Please pray for me about Satan using spiritually vulnerable people to randomly attack me to try to keep me bound in struggles with unforgiveness. It's constantly happening. I was just trying to seek encouragement from other Christian women on a Facebook group as I'm struggling a lot today and sure enough, the second I post, here comes someone in the group taking my post totally out of context and basically attacking me (anonymously of course) and then other people started agreeing with them. It's just made me feel worse. I deleted the post. This always happens. It's why I no longer interact with people much anymore especially online where people can hide behind anonymous labels. And a lot of these online groups for Christian women have some of the worst advice and behavior anyway. It's disturbing. Thank you.
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We hear your heart and we grieve with you over how heavy this has been, and we stand with you in prayer right now. What you are describing is very real, both the pain of being misunderstood and attacked, especially when you were vulnerable and seeking encouragement, and the spiritual reality behind it. We know that feeling of wanting to withdraw and protect yourself after being hurt, especially online where people can be cruel while hiding behind anonymity.
Scripture tells us plainly that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places, Eph 6:12. The enemy is real and he does prowl around like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour, 1 Pet 5:8, and he will use spiritually immature or vulnerable people to wound others, to sow discouragement and to keep us bound. We also hear you when you say these groups can have some of the worst advice and behavior, and we would gently encourage you to guard your heart with all diligence, Prov 4:23, and to test what you hear. Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God, 1 John 4:1. Much of what is called Christian community online is not rooted in sound doctrine or loving accountability, and it is wise to step back from spaces that consistently tear you down rather than build you up in Christ.
We also want to lovingly address what you shared about struggling with unforgiveness, because you correctly discerned that the enemy wants to keep you bound there. The Lord is so clear with us about this because unforgiveness is a prison that hurts us most of all. Jesus said, For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses, Matt 6:14-15. And we are commanded to be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you, Eph 4:32. Forgiveness does not mean what was done to you was okay, or that you must trust that person again or remain in a harmful group, it means you release that person and the pain to God and allow Him to be the judge and the healer. Do not seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, Vengeance belongs to me, I will repay, says the Lord, Rom 12:19. When we hold on to the offense, we give the enemy a foothold, Eph 4:27, but when we submit ourselves to God and resist the devil, he will flee from you, James 4:7.
We also want to encourage you not to let the enemy succeed in isolating you completely. It is understandable to pull back from hurtful online spaces, and wisdom may indeed call you to leave those groups permanently and seek encouragement directly from the Word and from a small, faithful, in person fellowship of believers who know you and love you well. Yet we are warned not to forsake our own assembling together, Heb 10:25, because isolation makes us more vulnerable, not less. The Lord wants to heal you in community, not just away from it.
We noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus, and we want to gently remind you how vital that is, because it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and victory over the enemy. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me, John 14:6, and there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. It is by the blood and the name of Jesus that we can bring our wounds, our unforgiveness, and our need for protection to God and find grace and deliverance.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we lift up our dear sister to You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. You see every attack, every word spoken against her, every time she has reached out for encouragement and was met with criticism and twisting of her words. Lord, You know the weariness and the wound in her heart today and the long battle she has fought with unforgiveness. We ask You to surround her with Your presence and Your peace that surpasses all understanding. We ask You to break every chain of unforgiveness that the enemy has used to keep her bound, and give her grace to forgive as You have forgiven her, not in her own strength but by the power of Your Holy Spirit. Wash her heart with Your mercy and heal the places that still ache. We rebuke the work of the enemy against her mind and heart, and we ask You to silence the lies that she is alone or that she should remain isolated. Lead her away from toxic and unbiblical counsel and lead her to quiet waters with You and to healthy, loving fellowship where she will be spoken to with truth and grace. Teach her to put on the whole armor of God daily, to stand firm, and to resist the devil so he must flee. Restore her joy, strengthen her to keep her heart guarded in Christ, and remind her that You are her defender and vindicator. We ask all of this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus, our only hope and salvation, amen.
Scripture tells us plainly that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places, Eph 6:12. The enemy is real and he does prowl around like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour, 1 Pet 5:8, and he will use spiritually immature or vulnerable people to wound others, to sow discouragement and to keep us bound. We also hear you when you say these groups can have some of the worst advice and behavior, and we would gently encourage you to guard your heart with all diligence, Prov 4:23, and to test what you hear. Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God, 1 John 4:1. Much of what is called Christian community online is not rooted in sound doctrine or loving accountability, and it is wise to step back from spaces that consistently tear you down rather than build you up in Christ.
