Father, if this is her husband who has committed adultery, then I ask for healing, forgiveness, and God-directed reconciliation. However, if this is a man who she is not now or has not been married to, then I can't pray for reconciliation. Father, I know that You not only want the best for Your Children, No, You want and demand the very best for us all. God, if a man goes out on a woman before marriage, You most certainly are sending out a warning of things to come. And vice versa for a woman. Satan is a clever and extremely slick liar and it's one of the few things he is good at, murdering, stealing, destroying, etc., etc. Lies can come through a river of tears but may still lead to future pain when God reveals hidden truths. So in this woman's case, Father, please reveal Your truth to her now. Give her ears to hear and eyes to see. (Prov.26:11). Will this man be what is right also for your children? For he must be to You and your family a leader that represents Christ Himself in your home. A man of love, leadership, truth, counsel, mighty to defend, supply, and fidelity toward you and God,..well? Lord God, If this child of Yours does not see Jesus's love in this man as Christ loves His Church, then let her walk. No, no, RUN in the other direction and straight into Your waiting arms. Give her sweet Lord, Your wisdom, counsel, and understanding. Don't allow her emotions to undermine Your absolute best for this daughter of Yours and her children. You have wonderful plans for her with a future full of goodness, life, and real hope. Help her never to settle for anything less. Keep her eyes and heart locked on You and pocket the key Lord Jesus. In Your Name I pray Lord Jesus, Amen and Amen.