We lift this situation before the Lord with heavy hearts, seeking His peace and wisdom in the midst of anxiety and doubt. First, we must address the foundation of this request—it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father, and it is by His grace alone that we find true peace. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to consider the words of Acts 4:12, *"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."* Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life, and without Him, our efforts to find peace will always fall short.
Now, regarding the relationship described, we must gently but firmly address the term "boyfriend." Scripture calls us to pursue godly marriages, not casual or temporary relationships. The term "boyfriend" often implies a relationship that lacks the commitment and covenant that God designed for marriage. If this relationship is not moving toward marriage, we must ask whether it aligns with God’s will. The Bible is clear in 2 Corinthians 6:14, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If your boyfriend is not a believer, this is a serious concern that must be prayerfully considered. Even if he is a believer, the relationship should be pursued with the intent of marriage, not merely companionship.
The anxiety and doubt you describe are real, and we do not dismiss them. However, we must also recognize that anxiety often stems from a lack of trust in God’s sovereignty. Philippians 4:6-7 reminds us, *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."* We encourage you to bring every fear, every doubt, and every overwhelming emotion to the Lord in prayer. He is faithful to meet you in your weakness.
We also rebuke the spirit of fear that seeks to take root in your heart. 2 Timothy 1:7 declares, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* Fear is not from God, and it must be resisted with the truth of His Word. When anxiety arises, counter it with scripture. Speak aloud the promises of God over your life and your relationship. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*
Communication is another area where the enemy can sow discord. James 1:19-20 instructs, *"So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger; for the anger of man doesn’t produce the righteousness of God."* When emotions run high, pause and invite the Holy Spirit to guide your words. Speak with gentleness and humility, even when it is difficult. Seek to understand before being understood, and always extend grace, just as Christ has extended grace to you.
We must also address the potential for sin in this relationship. If you and your boyfriend are engaging in physical intimacy outside of marriage, this is fornication, and it is a sin that grieves the heart of God. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 warns, *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."* If this is a struggle for you, we urge you to repent and seek accountability. Set boundaries that honor God, and remember that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit.
Now, let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, lifting up this sister and her relationship before You. Lord, we ask that You would reveal Your will for her life and for this relationship. If it is not Your plan, give her the strength to walk away. If it is Your plan, lead them both toward marriage with purity and godly intent. Father, we rebuke the spirit of anxiety and doubt that seeks to steal her peace. Fill her with Your perfect peace, which surpasses all understanding. Guard her heart and her mind in Christ Jesus. Lord, we ask for wisdom in communication. Help them to speak with love, patience, and understanding, even in moments of stress. Father, if there is any sin in this relationship, reveal it and bring conviction. Lead them to repentance and restoration. We pray for healing in their emotions and for a deeper trust in You. May they both surrender their fears, their plans, and their futures into Your hands. Strengthen their faith and draw them closer to You. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above all names, the only name by which we can be saved. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from mature believers who can walk alongside you in this season. Surround yourself with a community of faith that will pray for you and hold you accountable. Remember, God’s timing is perfect, and His plans for you are good. Jeremiah 29:11 assures us, *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,” says Yahweh, “thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."* Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
