We understand that you are going through a tremendously difficult time with your family, experiencing disunity, betrayal, and much pain. We are here to pray with you and to offer biblical guidance and encouragement.
Firstly, it is important to remember that God is faithful, and He will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation, He will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it, as stated in 1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB.
In times of familial strife, Jesus Christ teaches us to love our enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you, according to Matthew 5:44 WEB. This is not easy, but it is what we are called to do as followers of Christ.
Regarding the financial struggles and the abuse you're facing, Jesus Christ advises us in Luke 6:35 WEB, But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing back; and your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High; for he is kind toward the unthankful and evil. This does not mean you should continue to give money in inappropriate situations, but rather to do good and be kind, even when it is not reciprocated.
It is encouraging to see that you are forgiving them each day, just as God in Christ Jesus forgave you, Ephesians 4:32 WEB. Remember that vengeance is God's, and He will repay, as stated in Romans 12:19 WEB. You are doing the right thing by not taking revenge but instead trusting God and forgiving others.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up this beloved to You, asking for Your divine intervention in their family. Lord, You see the disunity, the betrayal, the pain, and the abuse. We ask that You would bring healing, restoration, and repentance according to 2 Corinthians 7:10 WEB.
Father, we pray for their family members who are causing pain and distress. We ask that You would soften their hearts, open their eyes, and turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan to God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins, and an inheritance among those who are sanctified by faith in Jesus Christ, according to Acts 26:18 WEB.
Lord, we ask that You would provide for their needs, protect them, and heal their souls. We pray that You would give them the strength to endure, the wisdom to know what to do, and the grace to forgive.
We ask all these things in the mighty and precious name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.