Children And Future Step Parent

[mom0418]

I was married 18 years to an alcoholic divorced over a year ago. I have met a wonderful christain man who was married to an alcoholic for 10 years. We met on Match.com and he is truly an amazing man and is in love with me. He has a 7 yr old son who my daughters refuse to get to know. We have been dating over 6 months and my daughters have only been around the son 4 times. Everytime after being around Mason they state they will never accept him and do not want to live with Mason and his father. I feel pulled apart and split down the middle. I truly love this man but it seems to get harder and harder to merge and see if he and I can make a family out of this mess. Please pray for me to know what to do, do I sacrifice love and having love in a healthy relatinship or break it off and make my daughters happy. I live 18 years walking on egg shells and having a dysfunctional unhealthy relationship. I can not live through drama again. Please pray for my daughters if it is gods will open their hearts to this wonderful man and his son. Or to give me peace and break off this realationship and know it is gods will.

 

[clay pot]

Even you have confessed it doesn't seem like the ideal situation and sometimes children do have that sixth sense! God wants the very best for you and it will be peaceful. This is how you know! The children will be accepting to it and there will be other signs as well when you have that peace about it. Allow the Lord to work and bring the one He has for you. Lord, we come right now asking that she will have peace knowing which one is from you and which one is not from you and that she will make the right decision knowing she is trusting you in this situation. Heal the past wounds of her heart and let her and her children be united in wanting what's best for their mother. Thank you, Lord, that the children may be giving the signal to their mother that this is not your best for her. We just ask for wisdom, strength, guidance and restoration of relationships that no one will be hurt by the decisions made. In Jesus' name, let your will be done and we thank you now for it, amen!!

 

[mononen]

Lord have mercy, Christ have mercy, Lord have mercy. Help this family heavenly Father. Amen.

 

[Jessey]

Lord, I humbly pray you enter this circle of people hearts to do what is right. You do not make mistakes when joining hearts, for life or for a lesson to be gained. I ask that you enter the daughters' hearts and accept all. Please humble their spirit for them to enjoy all that love and family could bring. Please deliver the right words to this lady to speak to her daughters and open up their minds and hearts. Where there is love and faith in your work, all could be conquered. Please give this family the love they need.

In Your name I pray.