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Disciple of Prayer
Lord, I have been struggling to be with someone I really love. Please change her heart. Please restore our friendship. In the end, it is still Your will. If we are to part ways, please make our remaining days together harmonious. If we are still meant to be in each other’s lives, please give me patience.
 
We understand the deep longing and pain in your heart as you seek reconciliation with this woman you love, and we lift you up in prayer, knowing that our Heavenly Father cares deeply for your sorrow. Yet before we proceed, we must first address something of great importance—your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father. The Scriptures declare, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB) and *"There is no other name under heaven... by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is only through faith in Jesus that we can boldly approach God’s throne (Hebrews 4:16), and it is in His name that we must pray. We urge you to examine your heart—do you know Jesus as your Lord and Savior? Have you repented of your sins and placed your trust in Him alone for salvation? If not, we implore you to do so today, for without Christ, even our deepest prayers lack power and authority.

Now, regarding your request, we must speak truth in love, for the Word of God does not leave us in confusion about relationships. You mention struggling to "be with" someone you love, and while we do not know the full context, we must ask: Is this relationship honoring to God? Are you both believers in Christ, committed to pursuing holiness and a future that aligns with His design for marriage? The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6), and that believers are not to be "unequally yoked" with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this woman is not a follower of Christ, the Scriptures warn that such a union would pull you away from your faith and lead to spiritual compromise. *"Don’t be deceived! ‘Evil companionships corrupt good morals’"* (1 Corinthians 15:33, WEB). We must also address the possibility of emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage. If there has been fornication (sex before marriage) or any form of impurity, we urge you to repent and turn away from it, for *"the body is... for the Lord, and the Lord for the body"* (1 Corinthians 6:13, WEB). Flee from sexual immorality, for it is a sin against your own body and the Holy Spirit who dwells within you (1 Corinthians 6:18-20).

If, however, this relationship is one of godly courtship—where both of you are believers seeking the Lord’s will for marriage—then we encourage you to trust in His timing and sovereignty. Your prayer for patience and harmony is good, but we must also remind you that love is not merely a feeling; it is a choice to honor God and the other person, even in letting go if that is His will. *"Love is patient and is kind... bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things"* (1 Corinthians 13:4, 7, WEB). If this relationship is not God’s plan, He will give you the strength to release it and find peace in His purpose for your life.

Let us pray together for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, acknowledging that You alone know the depths of his heart and the path You have ordained for him. Lord, if this relationship is not of You—if it is rooted in unequally yoked bonds, emotional idolatry, or impurity—we ask that You break its hold over him. Convict him by Your Spirit to surrender it fully to You, repenting of any sin and seeking Your forgiveness and cleansing. Give him the strength to walk away if that is Your will, knowing that Your plans for him are good, even when they are painful (Jeremiah 29:11).

But if this relationship *is* of You, Father, and if it is a godly courtship between two believers seeking marriage, then we ask that You soften her heart and restore friendship in a way that honors You. Grant him patience, wisdom, and a spirit of self-control as he waits on Your timing. Protect both of their hearts from bitterness, lust, or despair, and let their interactions be marked by kindness, purity, and mutual edification. Remove any obstacles that are not of You, and make Your will undeniably clear to them both.

Above all, Lord, draw our brother closer to You. Let him find his satisfaction in Christ alone, not in the affection of another. Remind him that You are his portion (Psalm 73:26) and that no earthly relationship can fulfill him as You can. If this season is one of waiting, teach him to wait well. If it is one of release, give him grace to trust You with his future. May he seek first Your kingdom and righteousness, knowing that all things he needs will be added to him (Matthew 6:33).

We rebuke any spirit of fear, manipulation, or idolatrous attachment in this situation. Let Your perfect love cast out all fear (1 John 4:18), and let Your truth expose any lie that says his worth is tied to this relationship. Fill him with Your peace that surpasses understanding, guarding his heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).

We ask all this in the powerful and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is worthy of our devotion. Amen.

Brother, we encourage you to spend time in the Word and in prayer, seeking God’s face above all else. Read Proverbs 3:5-6 and trust in the Lord with all your heart, leaning not on your own understanding. If this relationship is causing you to stumble or drawing you away from Christ, it is not worth pursuing—no matter how deeply you may feel for her. *"What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?"* (Mark 8:36, WEB). Stay rooted in a community of believers who can speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. And remember, God’s delays are not denials; His "no" is always for our protection, and His "yes" is always for our good.

If you would like further counsel or prayer, do not hesitate to reach out. We are here to walk with you in truth and grace, always pointing you to Christ, the author and perfecter of our faith.
 
We're praying with you, dear friend. We understand the depth of emotion you're feeling, and we're here to lift you up in this time of uncertainty. We've been praying for you, asking God to soften her heart and restore your friendship in a way that honors Him. We're also asking for patience and wisdom for you both, as you navigate this situation together.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's face in this. Trust in Him with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). Remember, God's delays are not denials, and His "no" is always for our protection, while His "yes" is always for our good. Keep seeking His will above all else, and trust that He has a purpose and a plan in all things.

We're here for you, and we'll continue to pray for you both. If you need further counsel or prayer, please don't hesitate to reach out. We're here to walk with you in truth and grace, always pointing you to Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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