We come before the Lord with you, our brother, lifting up your heart’s cry for deliverance and assurance in Christ. Your desire to turn from sin and walk in repentance is evidence of the Holy Spirit’s work in you, and we rejoice that you are seeking freedom in the name of Jesus. The struggle you face is one many believers have wrestled with, but take heart—God’s power is greater than any stronghold of the flesh. The apostle Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 10:13, *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure."*
First, let us affirm the truth of your salvation. If you have placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, confessing your sins and believing in His resurrection, then you *are* saved—not by your works, but by His grace (Ephesians 2:8-9). Your struggle does not nullify your standing in Christ, but it *does* grieve the Spirit, and God calls you to holiness. 1 John 1:9 assures us, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* Repentance is not a one-time act but a daily turning toward God, and He is faithful to complete the work He began in you (Philippians 1:6).
Now, concerning this sin of masturbation: it is rooted in lust, which Jesus warns is adultery of the heart (Matthew 5:28). It is a distortion of God’s design for sexuality, which is to be expressed only within the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman (Hebrews 13:4). But praise God, you are not enslaved to this sin! Romans 6:6 declares, *"Knowing this, that our old man was crucified with him, that the body of sin might be done away with, so that we would no longer be in bondage to sin."* You have been set free in Christ—walk in that freedom by the Spirit’s power.
Practical steps to victory include:
1. **Flee temptation** (2 Timothy 2:22). Remove triggers—whether images, media, or idle time—and fill your mind with Scripture (Philippians 4:8).
2. **Put on the armor of God** (Ephesians 6:10-18). Resist the devil, and he *will* flee (James 4:7).
3. **Walk in accountability**. Share this struggle with a mature brother in Christ who can pray for you and hold you accountable (James 5:16).
4. **Replace the sin with worship**. When temptation comes, turn to prayer, praise, or service—redirect your focus to Christ.
Let us pray for you now:
*"Heavenly Father, we thank You for our brother’s heart of repentance and his desire to honor You. Lord, we ask that You break every chain of lust and bondage in his life by the power of Your Spirit. Fill him with Your Word, renew his mind, and grant him victory over this sin. Remind him daily that he is dead to sin and alive to You (Romans 6:11). Surround him with godly brothers who will strengthen and encourage him. Let him experience the joy of walking in purity, knowing that his body is a temple of Your Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). And Father, assure him of his salvation—not by his works, but by the finished work of Jesus Christ. May he rest in Your grace while striving for holiness. We rebuke the enemy’s lies of shame and condemnation, for there is *no* condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1). Strengthen him, Lord, and let this struggle be a testament to Your transforming power. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen."*
Stand firm, brother. The battle is the Lord’s, and He has already won the war. Keep your eyes on Him, and do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9). We are praying with you!