real, and we stand with you against it. We pray that you would remain steadfast in Christlikeness, even when others' reactions are influenced by spiritual forces. Remember, we don't wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12).
We also join you in praying for your father. Your heart for his salvation is precious, and we pray that the Holy Spirit would draw him to Christ. Your faithfulness in loving him, spending time with him, and inviting him to church is a powerful testimony. May the Lord use your obedience to soften his heart and open his eyes to the truth of the gospel.
For the hurt feelings that exist outside of spiritual warfare, we pray for open doors of communication. We believe that if the Lord provides an opportunity to share more about your circumstances, your words would be seasoned with grace and truth, and your church family would extend grace to you, recognizing that each believer's walk with the Lord looks different.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister and her family. Lord, You see the love she has for Your church and the desire of her heart to be faithful in gathering with the saints. We ask that You would soften the hearts of her church family to understand her circumstances and extend grace to her. Help them to see that her absence at times is not a lack of love for them, but a response to Your conviction in other areas of her life.
Father, we also ask that You would strengthen her to resist the schemes of the enemy. When others react in ways influenced by spiritual warfare, give her the grace to respond with Christlike love and maturity. Guard her heart from bitterness and unforgiveness, and help her to remember that the battle is not against flesh and blood.
Lord, we pray for her father. Soften his heart to the gospel and draw him to Yourself. Use her faithfulness in loving him and spending time with him as a witness that points him to Christ. Provide opportunities for him to attend church with her, and let Your Word take root in his heart.
Father, we also ask that You would give her wisdom in communicating with her church family. Open doors for her to share her heart in a way that brings understanding and unity. Help them to see that her love for them is real, even if her physical presence is limited at times.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would grant her and her mother strength for their health concerns. Provide the rest they need and the grace to serve You faithfully in whatever capacity You call them to. May their lives be a testimony of Your faithfulness and love.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus, our Savior and Lord. Amen.
Firstly, we want to affirm your commitment to gathering with the saints. It's evident that you're not forsaking the assembly, but rather, you're finding a balance between your love for the church and your responsibilities towards your family. We pray that your church family would see and appreciate this.
At the same time, we understand and respect your obedience to God's conviction about honoring your father. It's commendable that you're considering his emotional and physical well-being, and we believe that your witness to him is strengthened when you prioritize time with him. We pray that your church family would understand and respect this calling as well.
The spiritual warfare you've mentioned is real, and we stand with you against it. We pray that you would remain steadfast in Christlikeness, even when others' reactions are influenced by spiritual forces. Remember, we don't wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12).
We also join you in praying for your father. Your heart for his salvation is precious, and we pray that the Holy Spirit would draw him to Christ. Your faithfulness in loving him, spending time with him, and inviting him to church is a powerful testimony. May the Lord use your obedience to soften his heart and open his eyes to the truth of the gospel.
For the hurt feelings that exist outside of spiritual warfare, we pray for open doors of communication. We believe that if the Lord provides an opportunity to share more about your circumstances, your words would be seasoned with grace and truth, and your church family would extend grace to you, recognizing that each believer's walk with the Lord looks different.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister and her family. Lord, You see the love she has for Your church and the desire of her heart to be faithful in gathering with the saints. We ask that You would soften the hearts of her church family to understand her circumstances and extend grace to her. Help them to see that her absence at times is not a lack of love for them, but a response to Your conviction in other areas of her life.
Father, we also ask that You would strengthen her to resist the schemes of the enemy. When others react in ways influenced by spiritual warfare, give her the grace to respond with Christlike love and maturity. Guard her heart from bitterness and unforgiveness, and help her to remember that the battle is not against flesh and blood.
Lord, we pray for her father. Soften his heart to the gospel and draw him to Yourself. Use her faithfulness in loving him and spending time with him as a witness that points him to Christ. Provide opportunities for him to attend church with her, and let Your Word take root in his heart.
Father, we also ask that You would give her wisdom in communicating with her church family. Open doors for her to share her heart in a way that brings understanding and unity. Help them to see that her love for them is real, even if her physical presence is limited at times.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would grant her and her mother strength for their health concerns. Provide the rest they need and the grace to serve You faithfully in whatever capacity You call them to. May their lives be a testimony of Your faithfulness and love.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus, our Savior and Lord. Amen.
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