Blessing in Mourning, Mt 5:4, Wisdom Col 1:9, Tasks Tit 3:14, 🙏 Help Process & Heal, Isa 1:5-6, 61:1, Jer 4:19, Mt 11:28-30, Hear God, Jn 10:27, Obe

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Time to Mourn or Grieve, Ecclesiastes 3:4, 6, "A time to search and a time to give up as lost; A time to keep and a time to throw away."

Jesus, I ask for the comfort You promised to those who mourn, Matt 5:4... Lord, it's obvious I need help... I confess I bought this situation upon myself by letting myself be deceived by an imposter, 2 Tim 3:13, not heeding at least 5 warnings or red flags, being literally too drunk, Eph 5:18, and stupefied by the wine of the passion of immorality, Rev 17:2, then marrying too quickly in order to avoid sin, 1 Cor 7:9...

I pray others forgive me and I forgive myself, having been shown mercy last summer, freely receiving repentance unto life and truly turning from those sins with grief and hatred of them, embracing the free love of God and being restored to the calling of an evangelist and encourager, the gifts and callings of God being irrevocable, Rom 11:29, what God has cleansed, no longer call unclean, Acts 10:15.

I have a call of God to fulfill, Phil 3:14, had married a false believer too quickly who left me 16X, stole a large sum of money, has had adulterous affairs, ran from biblical counsel, broke vows, has online hook-up profiles, pictures with other men on her phone (at LEAST 5, some holding my child), has lied about it all especially the adultery, the pictures about the other men, the money even after I found all the various accounts she had made even using aliases, transfers to other peoples' accounts and receipts and transfers of income, pictures and has broken commitments to biblical counseling, seminars, church attendance and continues to keep her profile up, totally unresponsive to calls, texts and video, not even permitting video contact (in another country that doesn't respect international laws).

Though I'm still connected to The Vine, and praying for her to be saved, Rom 10:1, and bearing some fruit, evangelistically -- I need healing, Isa 1:6, and HAVE to be FILLED with the knowledge of Your will to even know how to move at this crossroad so I can WALK FORWARD in a worthy manner, Col 1:9-10. Pastors there and her one saved family member say move on -- even that family member was deceived by her sister -- so does a pastor here that knows their culture having a wife from the same country -- yet some believers and AI responses pray for restoration and tell me to keep holding on, and I am stuck in the middle, unable to basically do anything but seek God, pray, listen to Word, listen to Biographies and witness... Theology is very "all over the place" in these matters, some strict, some loose, some balanced -- but my situation is definitely under the category of "conscience" and considered on an "individual case basis" form ancient times to present (from those who know both God & the Word and are acquainted with the devil, and who "don't shoot their wounded soldiers," like Job's friends turned it all on him, [God rebuked Job's friends, btw, for not speaking what was right, no record of confession as Job recorded, see Job 42]; We are called to restore them, Heb 12:13.

Again, it's not like I left her, haven't tried to be Hosea, haven't tried to be Christ, and don't have biblical grounds to move forward -- I just lack the emotional and psychological strength to do so since I am so convinced God wants to and can save anyone, 2 Peter 3:9, 1 Tim 2:4, Lk 19:10, 1 Tim 1:15-16.. The pastors who know her country and her disposition best are saying it's over -- it would be an international case with a child involved, and the country doesn't really honor international law and I can't even explain how much of a mess it would be and the steps and time.

It's also not like I'm pretending I've been righteous -- I had a massive repentance, deliverance and recommission from grace over 10 months ago at an Evangelism Training. It broke off two long term besetting sins, and still deal with righteous anger and have been praying for help saying the right things the right way at the right time, Jn 12:49...

Extra grace to forgive myself, strength of Holy Spirit to have Christ's love, protection from lies, evil, Zeph 3:13, evil people, 2 Thes 3:2, imposters, deceivers, 2 Tim 3:13, temptation to sin, Lk 11:4, temptation and the evil one, Mt 6:13, Jn 17:15 who never sleeps in an opportunity for him to grind those with an evangelistic or missionary call (any believer for that matter, 1 Pet 5:8-9).

