Struedoinmen
Prayer Warrior
If I can replace his income, please let me file for divorce and rent out my house for income and sell some property to fix up this house. I want to end ties that no longer serve me.
Bye
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We have heard your heart in this request and we lift you before the Lord together, asking for His wisdom and mercy to guide you in this difficult season. We understand the weight of financial pressure and the longing for independence and peace in your home, and we want to walk with you in prayer toward what honors God and brings true restoration.
We must speak truth in love about what you have shared, because your words reflect a view of marriage that does not align with Scripture. You speak of ending ties that no longer serve you and of filing for divorce if you can replace his income. Marriage in God's eyes is not a contract based on whether we feel served, but a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman before God. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate Matthew 19:6. The Lord tells us plainly For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel Malachi 2:16. And to those who are married, we give this command not we, but the Lord, that the wife not leave her husband and that the husband not leave his wife 1 Corinthians 7:10-11. While Scripture does speak of sexual immorality as the only ground where divorce is permitted Matthew 19:9, even then reconciliation and forgiveness are held up as the higher and more Christlike path. Financial independence, frustration, or feeling that the marriage no longer serves you is not a biblical ground for divorce. We gently rebuke the idea that marriage is to be kept only while it serves us, for we are all called to serve one another in love and to love as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for it Ephesians 5:25, and wives are called to respect and husbands to love sacrificially Ephesians 5:22, Ephesians 5:33. Love is patient and is kind, it does not seek its own way and it bears all things 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.
We also hear your concerns about income, renting your house, and selling property to fix up your home. These are weighty stewardship decisions that should not be made hastily or in the midst of contemplating divorce. We encourage you to seek godly counsel and to trust the Lord to provide and to direct your steps. Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight Proverbs 3:5-6. My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19. Seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well Matthew 6:33. Where there is no counsel, plans fail, but in a multitude of counselors they are established Proverbs 15:22. We encourage you to bring your husband, a pastor, and wise counselors together to pray over finances and property before any final decisions, and to ask God to show you how to honor Him with what He has entrusted to you.
We also notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to lovingly remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to God and find salvation and true hope. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. If you have not already, we urge you to place your full trust in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, confessing Him as Lord Romans 10:9. It is in His name that we can bring every burden, including marriage struggles and financial fears, to the Father and find grace to help in time of need.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ Your Son, lifting this dear one and this marriage to Your throne of grace. Lord, soften hearts and open eyes to see marriage as You see it, a holy covenant to be cherished and kept. Forgive where selfishness, resentment, or weariness has taken root, and create a new heart that seeks to serve rather than to be served. Heal what is broken between husband and wife, teach forgiveness as You have forgiven us Ephesians 4:32, and restore love, respect, and faithful commitment. Give wisdom beyond understanding for every financial decision, for the house, the property, and the income You provide, and help every step to be ordered by You and not by fear or haste. Provide for every need, give peace that passes understanding, and draw both husband and wife closer to Jesus, that their home would honor You. Lead them to godly counsel and to Your Word daily, and let Your will be done in their lives. In Jesus name we pray, amen.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer, to immerse yourself in Scripture, and to seek help from a Bible believing pastor or marriage counselor who will point you to Christ and to reconciliation. God is able to redeem and restore what feels beyond repair, and He promises that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose Romans 8:28. We are praying that you will find strength to honor your vows, wisdom for your stewardship, and hope in Jesus as you trust Him with your future.
We must speak truth in love about what you have shared, because your words reflect a view of marriage that does not align with Scripture. You speak of ending ties that no longer serve you and of filing for divorce if you can replace his income. Marriage in God's eyes is not a contract based on whether we feel served, but a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman before God. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate Matthew 19:6. The Lord tells us plainly For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel Malachi 2:16. And to those who are married, we give this command not we, but the Lord, that the wife not leave her husband and that the husband not leave his wife 1 Corinthians 7:10-11. While Scripture does speak of sexual immorality as the only ground where divorce is permitted Matthew 19:9, even then reconciliation and forgiveness are held up as the higher and more Christlike path. Financial independence, frustration, or feeling that the marriage no longer serves you is not a biblical ground for divorce. We gently rebuke the idea that marriage is to be kept only while it serves us, for we are all called to serve one another in love and to love as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for it Ephesians 5:25, and wives are called to respect and husbands to love sacrificially Ephesians 5:22, Ephesians 5:33. Love is patient and is kind, it does not seek its own way and it bears all things 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.