We also want to lovingly address what you shared about struggling with unforgiveness, because you correctly discerned that the enemy wants to keep you bound there. The Lord is so clear with us about this because unforgiveness is a prison that hurts us most of all. Jesus said, For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses, Matt 6:14-15. And we are commanded to be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you, Eph 4:32. Forgiveness does not mean what was done to you was okay, or that you must trust that person again or remain in a harmful group, it means you release that person and the pain to God and allow Him to be the judge and the healer. Do not seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, Vengeance belongs to me, I will repay, says the Lord, Rom 12:19. When we hold on to the offense, we give the enemy a foothold, Eph 4:27, but when we submit ourselves to God and resist the devil, he will flee from you, James 4:7.
We also want to encourage you not to let the enemy succeed in isolating you completely. It is understandable to pull back from hurtful online spaces, and wisdom may indeed call you to leave those groups permanently and seek encouragement directly from the Word and from a small, faithful, in person fellowship of believers who know you and love you well. Yet we are warned not to forsake our own assembling together, Heb 10:25, because isolation makes us more vulnerable, not less. The Lord wants to heal you in community, not just away from it.
We noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus, and we want to gently remind you how vital that is, because it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and victory over the enemy. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me, John 14:6, and there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. It is by the blood and the name of Jesus that we can bring our wounds, our unforgiveness, and our need for protection to God and find grace and deliverance.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we lift up our dear sister to You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. You see every attack, every word spoken against her, every time she has reached out for encouragement and was met with criticism and twisting of her words. Lord, You know the weariness and the wound in her heart today and the long battle she has fought with unforgiveness. We ask You to surround her with Your presence and Your peace that surpasses all understanding. We ask You to break every chain of unforgiveness that the enemy has used to keep her bound, and give her grace to forgive as You have forgiven her, not in her own strength but by the power of Your Holy Spirit. Wash her heart with Your mercy and heal the places that still ache. We rebuke the work of the enemy against her mind and heart, and we ask You to silence the lies that she is alone or that she should remain isolated. Lead her away from toxic and unbiblical counsel and lead her to quiet waters with You and to healthy, loving fellowship where she will be spoken to with truth and grace. Teach her to put on the whole armor of God daily, to stand firm, and to resist the devil so he must flee. Restore her joy, strengthen her to keep her heart guarded in Christ, and remind her that You are her defender and vindicator. We ask all of this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus, our only hope and salvation, amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We hear how painful that was. You reached out for encouragement on a hard day and instead were taken out of context and piled on, anonymously. Of course that left you feeling worse, and it makes sense you deleted the post and want to pull back from those spaces. It is discouraging when a place that should offer support feels unsafe.
We also hear how much you want to be free from the struggle with unforgiveness, and how these fresh hurts keep stirring it up. When you are trying to let go of an old wound, being wounded again can bring all the rumination and hurt right back. That does not mean you are failing. Often the decision to forgive and the slow quieting of the emotions do not happen at the same pace, especially when new interactions reopen things.
One thing that helps many people in your spot is to step back from large anonymous groups for a season. They rarely give the care you need when you are vulnerable. If you need encouragement, a smaller circle is usually steadier, maybe one trusted woman in your church, a pastor's wife or mentor you know personally, even if you connect only occasionally. Giving yourself permission to not engage or to leave a thread quickly when it turns unkind is a healthy boundary.
Father, we lift our sister to You. You see how tired and hurt she feels today. Cover her with Your peace, guard her heart from bitterness, and give her wisdom about where to seek fellowship that is safe and kind. Lead her in Your way to healing and rest. In Jesus' name, amen.
We also hear how much you want to be free from the struggle with unforgiveness, and how these fresh hurts keep stirring it up. When you are trying to let go of an old wound, being wounded again can bring all the rumination and hurt right back. That does not mean you are failing. Often the decision to forgive and the slow quieting of the emotions do not happen at the same pace, especially when new interactions reopen things.
One thing that helps many people in your spot is to step back from large anonymous groups for a season. They rarely give the care you need when you are vulnerable. If you need encouragement, a smaller circle is usually steadier, maybe one trusted woman in your church, a pastor's wife or mentor you know personally, even if you connect only occasionally. Giving yourself permission to not engage or to leave a thread quickly when it turns unkind is a healthy boundary.
Father, we lift our sister to You. You see how tired and hurt she feels today. Cover her with Your peace, guard her heart from bitterness, and give her wisdom about where to seek fellowship that is safe and kind. Lead her in Your way to healing and rest. In Jesus' name, amen.
EnricoLange
Beloved of All
Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
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