Betrayal of friendship and healing

[Zuisor]

I would like to request prayer for something unconventional and I'm not sure if I'm even allowed to ask for prayer about this, but I don't know who else I can turn to other than God who can handle anything. A very close friend of mine betrayed me and turned very nasty against me. I tried to resolve this friendship with communication and he would get increasingly nasty and angry towards me whenever I tried. I prayed about it, I tried being a loving Christian brother to him, I showed him countless love and kindness and tried to repair this friendship through good deeds and communication and the more I tried, the more horrible he would become towards me. Eventually he snapped and said some really horrible things to me and told me we were not friends and never would be again. He's made that very clear. I'm not asking for prayer that our friendship can be restored as I know that can't happen. I told him that his behaviour was very hurtful towards me and that I was a good loving friend to him. He blamed me for being hurt by his actions and would continue to single me out to be very nasty and callous towards me while showing love and kindness to every other person. It was only me he would behave nasty too and it hurt and it felt isolating. There was no remorse or empathy in his callous actions. There was no accountability for treating someone who was so loving towards him so horribly. What I'm asking for is that God can do something in this situation. I don't know whether he wants to soften this guy's heart, or make him accountable, or convict him with the spirit or to just heal me and leave him alone. I don't know what I'm asking for but I know that God is strong enough to handle this situation and I hope one day this guy will be accountable and feel remorse for treating me so terribly when all I did was be kind and loving towards him. I just don't understand why he would be so nasty to me. I'm not exactly asking for revenge. I'm not a vengeful person. I'm a very loving person who wants harmony. I just want God to make him accountable or feel some form of remorse for the way he treated me. And I don't know if I'm even allowed to ask for that. I just want God to enter this situation because He knows what to do. I ask for your prayer and support in Jesus name, amen.

 

[Articles]

We are deeply moved by your situation and commend you for your commitment to respond with love and kindness, even in the face of such hurtful behavior. It is clear that you have sought to honor God in your actions, and we will join you in prayer for this matter.

Firstly, let us address the pain and betrayal you have experienced. It is never easy when someone we care about turns against us, especially when we have shown them love and kindness. The Bible tells us in Psalm 41:9, "Yes, my own familiar friend, in whom I trusted, who ate bread with me, has lifted up his heel against me." Even our Lord Jesus experienced betrayal, so we know that this pain is understood by Him.

We encourage you to find solace in the fact that God sees all and knows all. He is aware of the kindness you have shown and the hurt you have endured. In Luke 6:35, we are reminded, "But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing back; and your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High; for he is kind toward the unthankful and evil." Your actions have reflected this teaching, and God will honor that.

Regarding your desire for accountability and remorse from your friend, we understand your feelings. However, it is important to remember that we cannot control the actions or feelings of others. We can only control our own responses. In Romans 12:19, we are told, "Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"

Let us pray together for this situation:

Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother to You, asking for Your comfort and healing in his life. Lord, You see the pain and betrayal he has experienced, and we ask that You would bind up his wounds and bring him peace. We pray that You would work in the heart of his friend, bringing conviction and a spirit of repentance. Lord, we ask that You would make him accountable for his actions, not out of a desire for revenge, but out of a desire for justice and righteousness. We also ask that You would heal our brother's heart, helping him to find solace in Your love and care. We trust in Your perfect will and timing, knowing that You are able to bring good out of even the most difficult situations. We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

We encourage you to continue to seek God's face in this matter, trusting in His perfect will and timing. Remember, "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." (Psalm 34:18). Keep your heart open to the healing and peace that only He can provide.

Lastly, we want to remind you of the importance of forgiveness. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus tells us, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Forgiveness does not mean that what happened was okay, but it releases you from the burden of bitterness and allows God to work in your heart and in the situation. We will continue to pray for you, that God would grant you the strength and grace to forgive, and that He would bring healing and resolution to this painful experience.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, friend. It's heartbreaking to be betrayed by someone you've shown nothing but love and kindness to. We've all been there, and it's never easy. But remember, God sees all, and He knows the kindness you've shown and the hurt you've endured. In Psalm 147:3, it says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." We believe that God is in the process of doing just that in your life.

We're not sure what the outcome will be with your friend, but we trust that God has a plan. Maybe it's for healing and restoration, or maybe it's for you to find peace and move on. Whatever it is, we know that God is in control. We're not asking for revenge, but we are asking for justice. We want your friend to feel remorse for the way he's treated you, and we want him to be held accountable for his actions.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up our friend to You today. We ask for Your healing and comfort in their life. Lord, You see the pain they've experienced, and we ask that You would bind up their wounds and bring them peace. We also ask that You would work in the heart of their friend, bringing conviction and a spirit of repentance. Lord, we ask that You would make him accountable for his actions, not out of a desire for revenge, but out of a desire for justice and righteousness. We trust in Your perfect will and timing, knowing that You are able to bring good out of even the most difficult situations. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're here for you, and we'll continue to pray for you. Trust in God's perfect plan, and remember that He is always with you. As Psalm 34:18 says, "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." Keep your heart open to the healing and peace that only He can provide.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. Please Heavenly Father soften hearts and heal this relationship. Bring about peace of mind and the ability to communicate any concerns. I lift this prayer up on your glory and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

 

[Naliogate]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[hostadmin]

We want to thank you for trusting us with this deeply personal and painful prayer request. It is a sacred privilege to lift you before the Lord in this season of heartache, and we are grateful you allowed us to stand with you in agreement. The betrayal of someone you loved as a brother cuts deeply, and we know the weight of unanswered questions and unresolved hurt can feel overwhelming. But we serve a God who sees every tear, who collects them in His bottle, and who promises justice and healing in His perfect timing.

We have been praying earnestly for you—that the Lord would bind up your wounds with His tender care, that He would guard your heart against bitterness, and that He would bring clarity and peace where there is confusion. We’ve also lifted up your former friend, asking God to work in his heart, whether through conviction, accountability, or the softening only the Holy Spirit can bring. You asked for God to enter this situation, and we trust that He is at work, even when we cannot see it yet.

If the Lord has brought comfort, resolution, or even the smallest glimmer of hope to your heart, we would love for you to share a praise report with us. Sometimes healing comes in unexpected ways—a sudden peace, a new perspective, or the quiet assurance that God is carrying you. If this burden still feels heavy, please don’t hesitate to post again so we can continue to cover you in prayer. You are not alone in this, and we are here to walk with you as long as it takes.

May the Lord surround you with His presence, remind you of His unfailing love, and lead you into the fullness of His healing. We are praying that you will experience the deep, abiding peace that comes from trusting Jesus with what you cannot control. He is faithful, and He will not leave you in this valley. Keep seeking Him, dear brother—He is your refuge and your strength.

In Jesus’ name.