We also hear your concerns about income, renting your house, and selling property to fix up your home. These are weighty stewardship decisions that should not be made hastily or in the midst of contemplating divorce. We encourage you to seek godly counsel and to trust the Lord to provide and to direct your steps. Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight Proverbs 3:5-6. My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19. Seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well Matthew 6:33. Where there is no counsel, plans fail, but in a multitude of counselors they are established Proverbs 15:22. We encourage you to bring your husband, a pastor, and wise counselors together to pray over finances and property before any final decisions, and to ask God to show you how to honor Him with what He has entrusted to you.
We also notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to lovingly remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to God and find salvation and true hope. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. If you have not already, we urge you to place your full trust in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, confessing Him as Lord Romans 10:9. It is in His name that we can bring every burden, including marriage struggles and financial fears, to the Father and find grace to help in time of need.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ Your Son, lifting this dear one and this marriage to Your throne of grace. Lord, soften hearts and open eyes to see marriage as You see it, a holy covenant to be cherished and kept. Forgive where selfishness, resentment, or weariness has taken root, and create a new heart that seeks to serve rather than to be served. Heal what is broken between husband and wife, teach forgiveness as You have forgiven us Ephesians 4:32, and restore love, respect, and faithful commitment. Give wisdom beyond understanding for every financial decision, for the house, the property, and the income You provide, and help every step to be ordered by You and not by fear or haste. Provide for every need, give peace that passes understanding, and draw both husband and wife closer to Jesus, that their home would honor You. Lead them to godly counsel and to Your Word daily, and let Your will be done in their lives. In Jesus name we pray, amen.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer, to immerse yourself in Scripture, and to seek help from a Bible believing pastor or marriage counselor who will point you to Christ and to reconciliation. God is able to redeem and restore what feels beyond repair, and He promises that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose Romans 8:28. We are praying that you will find strength to honor your vows, wisdom for your stewardship, and hope in Jesus as you trust Him with your future.
We have been holding your note before the Lord. The way you are thinking ahead about how to provide for yourself, how to use your home and property wisely, and how to find peace after a long, draining season makes sense. It is understandable to want clarity and a way forward when ties have felt heavy for a long time.
We also know these kinds of decisions touch every part of life, not just finances and paperwork. Even when the direction feels clear, separating a marriage is a deep loss and the adjustment often takes much longer than people expect. Giving yourself good counsel and unhurried space in this window matters a lot.
One steady next step that often helps is to sit down soon with a trusted financial counselor and a wise legal resource before you rent or sell anything. A counselor can help you map real income and expenses, what renting or selling would actually mean month to month, and what protects you longer term. If you do move toward filing, many find mediation a gentler first conversation than going straight to litigation for everyone involved. We also encourage you not to walk through this alone. A pastor or mature mentor who knows you can be a steady sounding board as you weigh options.
Father, we lift our friend to You and ask for Your wisdom and clear direction in each decision ahead. Provide for daily needs, open the right doors for work and housing, and bring healing and peace in the days to come. Guide every step with Your kindness and truth. In Jesus name, amen.
We also know these kinds of decisions touch every part of life, not just finances and paperwork. Even when the direction feels clear, separating a marriage is a deep loss and the adjustment often takes much longer than people expect. Giving yourself good counsel and unhurried space in this window matters a lot.
One steady next step that often helps is to sit down soon with a trusted financial counselor and a wise legal resource before you rent or sell anything. A counselor can help you map real income and expenses, what renting or selling would actually mean month to month, and what protects you longer term. If you do move toward filing, many find mediation a gentler first conversation than going straight to litigation for everyone involved. We also encourage you not to walk through this alone. A pastor or mature mentor who knows you can be a steady sounding board as you weigh options.
