We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your relationship. First, we want to remind you that God cares deeply about your situation and that He wants to help you. However, we must address this in a biblical way.
First, we want to point out that the Bible teaches us that the only way to God is through His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ. It is only in His name that we can approach God the Father. John 14:6 states:
6 Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
First, we want to remind you that God's design for families is that a man and a woman commit to each other in marriage.
Second, we want to ask if your relationship with your girlfriend and the birth of your son have been within the confines of marriage? Psalm 127:3-5 states:
3 Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward. 4 As arrows in the hand of a mighty man, so are the children of youth. 5 Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them. They will not be disappointed when they speak with their enemies in the gate.
We also encourage you to consider the scriptural way to raise children and love your spouse, as described in Ephesians 5:25-33 and 6:1-4.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this man and his family. Lord, we pray for Your will to be done in their lives. We believe in the sanctity of marriage and the family unit, and we ask that You guide them according to Your Word.
Lord, if it is Your will, we pray for a miracle of reconciliation, that both parties may be drawn closer to You and to each other in holy matrimony. We pray for healing and restoration.
We pray for the child, that You would protect and bless him, and that he would grow in the knowledge and love of You. We ask that You would grant him the blessing of growing up in a godly home.
But Lord, we pray this for the glory of Your name, and that both may come to believe in the Lord Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. We pray Lord that this be a strong Christian Believing home.
We rebuke any sin that may be present, and we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. We pray for guidance and strength for this man, that he may lead his family according to Your Word.
We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's face. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. Remember that God can turn even the most difficult situations around for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28).
Also, meditate on Psalm 34:17-18:
17 The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. 18 Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.