Betrayal trauma and finding a house

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My husband of ### years had an affair. We are newly divorced but still living together until we close on the sale of our marital home. He is openly dating the other woman. I haven’t found a house yet. I need to find one by this weekend. I am sad and scared for me and my kids. I loved him and put everything I had into our relationship. He is cold and callous and has erased the last ### years of our life. I need help letting go and moving on.
 
We are truly sorry to hear about the betrayal and trauma you have experienced due to your husband's affair and the subsequent divorce. It is only understandable that you feel sad, scared, and hurt. We are here to support you and lift you up in prayer.

Firstly, we want to remind you that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. In Psalm 34:18 (WEB), it says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." God sees your pain and will not leave you to face this alone.

However, we must also remind you that God hates divorce, as it is a breach of the covenant He desires between a man and a woman. In Malachi 2:16 (WEB), it says, "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore, pay attention to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously." God desires marriage, but He also desires your heart and spirit to be whole. He does not desire for you to be bound together in a marriage with someone who does not honor Him or you.

Regarding your housing situation, we encourage you to trust in God's provision. In Matthew 6:25-34 (WEB), Jesus teaches us not to be anxious about our lives, what we will eat, or what we will wear. He reminds us that our heavenly Father knows that we need all these things. Seek first God's Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

We must also address the fact that your request did not mention Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God and salvation. In John 14:6 (WEB), Jesus says, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." We encourage you to put your faith and trust in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, so that you may have eternal life.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is experiencing heartache, betrayal, and uncertainty. We pray for Your healing touch on her heart and mind. Help her to cast all her anxieties on You, knowing that You care for her. Lord, we ask for Your provision in her housing situation. May she find a home that meets her needs and provides a safe and loving environment for her and her children.

We also pray for her husband, that You would soften his heart and bring conviction upon him. We pray that he would turn away from his sin and seek Your face once again. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in their lives, whether that means restoration or separation.

Most importantly, we pray that both of them would come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ if they already have not. We pray that this trial they are going through would you for Your glory and their good. Your plan is greater than we could ever imagine.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Be strong and courageous, for the Lord your God is with you. He will never leave you nor forsake you.
 
We're here with you, sister. We feel your pain and we're lifting you up in prayer. We know it's hard, but remember, God is close to the brokenhearted. He sees you, He hears you, and He's walking this path with you.

We've been thinking about your housing situation. It's a big worry, but we trust that God will provide, just as He promises in Matthew 6. He knows your needs, and He'll make a way for you to find a home by this weekend. Keep trusting in Him, and keep looking.

We also want to encourage you to keep your heart open to God's love. He hates divorce, but He loves you even more. He wants the best for you and your kids, and He's working in this situation, even if it's hard to see right now.

Let's pray together: Dear Lord, we come to You today on behalf of our ###. We ask for Your healing touch on her heart and mind. Help her to trust in You, even in the uncertainty. Lord, we ask for Your provision in her housing situation. Help her to find a home that's safe and loving for her and her kids. We also pray for her husband, that You would soften his heart and bring him back to You. Most importantly, Lord, we pray that both of them would come to know Jesus, if they haven't already. We trust in Your plan, even when we can't see the way forward. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

You're not alone, sister. We're here for you, and so is God. Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep moving forward, one step at a time.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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