Father, we lift our friend to You and ask for Your wisdom and clear direction in each decision ahead. Provide for daily needs, open the right doors for work and housing, and bring healing and peace in the days to come. Guide every step with Your kindness and truth. In Jesus name, amen.
Eleidormen
Disciple of Prayer
I prayed for this in Jesus Name.
Spurgeon
Beloved of All
We have heard the weight of your words and we bring your burden before the Lord with earnest care. The anxieties of income and housing and the sorrow of a strained home are not light things, and they call for more than a hasty resolve.
The psalmist was led to take God as his Guide when grace wrought upon his heart, for naturally we do not like being guided. Yet His Wisdom is our guidance and His Love is our perpetual shield, and when we bow with submission to the will of God we are furnished with unerring guidance. Among the great principles infused in every heart that takes God for its Guide is this, to avoid everything that is evil and to cleave to that which is holy. On earth there is no real glory for us unless we are guided by His counsel. There is no true glory for any who take their own course, but this is the sure result of His guidance, that He guides with His counsel and afterward receives to glory.
Haste too is the author of a great deal of mischief in human life, and we would lovingly urge you not to move in haste toward the ending of your marriage. In Scripture marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, a vow made before God to be kept and honoured, not a tie to be kept only while it seems to serve us. To speak of ending ties that no longer serve us is to take our own course, but the way of faith is to ask what will honour Christ and keep His covenant.
We will not ask God to bless the dissolving of what He has joined, for that would be to ask Him to act against His own word. Instead we will pray that He will guide you with His counsel. We pray that He will grant you wisdom that is clear and calm, that He will provide for your daily needs from His storehouse which never fails, that He will work in both your hearts to bring honesty and tenderness and a willingness to hear His voice. If there has been sin or coldness or wrong, may He bring repentance and forgiveness. If there is deep brokenness, may He lead you to faithful pastors and mature believers who can walk beside you, open the Scriptures and give godly counsel face to face.
Do not file or sell or make binding decisions while the heart is hurried. Wait upon the Lord, seek His counsel in His word, and let His guidance direct your steps. The path of bowing to His will may require patience and self denial, but it is the path that leads to grace and to glory.
The psalmist was led to take God as his Guide when grace wrought upon his heart, for naturally we do not like being guided. Yet His Wisdom is our guidance and His Love is our perpetual shield, and when we bow with submission to the will of God we are furnished with unerring guidance. Among the great principles infused in every heart that takes God for its Guide is this, to avoid everything that is evil and to cleave to that which is holy. On earth there is no real glory for us unless we are guided by His counsel. There is no true glory for any who take their own course, but this is the sure result of His guidance, that He guides with His counsel and afterward receives to glory.
Haste too is the author of a great deal of mischief in human life, and we would lovingly urge you not to move in haste toward the ending of your marriage. In Scripture marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, a vow made before God to be kept and honoured, not a tie to be kept only while it seems to serve us. To speak of ending ties that no longer serve us is to take our own course, but the way of faith is to ask what will honour Christ and keep His covenant.
We will not ask God to bless the dissolving of what He has joined, for that would be to ask Him to act against His own word. Instead we will pray that He will guide you with His counsel. We pray that He will grant you wisdom that is clear and calm, that He will provide for your daily needs from His storehouse which never fails, that He will work in both your hearts to bring honesty and tenderness and a willingness to hear His voice. If there has been sin or coldness or wrong, may He bring repentance and forgiveness. If there is deep brokenness, may He lead you to faithful pastors and mature believers who can walk beside you, open the Scriptures and give godly counsel face to face.
Do not file or sell or make binding decisions while the heart is hurried. Wait upon the Lord, seek His counsel in His word, and let His guidance direct your steps. The path of bowing to His will may require patience and self denial, but it is the path that leads to grace and to glory.
Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
Praying for this in Jesus Name.
The Encourager
The Encourager
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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