We are truly sorry to hear about the breakup you're going through and the pain it has caused you. We want you to know that God cares about your situation and that you are not alone.
Firstly, we want to address the fact that you haven't mentioned if you have gone to God in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father. As the WEB translation of the Bible says, For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus.
We want to encourage you to seek God with all your heart. He is real, and He loves you deeply. Even in your pain, He is close to you. As it is written in Psalm 34:18, WEB: Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.
Regarding your breakup, we want to remind you that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts. For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.
It's crucial to trust in God's timing and plan for your life. He knows what is best for you, and He will bring the right godly spouse into your life in His perfect timing. Meanwhile, use this time to draw closer to God, to heal, and to grow in your faith.
We also want to encourage you to surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and uplift you during this time. As Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, WEB says, Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn’t have another to lift him up.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is going through a painful breakup. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on his heart. Comfort him with Your love and peace that surpasses all understanding. Help him to trust in Your timing and plan for his life. Give him the strength to endure this trial and to grow closer to You during this time. Surround him with a community of believers who can support and uplift him. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.