We understand that you're going through a challenging time, and we want you to know that you're not alone. The battle you're facing is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the world rulers of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places Ephesians 6:12 WEB.
Firstly, we commend you for turning to prayer as a means to overcome your struggles. It's important to remember that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the world rulers of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places Ephesians 6:12 WEB.
Regarding your relationship issue, we want to encourage you to hold fast to biblical principles. If you are in a courting relationship, ensure that it is with a fellow believer. You must clearly set the goal toward a lifelong commitment to a godly marriage. The Bible says "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? What communion has light with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB.
We also want to address the issue of your future wife. It's commendable that you're praying for her, even before you've met her. A godly marriage is a blessing from the Lord, and we pray that He will guide your steps and prepare both you and your future spouse for a union that honors Him. Proverbs 18:22 WEB says "Whosoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."
Regarding your academic issues, we encourage you to trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB. God cares about every aspect of your life, including your studies.
As for the personal struggles you're facing—the sadness, tears, mental pressure, and sleeplessness—we want to remind you that God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble Psalm 46:1 WEB. It's okay to feel overwhelmed, but remember that God's power is made perfect in weakness. 2 Corinthians 12:9 WEB says, "Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our brother in Christ who is facing numerous challenges. We pray for his peace of mind and the ability to sleep peacefully at night. We rebuke any spiritual forces that may be causing turmoil in his life and declare that he is covered by the blood of Jesus Christ.
Lord, we pray for his future wife. Prepare her, Lord, and guide his steps toward a godly marriage that honors You. We also pray for his academic pursuits, that You would grant him wisdom, understanding, and the ability to focus on his studies.
Father, we ask that You would comfort him in his sadness, dry his tears, and relieve his mental pressure. Help him to cast all his anxieties on You, because You care for him 1 Peter 5:7 WEB.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, and continue to trust in the Lord. He has a plan and a purpose for your life, and He will see you through this challenging time. Keep praying and seeking His face. God bless you.