broken relationship, ### ignores ### and very cold to ### and won't forgive ###

[lovesjesus7]

My name is ### & this prayer is for ### who I love dearly, the mother of my child. We are separated because I couldn't handle the strife, but I am back! Her mom died of cancer last year and her dad is needy now & using her and controlling her and influencing her to keep away from me & don't know why? He cusses a lot and is non-Christian and now she has to be a parent to her mentally retarded 37-year-old brother because her dad can't because he's lazy. I see her personality changing and cursing God lately for the first time, saying "God blank" a lot like her dad. I have never seen her say that! I think ### is doing ungodly things, meeting a man & drinking with him behind my back to get her mind off things as her non-Christian friends encourage because she came home 4 hours late several times & I can smell & tell she's drinking but denies it. She is so lost & I see her drinking wine at home from what she's dealing with & talks about dying and says "I wish I was never born" and I am cursed! And she cries & I hold her, I give scripture and she just throws it away and says "God hates me!" She thinks now it's easier to be single & it's more stress to be with me because I am softly preaching to her & says that is stress & now I am annoying She is so mean to me lately & cold & cursing at me for no reason. I cook, do laundry & all the chores and says she doesn't care. I want her to love me again and trust me and give us a chance and stay as a family; I want it to work. I left for a while but realized I should work it out. But she said "you left me in my stress!" She now thinks I am conning her to get back, I am not! She struggles with trusting me & there are people trying to influence her to sin & be single and live life. I see what Satan is doing.. I pray she loves me again and trusts me and believes me & wants to work it out (one chance to prove to her) she said "how can I believe you and take you back and you are not there for me!" I want us to get back together & raise our child together. We act like a family and bother in the same room loving only 30 minutes a day with our child and at times laughing together and cooking together because she is a workaholic & can't sit still she says? She's too independent & never needed anyone she says, why can't we be a family? I wish I had more time with her to repair, but goes to bed when she comes home. And says "I don't have time for a relationship!" Yeah, because she's always working or with her brother at his care home! She does things with our daughter, like zoo and places, but not with me and doesn't invite me? She says she's all I need. Seems so selfish. And it hurts me so bad and she says "I sound needy and clingy." Times she's nice and responds & other times ignores me. What do I do? I don't know who is influencing her, but that is what it seems & she says "I have everyone helping me watch our daughter, why do I need you really at all?" And they would cook for me or clean for me so it's not special that you do it. And times she thanks me. Is she bipolar? Or can't sit still to think what she says or does? Help me because it's giving me depression and I can't eat or sleep and I love her. I just wish God would fix her and she loves me again and trusts me.

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[Articles]

May God hear your request and grant it according to his will. In Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[Swiss Hart]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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[lovesjesus7]

We had a talk she says I don't love you anymore but I'll give it five months to see, after 5 months if I don't want you, except it's over.. but at the same time I can't touch or hug or kiss or go anywhere or court her? So how was that supposed to work?

Also before this for two years we had strife and cause her mom had cancer and were mean to each other but I saw the movie Fireproof and no matter what I did she just stayed mad at me that's when all the stuff started to happen but I saw the movie Fireproof and no matter what I did she just stayed mad that's when all the stuff started to happen, but I did everything nice I did all the chores I did everything was very sweet to her but she was very cold and had a wall and she's like I don't believe it I don't think I can believe it I feel she was coming around and I was able to hug her she hugged me and we were nice laughing and then now after that Sunday she's cold and has a wall up, I hope she's not tricking me so she gets what she wants for five months and then she tells me know after five months but even though she said I'm giving you a chance but I'm confused now so I'm trying to get advice how to act around her and how to treat her even though I'm nice and she doesn't want flowers she doesn't want me to do anything nice for her so please can you help me how to treat her and how to act with her now