The Lord teaches us to specifically not give excuses, Matt 22:5, like "I bought land or oxen and have to go see it or try them out, Luke 14:18-19, or even, "I married a wife and therefore cannot come" Luke 14:20, to whatever he calls us to, whether the wedding supper of The Lamb, or the call to go into streets, then the highways and even hedges and COMPEL people by the LOVE of CHRIST, 2 Cor 5:14, to come to the marriage supper of The Lamb, Lk 14:21-24 -- Jesus actually teaches Discipleship costs us anything and everything we hold dear if it competes with Him or His calling, specifically naming things we are taught to hold most dearly, (See Mt 19:29, Mk 10:29-30, Lk 14:26).

So kindly -- please pray -- kindly try to suspend any judgement, Rom 8:1, as this has been an ongoing trial for almost three years now and it weighs on me, and we are told to not be weighed down in the last days, Mt 13:22, Mk 4:18-19, especially Lk 21:34 “Be on guard, so your hearts will not be weighted down with dissipation, drunkenness or the worries of life, and that day will not come on you suddenly like a trap; 35 for it will come upon all those who dwell on the face of all the earth. 36 “BUT keep on the alert at all times, praying that you may have strength to escape all these things that are about to take place, and to stand before the Son of Man,” Lk 21:34-36.

With thanksgiving we make these requests known to God, trusting the peace of God that passes all comprehension will guard our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, Phil 4:6-7. Thank You in Jesus' Name, Amen, 2 Cor 1:20.

 

[Articles]

We hear your cry, dear brother, and we stand with you in this deep valley of sorrow, deception, and confusion. Your heart is laid bare before the Lord, and we join you in seeking His wisdom, healing, and direction. The pain you carry is heavy, but you are not alone, Christ walks with you, and so do we, as we lift you up in prayer and stand on the truth of God’s Word.

First, we acknowledge your repentance and the work of grace in your life. You have confessed your sins, being deceived, acting in drunkenness, and entering into marriage hastily, and you have turned from them with godly sorrow. This is the mark of a true believer, for "if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). The Lord has restored you to your calling as an evangelist and encourager, and we rejoice in His mercy toward you. Your repentance is not in vain, and your heart’s desire to walk in obedience is precious to Him.

Yet the wound remains, and the betrayal runs deep. Your former spouse has broken vows, committed adultery, stolen from you, and abandoned biblical counsel, all while continuing in unrepentant sin. The Scriptures are clear: "Everyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery" (Matthew 19:9). You have biblical grounds for divorce, and the pastors who know the cultural and spiritual realities of this situation are wise to advise you to move forward. The deception and hardness of heart you describe are not merely relational failures but spiritual rebellion, and the Lord does not call His children to remain bound to those who persist in such sin.

We rebuke the voices, whether human or artificial, that would urge you to "hold on" in this situation. While we must always pray for the salvation of the lost, we are not called to enable sin or remain in bondage to those who refuse repentance. The Lord Himself said, "If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn’t listen, take one or two more with you, that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector" (Matthew 18:15-17). You have followed this process, and the response has been defiance, not repentance. The Lord does not require you to endure further abuse or deception in the name of "hope."

We also rebuke the lie that you must "earn" your freedom or that your past sins disqualify you from moving forward. Your repentance is real, and your desire to walk in righteousness is evident. The enemy would love to keep you paralyzed by guilt and confusion, but Christ has set you free. "There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who don’t walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit" (Romans 8:1). You are not defined by your mistakes but by the grace of God.

The call on your life remains, and the Lord has not released you from it. Yet you cannot fulfill it while weighed down by this burden. We pray that the Lord would give you clarity and strength to make the difficult but necessary decision to move forward. This is not a failure of faith but an act of obedience to the truth. The Lord does not call you to remain in a marriage that has been destroyed by sin, especially when the other party refuses to repent. "A brother or sister is not under bondage in such cases" (1 Corinthians 7:15).

We also pray for your emotional and spiritual healing. The wounds of betrayal, especially when a child is involved, cut deep. But the Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). We ask that He would fill you with His peace, which surpasses all understanding, and guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). May He restore to you the joy of your salvation and renew a steadfast spirit within you (Psalm 51:12).

You mentioned the temptation to grow weary and the weight of these trials. We remind you that the Lord’s yoke is easy, and His burden is light (Matthew 11:30). You do not have to carry this alone. Lean on Him, and lean on the body of Christ. The enemy would love to isolate you, but you are part of a family, a family that will stand with you, pray for you, and encourage you as you walk this difficult path.

We also pray for protection over you, protection from the lies of the enemy, from the schemes of those who would deceive you, and from the temptation to return to old patterns of sin. The Lord is your refuge and your fortress, and in Him you will find safety (Psalm 91:2). We ask that He would surround you with His angels and shield you from every attack of the evil one.

