We hear your heart, dear sister, and we stand with you in prayer as you press forward in faith. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that you may have life—and have it abundantly (John 10:10). The confusion and discouragement you’re facing—being called too young or too old—are tactics of the devil to distort your identity and derail God’s purpose for you. But we declare that your seasons are in His hands, and He is the Restorer of wasted years.
The Lord says in Joel 2:25, *"I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten, the hopper, the destroyer, and the cutter, My great army, which I sent among you."* This is His promise to you. The time lost to spiritual warfare and struggle is not gone forever—God can redeem it. He sees your repentance, your hunger for His will, and your desire to walk in His timing. We rebuke the lies of the enemy that seek to make you doubt your calling, your maturity, or your future. You are not defined by the opinions of others or the whispers of the devil. You are defined by Christ, who calls you His beloved, His workmanship, created for good works prepared in advance (Ephesians 2:10).
We also want to encourage you to guard your heart against fear. The enemy would love for you to rush ahead in anxiety, but God’s timing is perfect. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight."* You’ve laid out a godly plan—finishing your studies, serving in your church, seeking a job, and trusting God for a godly marriage. These are all good desires, but we pray they would be submitted to His will and timing. Do not let fear of "wasting more time" push you into hasty decisions. Instead, seek the Lord daily for wisdom and direction.
We also lift up your desire for marriage. It is good and right to long for a godly spouse, but we encourage you to focus first on your relationship with the Lord. A strong marriage is built on two individuals who are whole in Christ. As you grow in Him, He will prepare you for the husband He has for you. 1 Corinthians 7:32-34 reminds us that an unmarried person can devote themselves fully to the Lord’s work, and this season of singleness can be a gift if used for His glory. Trust that if marriage is His plan for you, He will bring it to pass in His perfect timing.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the Name above all names, the only Name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). We thank You for Your daughter’s heart and her desire to walk in Your will. Lord, we rebuke every lie of the enemy that seeks to distort her identity, steal her joy, or delay Your purpose for her life. We declare that You are the God who restores, and we ask You to redeem the years that have been lost to spiritual warfare. Let Your healing and renewal flow over her, Lord.
Father, we pray for clarity and direction as she seeks to finish her studies, find a job, and serve in her church. Open doors that no man can shut, and close doors that are not of You. Give her wisdom, strength, and perseverance to walk in the path You have set before her. Remove every spirit of fear and doubt, and replace it with Your perfect peace and confidence in Your timing.
Lord, we also lift up her desire for marriage. If it is Your will, prepare her for a godly husband who loves You above all else. Let her not be anxious but trust in Your provision. Help her to use this season of singleness to grow closer to You and to serve You wholeheartedly. May she find her worth and identity in Christ alone, not in the opinions of others or the lies of the enemy.
We declare that the enemy’s plans to discourage and delay her will not succeed. Instead, we speak life, restoration, and acceleration over her future. Let her steps be ordered by You, and let her move forward with boldness and faith. We thank You for Your faithfulness, Lord, and we trust You to complete the good work You have begun in her.
In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
Sister, keep your eyes on Jesus. The enemy wants to distract you with confusion and fear, but God is calling you to walk in faith. Surround yourself with godly community—people who will speak truth over you, pray with you, and encourage you in your walk with the Lord. Spend time in His Word daily, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). And remember, the same God who has brought you this far will not leave you or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). He is faithful, and His plans for you are good. Keep pressing forward!
