We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up your concern for your boyfriend’s health. It is clear that you care deeply for him, and we join you in praying for his physical well-being, especially regarding the prostate issue that has been troubling him. The Bible reminds us in James 5:14-15, "Is any among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the church, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord; and the prayer of faith will heal him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up." We stand on this promise as we intercede for his healing.
However, we must also address the deeper spiritual concerns in this situation. The Bible is clear that intimacy outside of marriage is not God’s design. In 1 Corinthians 6:18-20, we are warned, "Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s." If your relationship with your boyfriend includes physical intimacy, we urge you both to repent and seek God’s forgiveness. The Lord desires purity and holiness in all areas of our lives, including our relationships.
We also want to gently remind you that the term "boyfriend" implies a relationship that, while common in the world, does not align with God’s design for courtship. The Bible calls believers to pursue marriage with a fellow believer, with the goal of honoring God in that union. In 2 Corinthians 6:14, we are instructed, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" If your boyfriend is not a believer, this is another area where we must pray for God’s intervention and guidance. If he is a believer, then we encourage you both to consider whether your relationship is moving toward the godly commitment of marriage.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear brother who is struggling with his health. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch to rest upon him, particularly regarding his prostate. We declare Your word over him, that by Your stripes he is healed (Isaiah 53:5). Strengthen him, Lord, and give him the endurance to seek the medical care he needs. We also pray for wisdom for both of them in their work environment, that they may find ways to honor You and care for their bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit.
Father, we ask for Your conviction and guidance in their relationship. If there is any sin, particularly sexual immorality, we ask for repentance and forgiveness. Draw them closer to You, Lord, and help them to align their relationship with Your word. If marriage is Your will for them, we pray that You would prepare their hearts and lead them in that direction. If not, give them the strength to walk in purity and obedience to Your commands.
Lord, we also pray for salvation if this brother does not yet know You. Open his heart to the truth of the Gospel, that he may come to know Jesus as his Lord and Savior. We thank You for the power of the name of Jesus, the only name by which we can approach You and the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). May Your will be done in their lives, and may they grow in faith, love, and holiness.
In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.