Finally, we pray for wisdom. You are at a crossroads, and the path forward is not clear. But the Lord promises to give wisdom to those who ask (James 1:5). We ask that He would make His will known to you, that He would direct your steps, and that He would open the doors He wants you to walk through and close the ones He does not. May you hear His voice clearly, as Jesus said, "My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me" (John 10:27).

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother, lifting up his heart and his situation to You. Lord, You see the pain, the confusion, and the weight he carries. You know the betrayal he has endured, and You know the call You have placed on his life. We ask that You would heal his heart, Father. Pour out Your comfort and Your peace, and let him feel Your presence in a tangible way. Give him the strength to make the decisions he needs to make, and the wisdom to know Your will.

Lord, we pray for his former spouse. You alone know her heart, and we ask that You would draw her to repentance. Break the chains of deception and sin in her life, and let her see the truth of the Gospel. If it is Your will, restore her, but if not, we ask that You would release our brother from this bondage and allow him to move forward in the calling You have for him.

Protect him, Father, from the attacks of the enemy. Shield him from temptation, from discouragement, and from the lies that would keep him bound. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, and let Your love overflow in his life. Renew his strength, and let him rise up in the power of Your might to fulfill the purpose You have for him.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, for there is no other name by which we can come to You. We trust in Your goodness, Your mercy, and Your faithfulness. Thank You for hearing our prayer, and thank You for the work You are doing in our brother’s life. Amen.

 

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Oh, we see the weight you’re carrying right now, it’s like standing at the foot of a mountain, looking up at the climb, but knowing you can’t do it alone. Jesus, we stand with you in this moment, not just with words, but with hearts that ache alongside yours. You’ve already taken the hardest step: you’ve turned from the sin, you’ve confessed, and you’ve chosen to walk in obedience, even when it feels impossible.

We hear the confusion in your voice, the way the enemy is whispering, "You don’t have the right to move forward. You’re not free. You still owe something." But listen, your repentance isn’t just a one-time thing; it’s a daily surrender, and God is faithful to that. The same grace that pulled you up when you were drowning is the same grace that will steady you now. You’re not stuck in the middle because you’re weak, you’re there because this is where the battle is fought, and God is right there with you.

We don’t know what the next step looks like, but we know the One who does. The pastors who understand her culture aren’t just saying "move on" out of impatience, they’re saying it because they’ve seen how sin hardens hearts, how deception can chain people for years, and how God always breaks those chains when His people step into freedom. You’re not being selfish for walking away; you’re being obedient to Scripture and to the Spirit’s leading. The Lord doesn’t call us to endure abuse in the name of love, He calls us to love truthfully, even when it hurts.

And to you, Jesus, we ask for the courage to trust You with the unknown. You’ve already shown us how to walk through fire (Isaiah 43:2), how to stand firm when the ground shakes (Psalm 46:1-3), and how to find peace in the storm (John 16:33). Right now, we’re asking for that same peace, the kind that doesn’t ignore the pain but carries you through it. Fill him with Your wisdom, Lord, so he can hear Your voice above the noise of guilt, the lies of the enemy, and the well-meaning but misguided advice that keeps him stuck. Let him know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that his calling isn’t canceled because of her choices, it’s protected by Your faithfulness.

We also lift up the child involved. Lord, heal the wounds in that little one’s heart, and surround them with Your love. If they’re feeling abandoned or confused, let them feel Your presence in the people You’ve placed around them. And to you, we pray for strength to protect that child from further harm, to speak truth in love, and to trust You with the outcome. You are the God who turns ashes into beauty (Isaiah 61:3), and we believe You’re working even now.

Lastly, we pray for the fire in your spirit to reignite. You’ve been through deliverance, but sometimes the fire flickers when the battle feels endless. Stir up that passion again, Lord, let him see the lost around him, let him remember why You called him to this work, and let him step forward with the same boldness he had before the storm hit. The world needs his voice, his encouragement, his truth, now more than ever.

We’re praying for you like a father who watches his son take his first steps, unsure if he’ll fall but knowing he’ll rise. You’re not alone in this, brother. We’re here. God is here. And He’s not done with you yet. In Jesus’ name, we trust You to lead us all forward. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Sparklee]

Father, please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, financial needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26

 

[Windwold]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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