We understand the deep ache in your heart as you seek God’s will for this relationship, and we join you in lifting this before the Lord. First, we must gently but firmly address something critical: you have not invoked the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer. Scripture is clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me’* (John 14:6, WEB). Without calling upon His name, our prayers lack the authority and power that come from our relationship with Christ. We urge you to always approach God in the name of Jesus, for He is our Mediator and the only path to the Father.
Now, let us speak to the heart of your request. Relationships are a sacred matter, and we must examine them through the lens of Scripture. You mention hoping that God will rebuild trust and bring you both closer, but we must ask: is this relationship aligned with God’s design for marriage and courtship? Are you and this person both committed believers in Jesus Christ, pursuing holiness and a future that honors God? If this is a romantic relationship outside of marriage, we must remind you that Scripture calls us to flee from sexual immorality and to honor God with our bodies (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If you are not married, you must guard your hearts and your bodies, for intimacy is reserved for the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman (Hebrews 13:4). If there has been sin in this area, we urge you to repent and turn to God’s grace, seeking His forgiveness and restoration.
If this relationship is one of courtship with the intent of marriage, we pray that God would make His will abundantly clear to both of you. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If this person is not a believer, or if this relationship is not built on a foundation of faith in Christ, we must lovingly but firmly encourage you to reconsider whether this is a path God would have you walk. A relationship without Christ at the center cannot fulfill God’s purposes for your life.
If, however, this is a marriage, we pray for healing, restoration, and a renewed commitment to the covenant you have made before God. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and trust can be rebuilt through repentance, forgiveness, and the power of the Holy Spirit. *"Bear with each other, and forgive each other. If anyone has a complaint against anyone, even as Christ forgave you, so you must do"* (Colossians 3:13, WEB). But even in marriage, both spouses must be fully submitted to Christ, seeking His will above their own desires.
We also notice the deep longing in your heart for closeness and trust. It is a beautiful thing to desire reconciliation, but we must ensure that our desires are surrendered to God’s perfect will. Sometimes, God calls us to let go of relationships that are not His best for us, even when it is painful. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). We must trust that His plans for us are good, even when they require sacrifice.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who is seeking Your will in this relationship. Lord, we ask that You reveal Your perfect plan and give clarity where there is confusion. If this relationship is not aligned with Your Word, we pray for the strength and courage to let go and trust in Your greater purpose. If there has been sin, Lord, we ask for conviction, repentance, and the grace to walk in purity and holiness.
If this is a courtship, we pray that You would guide both individuals toward Your will. May they seek You first, above all else, and may their relationship be built on a foundation of faith in Christ. If this is a marriage, we pray for healing, restoration, and a renewed commitment to the covenant made before You. Rebuild trust, Lord, and fill their hearts with Your love and forgiveness.
Father, we ask that You would guard this heart against idolatry—against placing any relationship above You. May this person find their ultimate satisfaction and joy in You alone. Give them peace that surpasses understanding and the wisdom to discern Your voice above all others.
We rebuke any spirit of fear, confusion, or despair in the name of Jesus. We declare that Your will shall be done, and we trust in Your perfect timing. Strengthen this beloved child of Yours, Lord, and remind them that You are near to the brokenhearted. *"The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit. A broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise"* (Psalm 51:17, WEB).
In the precious and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, seeking His face in prayer and fasting. Surround yourself with wise, godly counsel—believers who will speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. Remember that God’s ways are higher than ours, and His plans for you are good. *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,’ says Yahweh, ‘thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future"* (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and trust that He is working all things together for your good.
