We understand your frustration and pain, and we are here to support you in prayer and guidance. Firstly, we want to assure you that your trust in Jesus is the most important aspect of your life, and it is wonderful that you have this foundation. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men, by which we must be saved.
Your feelings of being treated like a child could indeed be stemming from childhood trauma, which has unfortunately hindered your personal growth and how others perceive you. It is important to remember that God sees you as a grown child with value. As written in 1 Corinthians 13:11 You should Turn Away from and Stop evil behavoir, attitudes, and intentions of a child. It is written in 1 Corinthians 13:11 WEB: When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I felt as a child, I thought as a child. Now that I have become a man, I have put away childish things.
It is also important to have courage about finding a spouse, as God does have someone for you. Have courage and do not worry. As written in Matthew 6:25 WEB: Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious for your life: what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?
We pray that God will heal your past trauma and help you move forward in maturity, career, and relationships. We pray that others will begin to see you as the capable and mature individual you are. We pray that God will guide you to a godly spouse, and that you will be a blessing to others as well as be blessed. As written in Romans 8:28 WEB: We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today to lift up our brother in Christ who is feeling stuck in his personal growth and relationships. We ask, Lord, that You would heal any past trauma that is hindering his maturity and help him to move forward in his career, relationships, and ministry. Help him to be seen as the capable and mature individual he is, and guide him to a godly spouse. Help him to fully express himself and to be understood. Help him to walk in the fullness of the stature of Christ. We ask for this in Jesus Christ as it is written 2 Corinthians 5:17 WEB Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel and support as you walk through this healing process. Surround yourself with believing brothers and sisters in Christ who can encourage you and hold you accountable to grow more and more as a fully grown child of God.
